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female
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41-50,
*ancakes rule
writes:I have this huge problem. 3 years ago I really fancied this guy in my year... it was my first crush and I was a bit obsessed, he was the best looking guy, really funny, like you know the type who aways shouts out jokes in class and all the guys are like his minions and most people worship but at the same time the BIGEST bastard I have ever met. Things ended badly when it came out I liked him but he didn't like me, it got to the point where I wanted to move school. I didn't and we became friends but at the same me and the rest of the girls kept going on about what a bastard he could be.I started a new school this year and, lo and behold, there is some one EXACTLY like him. I'm starting to like him but between what I know about him and what the girls in my year have told me, he is the same bastard. I don't want to fall into the same trap again... I need to get over him but I don't know how. please give me some advice on how to do this!!!
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reader, Mels +, writes (30 January 2009):
We all have had a crush on a guy like your "bastards", we all are attracted to bad boys in a way or the other. Just see that for what it is: just a crush. Guys like him enjoy all the attention and love just one person: themselves. So, even if he liked you, he would not make you happy. In my school, my "bad boy" was so popular he dated all the popular girl and would not even look at us "common girls" but I can tell you that every monday, on the gym's walls somebody would write "P is a bastard". He might have been so cool but he certainly did not know how to treat a girl. I'm sure yur school is full of great guys, cincentrate on them and ignore this guy. Maybe who knows, he'll chase somebody hard to get. That way you'll be different than the usual girls who adore him... Good luck
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