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Archived questions from: 15 January, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

I've told my girlfriend to fuck off at the moment and not speak to me...

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15 January 2009 (M) - I have a serious problem with trusting my girlfriend. We've been together for 3 months (a long time for me) and we just argue A LOT we get on most of the time but a while ago, she was going home after seeing me, she usually catches the bus home, ...

Am I as gay as I thought?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

15 January 2009 (M) - For the past year I have known, (or at least thought) that I am gay. I am not attracted to women physically, nor have I ever been. But I am still yet to find a boy that I love. I have fallen in love with girls, but not with boys, but am sexually ...

Shy girl needs help with a boy problem!!

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15 January 2009 (F) - I'm 17 years old and I'm really shy. Although I have no problem making easily friends with girls I feel uncomfortable talking to guys. With this in mind...there's this guy that I'm interested in. I don't really talk to him but i'm almost sure ...

I feel like we have such strong feelings for each other but very confused as to what he is feeling.

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15 January 2009 (F) - I have been getting to know a man for a couple of months. He just got out a relationship recently.(3 months ago) He is a very withdrawn guy but trusted me enough to discuss his feelings with me. I've never met a man who had such strong emotional ...

Could it lead to a custody battle if I let my Turkish friend know I was pregnant by him?

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15 January 2009 (F) - I'm nearly 20 and having a baby that is the result of a one night stand with a turkish boy the same age as me whilst I was on holiday. We used a condom but it must have split. The only way I have of contacting him is facebook, although I haven't ...

I don't want him to think of me as a child because of our age difference...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - I am almost 17, and I met a guy at the place I work. I instantly felt a connection with him, and I think I really like him. He's a freshman in college, so he's probably about 19. We were talking a lot and he seemed to be interested but I couldn't ...

I have no plans but do I lie and say I do?

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15 January 2009 (F) - Hello Cupiters! I am going out on a first date with this guy I met online about a month ago. Now we're just talking texting.. Anyways, we already have plans for Saturday (dinner, miniature golf). We were having a good conversation this morning ...

Great at giving advice to others but can't help myself... HELP!

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15 January 2009 (F) - Teenage issues, friends with problems, I give them advice, but when it comes to myself, I'm useless! Boys, one in particular, but we've been amazing friends for just over a year. I liked him before, told him and he rejected me, we continued bei...

I'm up at my dad's and BORED!

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15 January 2009 (M) - I feel really depressed, I am on holidays at my dad's and the only kids I know up here are two girls who when we first met, got along really well but now I feel they only talk to me when they have to because they are friends of the family. I took a ...

Shy and afraid...

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15 January 2009 (M) - hi, I am male 19 years old and never been in a relationship and this represents a huge problem for me and in my self confedence. I am shy with girls and got nervous when dealing with them, I am afraid and don't have the courage to talk to a girl, ...

Old flames meeting up again wanting fun but nothing serious... any harm in that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - thro' the wonder/monster that is social network websites, I have just got back in contact with an old ex. He is an old flame only, a steamy college romance that petered out and it was never a serious relationship or anything but the chemistry was ...

I want to know how he feels without letting him know how I feel, how can I do it?

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15 January 2009 (F) - I'm in Year 9 and recently I've started to fall for a sixthformer in Year 12. I'd say we're reasonably good friends and we get on well, but I don't know what to do. He's generally a nice person but he's being really nice to me, I don't know if ...

My friend is a good mum but she doesn't eat enough and I'm scared she will pass out and I'm worried about the kids...

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15 January 2009 (F) - I have a very good friend but I think she has an eating problem. She starves all day and is below size 4 in clothes size, she has two young kids below 2. She also has a boyfriend, whenever he gets in from work she starts an argument and is ...

He told me he is not comfortable with us as a couple and I should move on... All I can do is cry... please help.

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15 January 2009 (F) - My relationship began in February 2000. I was living with a man on and off for the last 9 years. The problem was that he cheated once with an ex girlfriend, next with a co-worker and the last one was with one of his friends. During this time, my ...

He wants me to stay single, but he's taken?

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15 January 2009 (F) - He got mad at me when I got a boyfriend. I gave him opportunities, but he said that he can't.He must don't like me. But when I try to hug him, he says, "Can' get too close to youcause that vibe I got for you." He hugs a lot of girls, but not me. ...

How can I be more assertive and not feel jealous of these other girls?

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15 January 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend, but we are in a forbidden love, so at school we are together all the time, but deny it when people ask. He is a popular senior at school and he spends some time kind of flirting with other girls and especially the hot ones!!! ...

First she loves me... now she hates me!

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15 January 2009 (M) - first she loves me... then she hates me A quick introduction. - I have been told that I'm very good looking - I've never kissed before (although I have come close) - I'm shy around girls, unless I know them well - I have good, kind-hearted p...

She said she wants space, but is still talking to me?

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15 January 2009 (M) - She said she wants space, but is still talking to me? So basically she said she needs space to figure her self out, because she still hasn't completely grieved over her ex of 3 years, so i think shes goign to use this space time to do that, while th...

I am scared to give him my virginity, I would if I knew for sure that he would marry me.

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15 January 2009 (F) - Ok, this is my dilemma. I am 17 years and my boyfriend is 18. We became friends online and then moved our friendship off-line and met in person. We became close friends instantly. As our friendship blossomed even more he would hint to me stuff about ...

Sick of games!

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15 January 2009 (F) - I used to be really good friends with this guy. He claimed to love me and acted like I was the best person he ever met. Maybe I'm corny, but I could feel a real connection. We had everything in common and I've never met anyone like him before. ...

I don't want to disappoint him...

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15 January 2009 (F) - I am a little worried about this guy I have arranged to go out with, we have been talking to each other for a long time and he finally asked me out which I am made up about, the problem is he thinks I am this confident funny person who is up for ...

But I'm sick of being so damn dependant upon him. I'm a grown up now. And I want him to see it!

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15 January 2009 (F) - I want to go back to school so badly.. I have now come to the realization that I will be NOTHING in life without a degree. I have not a clue on how to aproach my father about this topic.. Let alone, it being unamimous.. Simply because, NoV 07. I...

Need an answer to this asap or it will drive me mad

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15 January 2009 (F) - Hi, have a male friend, who is also a family friend, we have always been really close and can usually talk about anything. Of late I have been feeling very emotional and confused about a lot of things. I have tried to talk to people about it but ...

I don't feel that "spark" any more between us.

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15 January 2009 (F) - I'm engaged to a great guy. Treats me better than I feel I deserve sometimes. We've been together for 5 years. We met when I was 19 he was 21. He had been engaged to a girl he had dated sense high school. She cheated on him and they broke up. Not ...

I am gay and I should be with women but I still feel that the father issue is not solved in me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

15 January 2009 (F) - I was brought up by my mum and great auntie, both strong and independent women. My mother married my father but then left him as she found it difficult to live with him (she moved to another country to be with him there and felt very isolated, my ...

I want to confess and tell my friend I have feelings for her...

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15 January 2009 (F) - Honesty.. I have been in love with this girl I'll call her X better.. So, I have loved X for almost 5 years, actually only 4 years and few weeks. Not many people know that I'm a lesbian. I have not even confessed to her yet but I'm struggli...

She panicked and ran away when she saw me!

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15 January 2009 (M) - So after months of being ignored and no contact from a girl that claimed was "in love" with me, I ran into her on the bus on my way back from work. When she saw me she turned around as if she didn't see me. I approached and called her name very ...

I just need other opinions, maybe some good thoughts...

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15 January 2009 (F) - What does it mean when your ex of seven years says "sorry Jade, I can't acccept your facebook friend's request until you go to treatment and better yourself bff (best friends forever) love Jay" but yet he will talk to other girls on facebook that...

Girlfriend ended things but still has strong feelings... Confused!!

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15 January 2009 (M) - Ok here's the deal... I've been seeing what is now I guess my Ex for 7 months, but we were living together for 6 months before that and travelling together spending every waking moment and a lot of experiences together, so in reality it feels a lot ...

I had sex with a male friend..now what?

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15 January 2009 (F) - after a night of intoxication a male friend and i ended up sleeping together. he and i have been good friends for about 6 years, and although i always found him to be a great guy, i never allowed myself to be interested for fear of ruining our ...

Why do I feel like I'm in the wrong group of friends?

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15 January 2009 (M) - HEYY!!!! again lotmoney13!!!!!anyways i dunno why but this question is a lot diffrent from my usual romance questions. So lately i dunno why but, i've been doubting some of my friendships and i need advice. So some of my friends and i like doing...

My best friend has plans for me and her after high school...and I'm not so sure?

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15 January 2009 (F) - Hello. I'm a junior in high school. My best friend is moving to Florida soon... and well, she has all these great plans for her and I meeting up after I graduated and she plans on us living together so we can go to college together. Well, I'm not...

She says if I ever need anything..I want to have sex with her

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15 January 2009 (?) - ok there is this 35 year old mom who lives next to me. her 8 year old son is best friends with my 8 year old brother. we have been neighbors for about 4 1/2 years now. she has always been very nice and really cool. she always says if i ever need ...

Confusing guy problems

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15 January 2009 (F) - I know this is a little long but please read. This guy has been so confusing lately. It all started in the summer when I told him I liked him. He said he wanted to get to know me more and just stay friends, but that a relationship was a possibility ...