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writes:This is likely just me over-thinking things again, but a little input would be lovely anyway :)So, a social media question - I recently put a photo of me in a bikini at the beach on Facebook (which I found tremendously difficult to do. I've had anorexia for the past few years now, and I finally feel confident and strong enough about my body to actually go out in a bikini - but that's beside the point!!)Anyway, a guy I fancy 'liked' the photo (as well as a couple of other guys, one of whom I haven't seen for a while and has been trying to figure out his sexuality, the other is someone I had a brief flirtation with).The guy I fancy is currently at university and I'm actually joining him at the same institution in a few months. We catch up via Facebook Chat from time to time, we met a couple of years ago through a mutual friend and *really* hit it off and he's remained in touch since. We have quite long catch-ups on Facebook from time to time, with flirty undertones (I think. I always doubt my judgement about these things).Anyway, liking a bikini photo of someone you've flirted with - do you think that's indicative that he fancies me back? We're both very into running and he's invited me out for runs later this summer when he's back home, and he's also invited me to a party which "I *have* to come to" (Quote).Also, for all the men out there, if you liked a photo of a woman in a bikini, is that something you would really, really think through (seeing as the person in question will be able to see your 'like' and could possibly misconstrue it) or is it more a case of "Oh, that girl's got a pretty decent body/looks quite cute, I'll 'like' that."Thanks for any input!!
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reader, LivingWithBadDecisions +, writes (31 July 2013):
 i like pictures if the girl looks nice whether its hot or she just looks nice
have fun at the party but dont get drunk with him because youll regret it.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (31 July 2013):
 I personally use the "like " button as a way to say "acknowledged " when I view something on social media. It does not mean I always like it.
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reader, adaminio +, writes (31 July 2013):
Lads can like photos for different reasons.. she looks nice, she looks cute, Aww bless her etc.. take it a good thing you got likes :)
It doesn't mean they fancy/like you when they do.. but go for it with him don't get drunk at the party be yourself and have fun. See how it goes
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reader, llifton +, writes (31 July 2013):
 I think you're overthinking things. People like photos on Facebook all the time. If I liked a picture of a girl in a bikini it was probably because I just thought she was hot. But I wouldn't have put any more thought into it than that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2013): No...he just likes the picture (but it's still a compliment!)
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