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Archived questions from: 7 January, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

Am I just insecure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5789 days ago

7 January 2009 (M) - Hi, this is a story with a question after. I've been in a relationship for 1 year for 4 months the relationship was going well, but we had an argument on 1 evening and although I tried talking to her she seemed to blank me, and I didn't know whether ...

What did he mean when he typed in "preteen" on a PC search engine?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - Hello there - I used a friend's computer the other day and noticed on the search engine that he had time in "preteen". I love my friend to pieces, he is a lovely lovely chap - why would he type this in? There were no videos or anything downloaded ...

He told me he had a girlfriend but he doesn't!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - what is he thinking? I’ve posted a question like this before about the same guy but I didn’t know if he had a girlfriend for real. I’m going to try to make this long story short it might be long but I really need your help. So there’s this guy that...

Cyber-Cheating or friendship? What do you think happened?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - I signed up at this dating/adult site, a few months ago, out of curiousity and just to have a little fun. I messaged this guy, who's profile had a lot of similarities with my own, interests, down to even the same favorite books, quotes and songs. I ...

Is he just too shy to tell me how he feels?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5789 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - Today 3 of my guy friends and I were walking in the hallway, one which I like and I heard one that I don't like say go do it then the other one said nall you might get rejected, so later I asked one of the three guys I liked what they were talking ...

I'm kinda shy and he's not...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5789 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - I'm 14 and never been had a boyfriend but there is this boy I Really like and I think he likes me. The problem is I'm kinda shy and he's not. He always has at least 5 girls after him! Loads of people say we made 4 eachova n we both keep denying it. ...

I text a guy on new years eve saying that I liked him and now I know what to do...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5788 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - I text him saying: hi, after all the time we've been spending together ive really started to like you, happy new year x and he replied with hey just got my phone back, left it somewhere safe over new years so i didnt loose it, so happy new...

Is he avoiding me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5789 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - I gave this guy a holiday present before break, and he seemed delighted that i'd thought of him. The first time i saw him after was this morning, when he was perfectly friendly. however, in class later, i was sitting across from him and he usually ...

Just come out and need help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - Hi all this is going to sound very pathetic I recently realised I was gay after years of hiding it. I hardly have any friends and the ones I do have are straight I have told them I am gay but I don’t know were to start. I have not got the confiden...

Is it always left for the guy to call or text?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - Your advice PLEASE! Is it always left for the guy to call or text? Basically make the first move.. That's when you're getting to know someone and planning a first date. ...

Does he really want me to give up on him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5784 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - Recently reconnected with an old friend from high school. We've been speaking on the phone for almost 10 months and have been able to spend a little bit of time together as well. We have a lot of fun together no matter what we do, great ...

What Should I Do About Me Ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5789 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - What Should I Do About Me Ex? My ex and I are still friends. Last night we were hanging out in a group. He was being flirt and telling me he loves me which is nothing new. He was telling one of his friends to look how beautiful I was and how he k...

Too close for comfort now he tells me he's going onto the dating scene

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - I am a married woman who has a close friendship with a single man at work. Our friendship did develop into a closeness where we felt comfortable discussing personal issues. We were attracted to each other and for a while there I felt a powerful ...

My friend is immature and a problem

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - i have a friend who she thinks she is my best friend. she seems to be bipolar, but idk. i love her, but hate the way she acts, she is loud, immature, and stubborn. ive tried to tell her but she doesnt understand. she also doesnt have really any frie...

After 9 years, he still won't marry my friend - what should she do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - i have a close friend that has been with her guy now for 9 years. and she uses every way in the book to explain why he wont marry her. I've been married for nearly 5yrs and i'm in the process of a divorce. so as you can see i don't try to enc...

He's got some mental health issues, how can I help him and understand?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - i was dating a guy who is amazing but mentally not all there. i dont know if he is bipolar or if he just has alot of issues to work through but he is very confused.When i ask him if he knows hes special he says no he doesnt think he is, it makes me ...

He's 20, I'm 14 and he likes me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - Hey. heres the basics (: my friend told me to add a friend of hers saying he'd asked about me as i was in her photo. so i did and we got talking. hes told me he likes me from the start. thing is he is 20 and i am 14 , so i never let anything hap...

He's not up to my standards

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - I been talking to my friend on the phone like everyday up to 2-4 hours. He express to me how he's really likes me, but I don't want to be then a relationship with him because he is not up to my standards and his not ready to make them changes in his ...

I made a wrong statement he called me out on it and now I feel rather dumb

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5788 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - There's this guy I'm friends with and we talk quite a bit. We're not going out, but I do like him a lot. So far we've been on mutually respecting terms and there has been negligible, if any, sarcasm. The other day I made a statement I wasn't sure of ...

At the back of my head I'm wondering if he's just manipulating me to get what he wants.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5789 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - During my relationship with Derek, he was the perfect boyfriend. But I had always had this suspicion that there was something going on between him and my best friend, Alice. Given, Alice is very 'friendly' with the boys, so I tried not to take ...

Friendship that turned into sexual feeling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

7 January 2009 (M) - I met a lass about 3-4 months ago and as soon as we met we just clicked. At first we just became really good friends but then one drunken night we had a kiss and a fondle. She has a boyfriend and I knew that in the first place but I thought it was ...

How do I make him realize how I feel for him without looking desparate or like a fool?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - I was in a long term relationship 2 years ago and I ended being heartbroken when my b/f cheated on me. I am now working and have found a colleague that I have fallen for. He is intrested in me too, he once told me that he wanted to have a go with me ...

Am I right in reading this situation or am I dead wrong. What does anybody else think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - Recently I wrote about a girlfriend of mine and the man she has been dealing with for the past several years. Now here we are in a brand new year and she is bringing the old into the new. She told me she had sent an email to this man telling him ...

I'm sleeping with my best friend's boyfriend. I don't know if I can do the right thing, can anyone help?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - For the last month I have been sleeping with my best friends boyfriend and I don't know how I feel about it. I know that sounds weird but I honestly don't know if its just sex or something more. In my mind I have separated the guy I'm sleeping wit...

After 13 years with me, he married someone else within 4 months of meeting her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - I had been dating this man from 1995 until 2003 and we remained friends until 2008. We built a business together and have been through a lot together over the past 13 years. He said that I was his best friend and in May 2008 told me he loved me and ...

We broke up, but will we still be good friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

7 January 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I had been dating for almost 4 months and she broke up with me about 2 and a half weeks ago. The reason we broke up is because she wanted to be single, she said I didn't do anything wrong and that she still cares for me and loves ...

He says hes not ready to date me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

7 January 2009 (F) - The first day I walked into my math class this year(freshman year high school) this boy came up to me and start talking to me. Not in a flirting way just in a friend way. A few days later in the library my friend tried to make us go out but I said I ...