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Archived questions from: January, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

Friends: Help and advice

Bullied in college, what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - recently in college a girl has began bullying me, making comments about things i have posted on myspace and saying awful things about me i had talked to her a couple of times before and we seemed to get on quite well but now shes just attackin...

In love with my boyfriend and my best friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4151 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - Hey guys...I don't really know what to do...yet sometimes it seems so obvious... I've had this boyfriend for almost 3 years (we'll call him Rob for this)...he himself broke up with me after a year and 5 months..then we got back together...i could de...

What would YOU have done???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I was sitting in homeroom and this girl was talking to my homeroom teacher at his desk. Suddenly, she dropped her backpack, ran to the garbage can, and started throwing up. No joke! It was a very strange start to my day (and quite disgusting). ...

Please help, I'm so sick of being messed around by this guy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - Hi. Im trying to figure out something with this guy I've been sort of on and off with for a while, a good few years to be exact. I dunno if anyone can help me but I'm so confused. See, I've been hanging out with this guy, lets call him Jack, an...

Dysfunctional Friendship/Romance

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I live with my best friend in the whole world, but in the past we were a bit more than friends. I regret it now, but we've slept together many times - but it never felt like just sex, it was always really... loving. I started to fall in love with ...

Is he ashamed to take me out and be seen with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - Hi folks... look at me the bore sitting in on a Saturday night!!... Okay, so I've been seeing my boyfriend for about 3 months now. We dated loads before we said we were 'official.' And in any respect, we've done the whole relationship thi...

We're very close and act like a couple but he has a girlfriend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5764 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - So, me and a guy are very close. But the thing is he has a g/f for about 2 years. We both know each other for about a year and a half. Me and him talk every day, and do everything as a couple. We are practially like a couple, but he has a g/f. When ...

I feel like sometimes I am more of a annoyance than a friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5764 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - My ex and I were together for 5 years and split up for 3. We were best friends going into the relationship. Now it's definitely not the same. I've moved on and so has he. Which we both are totally comfortable with. He always says he wants to hang ...

I always end up giving my friend oral sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I really need some help. For the past year there is this guy that I used to work with. When working together we would run off after work and fool around. Now that I don't work there any more we still talk and I'll go see him on his lunch hour and I ...

Irish catholic?????

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - This guy described himself once as "Irish catholic." obviously, this means he's Irish, but does it mean he's also of the catholic religion? Sorry, this is probably a stupid question....

I am in a cycle of disappointment. How do I get out of this cycle?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

31 January 2009 (M) - Hi. I have never gotten what I wanted in terms of love. I've always jumped for the stars, but landed even harder for it. I continually go for the girl who is my dream, rather than reality. I am in a cycle of disappointment. How do I get out of this ...

I am soooooo unhappy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5750 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - Hiyya everyone, I'm 11 and i am soooooo unhappy. At school there's this girl who thinks we're like best friends, and i just hate her i only have say 2 half close friends, i feel like i have no friends, like i don;'t WANT an of the girls in my clas...

Every day we get a "run-down" of pregnant co-worker's condition!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - Hi, i need some advice on how to deal with my colleague.She is 7 months pregnant and all she goes on about all day at work is her baby!!! Its her 1st and i know she is excited but honestly from the moment she gets in work at 9am until 4.45pm whe...

Should I go for it? Or just stay friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - There’s this boy he’s 18 and I am, we met a long time back, and we really got on. Gradually we became friends, and he took me out to restaurants, and movies etc…. We had a great time, and I always did with him for some reason. Then a feeling grew ...

Lonely because I'm insecure and don't trust men.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I'm a 39 year old single woman and have been treated badly by men all my life either been lied to or cheated on but now I'm so insecure and can't trust anyone that I drive men away, I just met this lovely guy but within 3 days I managed to lose him ...

What do you think about this dare? I am upset!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - Theres this guy in my school who i really really like. Lets call him Mark*. He's really friendly, nice and has a very warm personality. I think he likes me too because he hugs me for no reasons, compliments me, always stares at me and one time he ...

I offered to have sex with my gay friend to "turn him straight"! What now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I'm going to be 16 soon. I've known this gay friend for years now and we're really good friends. I tell him everything and vice versa. A while ago, he was really depressed because the guy he likes for a long time finally decided to tell him the ...

Hockey game w/co-worker--husband says its a date!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I am going to hockey game with a male co- worker. He knows that I am married and we are just friends. My husband is really bothered by it because he said that men and women can not be just friends.My husband said that I am going on a date and ...

The age difference is freaking me out! How do I forget him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - There's been this guy that I had been asking questions about lately. He and I have known each other for about five years; have become really close friends for 2 1/2 to 3 years and have started really flirting back and forth since last summer. He w...

Had drunk sex with a friend is there still a chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - Ok this is a really confusing and complex situation and I need some guys point of view on this but ladies feel free to help ;) I've been friends with this great guy for about a year now and we went to college together. We're both pretty much...

I don't want to be the "other girl" in his life...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - hi everyone. I am in love with a guy older than me(10 years). I am about to turn 18 in March. Something really weird happened yesterday and I hope y'all would be able to help me out a bit here. Since our families are close together,he call...

Advise me please. Should I just get over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I asked this question before in the past about this guy that i've liked but here's a little detail i forgot to add in, okay well just in case some of you don't know my situation, there's this guy who i liked since last year May and before i liked ...

My crush on my friend's boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I like my friends boyfriend but I liked him before her and she hurt me by going out with him and me and him flirt a lot and she wants me to stop but I don't know when I'm doing it, I'm just being myself. What should I do? She really hurt me and ...

Best friend & I like the same boy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - me and my best friend like the same boy. but she is not the type of girl that boys like cuz she is a bit fat and tall. but im good look and he seems like he likes me but i dont want to hurt my best frends feelings by flirting wit him or goin out ...

My BF's "friend" is too friendly!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - My BF of one year was seeing other people when we first met. I knew he was sleeping with one friend of his and well as with me, but we weren't together back then and our relationship wasn't serious so I didn't worry about it, just used condoms. A...

What are good ways to tease my guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5762 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - What are good ways to tease my guy? We're both going to the mall tonight...trying on some clothes? He wanted to get a little freaky in public, but I'm not ready for sex yet! :-) We've gone as far as very, very passionate kissing and a little tou...

Am I really cursed by this gorgeous face?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - I was shocked today when my male bestfriend came out and said that hes bi and that he likes me.. We were walkin on the street when he told me... Im a guy too and I didnt expected it! I posted a problem a week ago and now here comes another pr...

I can't betray my love...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I don't even know where to begin. So I should probably start from the beginning. 2 years ago I had a relationship with a much older man than myself, who is married and happeend too be a radio DJ. I have wrote posts on here before in the past in case ...

Do I forgive her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - Hi, it's me again I posted recently about a girl admitting she had feelings for me while having trouble with her boyfriend. Well whats happened now we had another falling out after she misunderstood something I said. What happened was she...

I can't tell my friends what I am doing

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - hi im not really sure if there is a question in this, im so confused, i think i just needed your opinion on my situation as i cant talk to friends about it i have a best lad friend who i trust with my life and everything in it, we began fooling...

She doesn't like me the same way I like her and now I feel so awkward around her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - I like this girl in college but she does not feel the same way about me, because of this I started to avoid her/ignore her. She would try and talk to me but I would just shun her away. Well I thought that was immature, so started speaking to her ...

Do you think I should wait for her to come back from her year out and ask her out again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - Hello, A year or so back I started university and made friends with one of the kindest and nicest looking girls I have met. We meet up every week to chat and frequently chat online too. In November I took her to the botanical gardens to tell ...

Should I give up on a relationship with him or should I hang in there?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I met this really great guy in college. We started off as friends, during the course of our friendship I realize I wanted to be more than just friends. I told him how I felt, and turns out he felt the same way, but he never told me because he ...

Submissive and wants my permission to masturbate!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5764 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I met this guy online, cute, successful, seemed absolutely normal. We have seen each other twice each time for 24 hours straight and have talked on the phone for probably the past month. Extremely physically attracted to each other as well. Have ...

I have a boyfriend but I'm a big flirt. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - Well I'm a thick brown skin 14 year old girl who has a fat butt and medium sized boobs. I get a lot of attention from boys and I love flirting with boys, but I have a boyfriend and he knows that boys always flirt with me but never says anything ...

Should I have sex with a boy I lust for if I already have a boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - Ok well Im 14 and I had sex with this boy that I was talkin to for 2 months and I always liked him the first time I saw him, and also we have health class together. anyways after we had sex a couple of days later I didn't talk to him for like a ...

She keeps saying I'm her best friend, but I don't feel it that way.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - She keeps saying I'm her best friend, but I don't feel it that way. I've known this girl since my childhood and our families have been friends since then. Now she is girlfriend to my friend but their relatiorship is not that good. So now every day ...

What are some hot, sexy party games we can play?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - hey i am having a get together with my lover and some of our friends and was wondering does anyone have any ideas for some hot party games sexy, kinky, sweet or otherwise plz and thank you...

How on earth do I get back in contact???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I'm kicking myself at the moment. I have been on a four day training course, where I meet a lovely guy, we exchanged the odd word here and there but I was too shy to start a conversation as I would have got tongue tied. I often caught him glancing ...

I don't want to fall for "him" all over again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I have this huge problem. 3 years ago I really fancied this guy in my year... it was my first crush and I was a bit obsessed, he was the best looking guy, really funny, like you know the type who aways shouts out jokes in class and all the guys are ...

My girlfriend sees me more like her best friend rather than boyfriend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a year and a half and I really love her and she loved me too... But last night I knew something was up, so I asked her. It took a while for her to tell me, but I told here I was here for her. She said I ...

How can I get the love from my girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - Hi I'm Kai and have a problem: I love a girl but she doesn't loves me but she likes me i don't now how i can do that she loves me?? Please help me. PS I'm from Germany and I hope you now what I want!...

Do city guys like girls who live in the countryside?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I need some advice on city men. I am a countryside girl, I'd like to know how do I deal guys because I find them different form countryside lads....

Should I have to be the one to say "Yes I want you stop seeing other people"?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I am currently in a non-exclusive relationship. I feel that I am not able to continue this way because I am falling for him and fear being hurt when he is with another girl. I told him this and he said that if I gave the word he would stop seeing ...

Is my friend acting this way because of her boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

30 January 2009 (?) - My best friend and me went to this party. She heard her boyfriend was there as well and she started looking for him. Long story short I saw her running down the stairs crying. When I ask her what was wrong (in private) she wouldn't tell me because ...

I just want to know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I have a MAJOR crush on one of my friends. I really like him and he knows it. It Doesn't seem to effect out friendship, which is good, and i really want to know if he likes me. He always looks at me literally when i turn to look at something by ...

I feel like my friends are bullying me! What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - Hi. I'm starting to worry about what people think of me at university where I'm studying. I don't feel like I've been under very much stress lately, but for whatever reason, I just have a feeling that people are starting to like me less than they ...

How do you make guys like/approach you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - I've tried it all. They ask for my number but never call. They look but never approach. Am I not attractive or is it just because I'm not from around here? help..... I dont know what to do....

I don't want to give blowjobs but it seems like a problem.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Every time I make out with a guy they always go down on me or should I say oral sex but I feel bad because they lay back expecting me to do the same thing to them which I can never do because it seems disgusting!!! I know it's unfair for them but I ...

I think I like him in 'thataway' and I know he likes me. I'd love to take the change, but I'm literally terrified.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5766 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - I'm not really sure where to start.. It's been a long time since I've had to post anything on this site.. I was going out with a guy up until about 18 months ago. We broke up because he was controlling, critical, emotionally abusive, a habitual ...