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Archived questions from: July, 2013 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

I lost my friend to a girl, now they're fighting. Are they likely to break up or patch things up? I want my friend back.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

31 July 2013 (M) - Basically I'm just asking when couples start having arguments to the point where they think about breaking up, does that mean they are likely yto break up or will putting wrong to right make them stronger than ever then make them work? I'm askin...

Is it normal that I've never felt any sort of spark when meeting someone or when in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

31 July 2013 (F) - Is it normal I've never feel any sort of spark when meeting someone or when in a relationship? I haven't had many serious relationships at all, recently I went on a date a few days ago with someone who seemed perfect for me on paper and who I've rea...

How do I keep this relationship without having contact with his friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4155 days ago

31 July 2013 (F) - How to tell him that's not what I want? I was on a trip, and met this guy. The way he dressed and acted I didn't know he was so young, 30. I am in my 40s with grown child. We spend couple days together, and on a second day I stayed with hi...

My fiance and I are currently planning our wedding for December 2013 but I don't want his friends there.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

31 July 2013 (F) - My fiance and I are currently planning our wedding for Decenber 2013. The problem is I don't want his friends there. Please advise me on how to handle this. Six months ago (when we were already engaged), he was invited to a wedding without ...

Is she really busy as she says, or just keeping me on hold?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4147 days ago

31 July 2013 (M) - There's a girl I really like and know through my summer job. We talk quite a bit and I enjoy her company. We can be really honest with each other, she tells me about things how she felt a bit overwhelmed away at school or goings on in her life, etc. ...

Lessons Learned from having a fling with an unavailable/in denial man

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31 July 2013 (M) - As the title goes this is not a question, but some lessons I have learned after having a fling with an unavailable/in denial man. I love storytelling and so I am going down that road with this one. It is going to be long but insightful and in case ...

If a guy 'likes' a photo of a woman in a bikini, does that mean he likes the woman?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

30 July 2013 (F) - This is likely just me over-thinking things again, but a little input would be lovely anyway :) So, a social media question - I recently put a photo of me in a bikini at the beach on Facebook (which I found tremendously difficult to do. I've had...

My friend is trying to get pregnant on purpose. Her b/f doesn't have a clue..do I tell him?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

30 July 2013 (F) - My friends from school (lets call them sarah and matt to make it easier) have been with eachother for 9 years and from what I can see, their relationship is on the rocks. ? sarah confided in me last night that she has stopped taking her ...

Does he want to keep in touch or was he just being polite?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4160 days ago

30 July 2013 (F) - Hi I haven't seen a friend of mine (who I've known for a few years) in over a year because we're in different parts of the country right now but we do keep in touch over email every so often. He did say to keep in touch and seemed interested i...

My friend is chain smoking and it kills me to know what it is doing to him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

30 July 2013 (F) - Hi one of my male best friends recently started smoking which deeply hurt me, to the point it made me physically agreessive. I'm not an agressive person but its the one thing in th world I hate, more than drugs and all the other awful stuff around ...

I have strong feelings for my friend but am sexually restricted by my culture. What do her actions mean? What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4151 days ago

30 July 2013 (M) - I am an Arab man (but also a Christian). The rules and traditions in my country told men to treat women except their wives as sisters (with no sexual feelings) and told women not to wear sexy clothes. Of course man and woman can do whatever...

Does my ex have feelings for me, or is he just messing with my head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

30 July 2013 (F) - So this question is about my ex. We dated about 2 years ago for a very short period of time. We went to the same school for 4 years and remained friends after dating. He didn't seem that into me and we were both young. We would still text and flir...

Was she hiding something, or trying to reassure me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

30 July 2013 (M) - My girlfriend gets a phone call from a guy while we were cuddling. They seem to know each other very well judging by their tone of their voice. Afterwards, she automatically and pro-actively explains to me who this guy was - they have known each ...

My boyfriend flirts shamelessly with other women but freaks out if he sees me with another man. Why do men flirt when they are in a happy relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4163 days ago

29 July 2013 (F) - My boyfriend is 3 years older than me we've been together for 4 years and lived together for 3 years. He's very sweet and always compliment me and tell me I'm beautiful. His problem is that he likes to flirt and I know its harmless but its getting ...

He seems interested in me and I'd be happy to have a platonicc relationship but I'm attached

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

29 July 2013 (F) - A senior from my school recently started talking to me on facebook. He's really good-looking, the tall,dark, handsome mould actually. We were talking for about two days when he asked me out. I'm actually fine if things between us were platonic, but ...

I feel like I'm falling for my best friend but I'm worried about pushing him away

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

29 July 2013 (F) - i feel like i am seriously falling for my best friend. this is very confusing to me, though not really because i guess it kind of makes sense. we seem to be perfect for one another but i think we are both afraid to make any initial steps into doing ...

I told my girlfriend's friend she was hot, and now there is friction between them

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

28 July 2013 (M) - Dear cupid, Just eight days ago , I said to my girlfriend's close friend , in front of her, that "Oh my God, you are one hell of a hot girl." . Her friend just smiled whereas my girlfriend said "Enough" . Ever since that happened, my girlfrie...

Have I just been asked out or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4163 days ago

28 July 2013 (F) - Can anyone - preferably male - shed any light on how a man who is otherwise very confident will behave when he is supremely shy with women, and very very rarely takes interest in a woman in the sense of being attracted to her? I ask because I'm not ...

What do I do to keep him chasing me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

28 July 2013 (F) - I have known this guy for a year n half we were pretty close. Recently he has given me excuses that is far too busy to msg me i let it slide he may be telling the truth. I have his other number i see him online on whatsapp at stupid times. Anyway...

I like a guy from my karaoke club and he flirts with me but he comes in with another girl

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4148 days ago

28 July 2013 (?) - Usually about every Saturday I go to a club(karaoke) and I have some friends male and female. One guy there he is a really good singer and him and I have done some duets together. I have been told that I sing good as well. I know it might sound ...

We were close friends until I told him how I felt, now he has cut contact with me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

28 July 2013 (F) - Been close friends with this guy for over 3 years; friend, confidant, etc. He was widowed over 2 years ago, and in the past year, we became close as he was ill and i was helping out etc. Long story short, too much contact, too much sharing, I fell ...

Do I believe the things he tells me when he's sober or when he's drunk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

27 July 2013 (F) - I have been talking to this guy for a while now. We were once best friends but we have decided to take our relationship a little further. (we're not officially together though). He likes to go drinking with his friends but he's not a heavy dri...

My husband's friend verbally attacked me and my husband believes him over me even though there were witnesses

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

27 July 2013 (F) - Hi,I am 24 years old and I now its 3 years to my marriage and there was always problem my husband spent more time with friends thn me.....but I managed as I love him so much,but now one of my husband's friend his name is suraj and he is married and ...

Need Advice to get my best male friend back!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

27 July 2013 (F) - I need help, I'm confused and hurt! I'm a 29 year old female with two kids that just now file for a divorce, before our divorce I always call my childhood friend (married man now) for advice cause he's always good at that, he's the type of friend y...

How can I improve my attitude towards dumping guys too quickly?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

27 July 2013 (F) - I just need you all to read dis and help me wit a reasonable solution. I am a young pretty girl in my twenties,bt i have never had a stable and lasting relationsip ever since i started dating. Am always getting piss off easily and always e...

Is is wrong to have sex with my ex husband's best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4136 days ago

27 July 2013 (F) - So me my now ex husband and our best Male friend and his now ex wife,have all been friends for many years. me and my ex husband were married for 5 years and my friend and his wife where married for 7 years.. my birthday recently passed and my ...

Is there any hope in getting out of the friendzone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4165 days ago

27 July 2013 (F) - Okay, so, this guy and I have known each other for 3.5 years. I'm 23 he's 21. I'm his second oldest friend because he has Avoidant Personality Disorder. We recently had a big fight and had to work it out. We got everything all worked out and over ...

I ruined my boyfriend's friendship without meaning to, how can I fix the situation?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4164 days ago

27 July 2013 (F) - Hello all. As background:My boyfriend has always been concerned of whom I talk to. To the point where he feels my male friends or males that try to talk to me are all trying to get me into bed according to him. This triggered me drawing myself f...

Thoughts on losing virginity to a ''friend with benefits''

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

27 July 2013 (F) - Ok so, this might sound really childish and terrible but I honestly have NO idea what to do and since the whole topic and question in hand is on my head I need help with the answer: Ive been in a ''Friends With Benefits'' relationship for about a ...

My neighbors are careless regarding security and have been consistently rude to me since I politely pointed this out to them

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4166 days ago

26 July 2013 (F) - I am pretty irate at the moment. I have new neighbours who I can refer to as hypersensitive. When they first moved into my building, their visitors used to leave the main building door open and this posed a major security risk. I even witnessed ...

He always texts me first but I feel like he only writes to me because he's bored

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

26 July 2013 (F) - this guy I communicate with always texts me first, but doesn't want to know anything about me. after he texts me I am the one who ask how he is or questions about him. we don't have any sexual talk. and when I ask him why he talks to me, he gets ...

How do I resolve my feelings about my sexuality? Should I wait until I have my first crush on a girl?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

26 July 2013 (?) - I think im bi. Not completely positive, but i will see another girl sometimes and be totally turned on. Like girls my age. i KNOW i like boys though. but i dont know how to tell my parents or anything. its so wierd. I dont really know what im asking ...

I lost my best friend because I didn't want to date her. Now she has shut me out of her life and it really hurts

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

26 July 2013 (M) - Hi everyone. My best friend has had feelings for me for a long time, we both knew it but we decided to not worry about the future when I would fall in love with someone else and "just enjoy today". She knew I didn't feel the same and said she wa...

My boyfriend's friends are too needy! It bothers me that we cant do things as a couple

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

26 July 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I are both 28 years old. He is the love of my life and the best person I have been with. We both always say how Much we love each other and have stated we want a future together. We are both saving at the moment but are thinking of ...

I feel like I'm too unsociable to ever meet a girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

26 July 2013 (M) - I feel like I'm to unsocial to ever find someone I like(as in to go out with). I never really been that interested in dating but also when I get the opportunity to go out and meet girls my own age I make excuses to not go, for example, it was my ...

He says he can't marry me because of his parents but we are intimate. Should I stop this?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

25 July 2013 (F) - Well I don't know from where do I start. I'm in a very difficult condition to be understood by anyone. My story has started one year back when I kissed him for the first time. It's not that I haven't kissed any guy before him but with him something ...

Does his sweetness mean he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

25 July 2013 (F) - Hi all, Please help meeeee!!!I'm heartbroken right now... Its been a month since I met this guy.Initially wasn't much interested in him.But after getting to know him better, I really started liking him a lot.I cant stay without talking with him...

I really like this girl but all my friends hate her! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

24 July 2013 (M) - I realy like this girl but all my friends absolutly hate her. I want to keep my friends and i want to keep my girl what should i do and then to make it worse im to shy to ask her out in person and im not going to ask her out on the phone. i think ...

My landlord wants to date me and is buying and fixing things in the apartment. It's scaring me, what do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

24 July 2013 (F) - Hi everyone, I've recently moved to a new city. I was pretty upset the first time I met my landlord, as my flatmates decided that me being the new girl, they could play a cruel trick. So he helped me out and sorted the situation. Compl...

Why does my friend go weeks without speaking to me? Should I stop talking to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

24 July 2013 (F) - Why does my friend behave this way? Should I reply back to her? So my friend went on holiday and I asked her to get me some make up from there. Is cheaper where she went. I was on the phone to her the day before she left and was textin...

Is my ex trying to get back together or does he just want to be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4168 days ago

24 July 2013 (F) - I left my boyfriend about a month ago. He didn't understand why and we got pretty bitter every time I tried to explain it. We didn't speak for three weeks. I didn't think we'd talk again. About a week ago, He then tried to contact me, I shot him ...

His friends are immature -- should I say anything about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

24 July 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I are both 29 years old. He is the love of my life and the best person i have been with. We both always say how Much we love each other and have stated we want a future together. We are both saving at the moment but are thinking of ...

How can I learn to open myself up to others and become more social?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4168 days ago

24 July 2013 (F) - Hi Everyone, I'm just curious to know If anyone can help me. I have social issues. I'm a reserved person, not so much shy, but I find it extremely hard to communicate with people even when I really want to ? When I'm interested in a guy and he'...

We're not together but we're jealous of each other. How can I get him to trust me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4169 days ago

24 July 2013 (F) - I'm in a complicated relationship with this guy. We are not together, but we are somewhat talking I guess. We are close friends who have feelings for each other. We made a vow that we would always be open and honest with each other no matter ...

Is she being friendly,interested or am I friend zoned?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

24 July 2013 (M) - So there is this girl I realized I kind of have a thing for, but have not really done anything about it. We do work at the same place I found out that this is what she thinks of me. "Sometimes people touch you, and you want them in your life for...

I'm not sure if anyone wants to date me and its making me depressed. I'm worrying my friends are talking about me behind my back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4169 days ago

24 July 2013 (M) - I need help but I'm not sure what my question is, I am sorry for the length of this but any help for my situation would be greatly appreciated . Okay to start with I hang out with a fairly large group of friends, a few girls and the rest guys, b...

Does my bi friend have hidden feelings for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

23 July 2013 (M) - Hey Cupids, I’m looking for some sensible advice. First off, I’m gay and my friend is bi (he hates the label). He’s one of my best friends but I’ve also come to realise that he has become very attentive and emotional around me. He didn’t see me f...

Will I get played by the HUGE player?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4169 days ago

23 July 2013 (F) - I've known this guy for 4 years, we met through my ex because they are childhood friends, He continuously made an effort to converse with me and finally I talked back and we became close, Like best friends . tHey lived in a different state. To m...

"Girlfriends before friends" -- why?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

22 July 2013 (F) - Hi I want honest opinons in this. I;ve read so many questions about female friends being ditched their male friend gets a gf and I notice in every single one people say, "so they should" "girlfriends come first" etc. I have been on the receiving...

My best male friend has cut me out of his life after his wife got jealous

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4170 days ago

22 July 2013 (F) - My male friend and I have been best friends ever since High School. We are both grown around our 30's now and we've been talking on the phone and emailing each other past years, I'am married with 2 kids and he just got married last year and a ...