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Archived questions from: 25 January, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

What's wrong with my body... am I some kind of mutant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5771 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - This is a super weird and embarrassing question, which is why I'm asking people who don't actually know who I am. :) but like, when I get my period, I can't use tampons. I try to get it... in, but it doesn't go in. It's annoying because I can't go ...

So difficult just to forget about him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - I asked a question a while ago asking what to do about a boy and I got a good response. I have taken the advice about just to forget him but how can I when I see him every day at my bus stop and he always stares at me on the bus. My friends always ...

What's the difference between seeing someone and going out with someone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - What's the difference between seeing someone and going out with someone? The guy I am with says we're just seeing each other. ...

Friendships...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - Also, I have another question regarding making friends. I am a very social person, and I often find myself taking the initiative, making the first move, inviting other people, etc. I notice other people keeping their distance, being friendly and ...

I'm in a dilemma... I'm in Love With My Best Friend???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - Over the past few months, I've grown really close to a guy, we are best friends now and I care about him so much. The only trouble is, we've gotten so so close lately, I'm beginning to feel more than just friendship towards him. I'm not sure i...

Is he interested? Or just being polite?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - Hi there. So I have known George* for about a year now, but we really just started noticing each other in college during the past 2 months or so. George knew that I was in a long-term relationship, so obviously he did not make a move then. But ...

Is it possible that he's really changed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - is it possible for people to really change? ive been friends with this guy for a really long time now and hes an extremely smooth talker who has hurt, cheated and manipulated other ppl including me. he was then deeply hurt by someone he really cared ...

Emotional games with guys are making me very unhappy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5771 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - Im so unhappy..I think my friends playing mind games although he says he isnt and ''respects me'' he flirts one minute, (when we are drunk he tries to kiss me most nights. we came close to having sex one night but we stopped).he acts distant and...

When I see him now I run away

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - When I was with my gf and i saw one guy he's good lookin' so we did see each other and smile at da same time!.. then I saw him again he's my classmate.. We have never talk til one day out of college he looked me and said hey! and i was like hey! and ...

Is being friends with your ex after a break-up completely impossible?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5771 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - I've never been friends after break-ups with my past ex-boyfriends, but this time, I want to stay as friends with my ex-boyfriend. And he seems like he feels awkward about the idea and does not hang out with me after the breakup. Is being friends ...

I feel like I need to leave him alone...but I really can't!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5771 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - I just graduated college a couple weeks ago. While I was in college I had a few guy friends, but I never had a boyfriend. There was one particular guy that I messed around with for about 2 years. I loved spending time with him and I loved beening ...

Feeling left out in this place

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, My family and I live in a small town. It is a very nice community and everyone is friendly. My husband and I are both friendly people. We are both likable people. We mingle easily and have no problems when we are at a social gath...

My 2 guy friends want to share me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - I have two guy friends that both like me. (They are friends) They want to share me somehow they both feel that it's ok for both of them to be with me. When one's not around they feel its best for me to have one around if they are both not available. ...

We're definite opposites--can this work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5771 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - Hi I'm desperate for some advice! Today my best friend told me he loved me. Of course I was clueless before but I'm single and I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO! I think I like him, I really do, but after all we are best friends and I don't want to end up ...

Are teachers at the prom ever asked to dance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - You know how teachers are at the prom? Do people ever ask them to dance... like, kind of as a joke? Kind of as friends? I was just wondering if it happens and if it's appropriate....

How can I be more fun in school?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5770 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - In school, I'm focused, so i feel like guys always see me as a stickler. how can i be more fun in school? even when i'm in a class without friends?...

Am I being racist?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - Hello all! There is a guy who likes me a lot but is not the same race as me. He is such a great guy but I only see him as a friend because I dont date of my own race. I dont know if this sounds racist, because I dont think I am a racist. I have ...

Should I ask my friend about his sexuality?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5772 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - Hi, i have a friend who is 29 and as far as we know (we've known him since school) is a virgin. He's never had a gf and often expresses crushes on women at his work, etc, but will not ever act upon it, even if a woman asks him out. He's fairly shy, ...

I cant make new friends!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - Hi. I have been trying to make new friends for about a year. I got out of a long relationship a year and a half ago, graduated from college like 3 yrs. ago and changed churches, got older (LOL), quit a job...etc. A lot of things have changed in my ...

Calls me babe& hun whats it mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - if a guy calls you babe and hun does that mean that he likes you ...

Straight girl gay guy, best friends? or more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - I cant tell anyone I know :( and am so sorry that its lengthy but have a lot of complications! * Am I in love with my gay best friend? * Is my gay best mate not gay? Facts... *We're 22, *, best mates for 7 years and Still going strong. *dated...

Gazing into my eyes what does it mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - What exactly does it mean when a guy and girl gaze in each other’s eyes for several seconds? It happened to me with a good guy friend of mine. We’ve known each other for about five years, but lately he’s been flirting with me a lot. I really li...