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writes:Every time I make out with a guy they always go down on me or should I say oral sex but I feel bad because they lay back expecting me to do the same thing to them which I can never do because it seems disgusting!!! I know it's unfair for them but I can't help it.Seems like every girl my age is doing it but I just can't do it!!!!! What should I do because it seems like guys won't approach me any more.
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reader, aunty_rach  +, writes (30 January 2009):
hmm i don't agree with Tra4od saying "spit" if you don't like the taste, just don't let him cum in your mouth..period! i always tell a guy, let me know when u r going to cum and as he is about to cum i stop giving him a bj and just give him a hand job. that way i don't have to take a mouthful of cum and feel sick.
as for saying a guys bits look disgusting, i kinda agree and don't agree. some can look nice, but to be honest i prefer looking at pecs,abs,and ass rather then his penis. not to mention his face. penis's aren't really that pretty.sorry boys! i think us girls just look abit more neat and tidy, as we don't have it all hanging out. i don't think they are disgusting, they are just not that pretty to look at. so maybe that's what you mean.
so if you don't want to give a bj, don't...but just don't expect any oral from him. after all we only give to get.
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reader, Dear Doris +, writes (30 January 2009):
Well as long as you let them know then there is nothing more you can do...and as I said before if they are still expecting its there fault and probably not the kind of guys you want to be around. :o)
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reader, tazdevil +, writes (30 January 2009):
honestly, if the guy wont approach you because you don't give them bjs. then its better for you! i mean why would you even want to go with a guy who expects you to do stuff for him. if your not comfortable with that then find a guy who will respect your decision..
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reader, tra40d +, writes (30 January 2009):
 As you can see, I did answer you, but my response was virtually moderated out of existence - you got less than 10% of what I posted.If my postings are to be so severely abridged/censored, is there any point to this site and/or my efforts?I was being helpful, not obscene.Ron.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionlike before we even get to kissing i let the know that i dont give head but they do it anyways expecting something in return which they wont get i dont know i really confused
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThaks everybody, appreciate all your advice.
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reader, lacexoxo22 +, writes (29 January 2009):
 Another good thing is to warm the guy that your not into that BEFORE they do anything to you, that's selfish if you ask me, I wouldn't receive if I'm not going to give....it's just rude. Also it's something that may just take time to get used 2...a lot of girls your age also don't like giving head, so just explain first hand that you don't do oral, so if they perform on you don't expect anything in return...if it's something that really bugs you and you want to like it, try using those edible oils and all those different things they make for "giving head". I don't know...either learn to like it or just don't do it, those are really the only two options you got. Good luck, hope this helps.
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (29 January 2009):
if you don;t want to give blow jobs, DON'T!
forget the guy, you should never feel like you should do something just because he wants it. just tell him you don;t want to, if he has a problem with it...dump his sorry ass. he obviously does not respect you if he tries to pressure you into giving him head.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (29 January 2009):
 Well, for the guys who still want to be with you, just tell them up front that you will not do any oral for them. It may eliminate oral for you as well, which is only fair, but at least the cards will be on the table in advance.
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reader, tra40d +, writes (29 January 2009):
Why do you think men's bits are more disgusting than women's?Do you enjoy being licked out, having your clit sucked and gently nibbled? Being brought to a flooding orgasm and having him lick you clean?Getting the point, here?OK, let's try to be constructive.....what exactly turns you off, assuming he is clean and smells OK? (Tip: shower together first, and wash each other's bits!)I can understand that you might not want to swallow - it's nice for him if you do, but if you really can't stand the taste, spit!Are you OK with your technique?(Mod Note: Some text missed, too graphic Ron!!!)
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reader, Dear Doris +, writes (29 January 2009):
Never do anything you dont want to...If a guy is happy to satisfy you orally then yay....but if you dont feel comfy you shouldnt but made to feel guilty or like you owe them one so to speak and if a guy is trying to make you against your will then he doesnt respect you and maybe you shouldnt be with them...just be honest.Never feel you should be doing things just because eveyone else is.....its what you want to do that matters and counts and all you should be worrying about!!! Respect yourself and others will too. :o)
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reader, LOSTONEla +, writes (29 January 2009):
you should never be pressured into doing that - when you find the right person, things will change - with time and love - you will likly change your mind - dont be in a rush
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