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Was she hiding something, or trying to reassure me?

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Question - (30 July 2013) 3 Answers - (Newest, 30 July 2013)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My girlfriend gets a phone call from a guy while we were cuddling. They seem to know each other very well judging by their tone of their voice. Afterwards, she automatically and pro-actively explains to me who this guy was - they have known each other for 5 years etc

My question is- is she trying to hide something by explaining to me ( guilty conscience) or is she trying to re-assure me that this is just an ordinary person?

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A female reader, goldie22 United Kingdom +, writes (30 July 2013):

No offence meant but the fact that you had to ask this question suggests you are paranoid/insecure by nature, so she was prob just trying to reassure you!

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A male reader, SensitiveBloke United Kingdom +, writes (30 July 2013):

SensitiveBloke agony auntShe was trying to explain that this guy is just a friend and so is no threat to you.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (30 July 2013):

Honeypie agony auntHow long have YOU known her? I am guessing the relationship is fairly new?

And yes, I think she wanted to be upfront with who it was. Some guys (and girls) have weird reactions to their partner having friends of the opposite gender.

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