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Archived questions from: 19 January, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

I love him, I really do, but why am I having feelings for other people?

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19 January 2009 (F) - I have a boyfriend. I've thought that I'm in love with him. Well stuff happens, we fight and stuff and I just feel bad, I don't know, it's hard to explain but I talk to my guy friends and some I really am developing feelings for. Like I can't ...

Do you think I should just put him in a friend catagory and chalk it up as a mis-match?

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19 January 2009 (F) - Well, I am back again. I posted a few days ago, "second date and wanting to know where its going". I didnt ask him about his thoughts on a relationship because it is still early, but I did bring up the subject of what he thinks thus far. He said ...

Help me have more confidence with the ladies.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

19 January 2009 (M) - Hi, I have a little problem with my friend. We know each other for 2 years now and she likes me very much. So do I, but i don't know how, I think i love her.. I need advice what to do, how to behave etc. I didn't have much luck this year with gir...

Bathroom problems. Sensitivity problems?

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19 January 2009 (?) - How do I stop being so sensitive? Do you think this is a medical problem? I’m sensitive. Emotionally and physically. I am shy when going to the public bathrooms and I don’t want anyone to be in there as well. I used to not be this way. I’m sensiti...

I think I might be falling for my co worker.

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19 January 2009 (F) - This is long, and I'm sorry. I really don't know what to do, but i figure asking will help me get it off my chest. I'm 16 years old (17 in a week) I think I might be falling for my co worker. He's 22, and an assistant manager. Our work envi...

I'm 16 years old male and I think I'm a pervert and I hate myself for this.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

19 January 2009 (M) - Hi all, I'm 16 years old male and I think I'm a pervert and I hate myself for this. Sometimes everything is ok, you know Ii just want to kiss a girl more than other things. But sometimes I want to do stuff you see in porn movies, girls never want ...

Am I wrong for following my feelings?

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19 January 2009 (F) - Around this time last year I was messing around with this guy, that I thought I really liked. . . we finally made it offical in the beginning of the summer but after a week into our relationship I realized feelings wasn't true so it became a sexual ...

Remaining her friend is killing me

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19 January 2009 (M) - I have this girl who is a close friend of mine,she allows me to hold her,hug her,touch her and she does whatever i ask her to do for me. I told her i loved her and would like her to be my girlfriend but she said no that she was not ready for a ...

Football player drama.

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19 January 2009 (F) - I'm going to a new high school and I became very popular with the guys (I don't get along too well with girls) we all talk about their girl friends and life and guy stuff. A lot of my friends just recently went paintballing and some of the foot ball ...

Can men hold their cum in??????

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - I have several questions because I asked my friend and it was totally confusing what he said. So if a guy cums while in intercourse, you can get pregnant right? So how long do you have to take birth control or is there anything else ? Also, ...

Why do I feel so weird when I walk past him?

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19 January 2009 (F) - okay, well recently i got over this guy i liked for about 3 years the now were not talking but when i look up or turn around suddenly in his direction he is staring at me. It's been this way since August and some of 2007...I got rejected from hi...

Confusion about God

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19 January 2009 (F) - well i gots an issue... im usually a very religious person but now im so confused about god and life and everything i love the most (acting,singing,ect) i cant take anything any more... now to my real problem. I have one person telling me on thing ...

I really like him and I would like something more...

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19 January 2009 (F) - Three weeks ago I had a one night stand with the brother of a friend of mine. We agreed the next morning that it had been a really great night but that it would be a one off. As he had very recently begun to date another girl, and the fact ...

Does he like chasing me or does he actually think I will sleep with him?

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19 January 2009 (F) - I had this friend last year and we hooked up one night but I didnt let him touch me. He wanted to have sex, I said no and it kinda got awkward so we stopped hanging out. About 6 months later, out of the blue he started being nice to me again and I ...

She's the perfect girl, she's the girl of my dreams, she the one I want to spent the rest of my life with.

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19 January 2009 (F) - I'm 16 and my best friend is 18. I really love her and she really loves me. About 6 months ago we started dating.. secretly through. She has a boy friend, oh by the way she's straight too and I'm bi. It was hard cuz I'm not out and she has a ...

Can you give me advice on how to leave Brent?

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19 January 2009 (F) - THIS IS WORTH READING. Please help me out, I'm in a VERY tight spot. Thank you for taking a look at my pitiful problem. This one is kinda messed up. The main problem here is, Ive always liked this one guy but he's been a kinda player(so to s...

I cannot bear the thought of another man looking at me, never mind touching me...

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19 January 2009 (F) - Twelve months ago I had a disastrous encounter with a guy I considered a friend who I really fell in love with and thought he felt the same. I trusted him implicitly. Never ever found out why but he cut me dead and was extremely weird and nasty. I ...

People are telling me my girlfriend has been making out with her ex!

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19 January 2009 (M) - I have been dating this girl for like 5 months and she hangs out with a lot of other guys and she flirts with them all. Most of the teenagers go to this teen town thing on Friday and Saturday's, well I went on Friday but she couldn't go because she ...

Other than asking a girl, how do you know when a girl is truly into you?

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19 January 2009 (?) - Other than asking a girl, how do you know when a girl is truly into you? What are some things to look out for to know if she genuinely cares for me like I care for her?...

I want her back but she won't hardly look at me

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19 January 2009 (M) - Me and my gf had been going out foe 5 months before we broke up one week ago. We were each other's first make out partner all the way to oral sex in this time. All of the people in school said we were a beautiful couple and we were perfect for each ...

I do not know if he is BI? or gay.

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19 January 2009 (F) - I had to end a 4 year relationship with this guy who was divorced before and he is in his 30s. Super Hot. I had to let go because I was suffering, he liked everything about me but he said he doesn't want to be in a formal relationship. I stayed w...

Cultural differences.

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19 January 2009 (M) - Sorry my english not too good but I like this girl who goes to the park where I play football and her and her friend sometime watch us play football but the problem is I am italian and she is english so I do not know whether she would want to date ...

Too embarrassed to face him again....

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19 January 2009 (F) - Me and my friend went to a restaurant with our mums and we both fancied the waiter and the other day we saw him in town and started to follow him around for ages and now we don't want to go in the restaurant again because it's too embarrassing but ...