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writes:I've known this guy for 4 years, we met through my ex because they are childhood friends, He continuously made an effort to converse with me and finally I talked back and we became close, Like best friends . tHey lived in a different state.To make a long story short, my ex told me our friend moved and changed his phone number so we lost touch. he called me out of the blue one day saying he stole my number from my exes phone because he wouldn't give it to him.We began to talk and he told me he moved to my state so we could see each other more often. He also told me while he was away he thought about me so much and he realized his feelings for me. But the problem is HE is a HUGGE player! one of the worst ive seen and I know because when we hung out he'd have so many girls talking on his phone and everything. He claims hed never cheat on me because we've been best friends for so long and we are close and he'd never want to ruin that. I didn't believe him, although ive been inlove with him, taking it there has never been an option.He says he wants our relationship to be perfect so we should remain friends for now until we can really be together( hes in the army and doesn't want a relationship while hes there). He says hes going to prove to me he will be 100% honest and faithful. He tells me Im the only girl for him. He lets me go through his phone, he calls me everyday and night. And we video chat sometimes too. Ever since we have gotten back in touch I realized hes more caring and thoughtful. His fam and friends say that he treats me so different then any girl and he constantly tells me he loves me. Hes not acting like the guy I use to know. And I love that, but im still skeptical. Hes so affectionate now and He says im different and don't fall for his bs.When me and him first started being friends he didn't want me to tell my ex but he eventually found out and wasn't happy, this time, my ex didn't know we were communicating again and he told him himself, while I was there that, he fell for me a long time ago and wanted to pick things up where we left off. my ex was upset but nderstandingShould I take this chance ? The feelings I have for him ive never had for anyone. I was with my ex for 2 and a half years and I gave that up just to have him in my life as a friend. If I do date him, then wouldn't I be like any other girl who fell for him ?ALso even though hes moved to my state hes still pretty far and I cannot see him day to day. I simply asked him to write me a letter and he promised he would but its been weeks and he still hasn't done it. Hes not ever busy, if he loved me why is it so hard for him to take a hour out of his unproductive day to write and send me a letter? I constantly remind him...
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSorry I should of worded that better, He moved to my state because he's in the army but because he's there, its possible we could see each other more.
Ive known him for 4 years and we've only lost touch for about 6-7 months, I loved him then and I love him now.
And yes that's what IM saying, he's in the army and he doesn't want to pursue a relationship because he wants things to work out between us because he wants to be with me long term and he doesn't want to mess anything up.
We don't video chat often, actually we've only video chatted once or twice and I just want something from him that im able to hold on to, for sentimental value while hes in the army.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2013): I don't know how this story will develop. But I can guess how it will end. When the smoke clears this is what the bottom line will be:
1. You will have slept together sporadically when it was convenient for him.
2 He will not have committed to you.
3. You will have waited around for a while before eventually give up on him. You end up feeling used and hurt.
You have been warned.
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