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Archived questions from: 27 January, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

Is he making excuses or is he just not ready for a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - I'm 13 years old and there's this guy, he is my best mate and I think I love him, the problem is I don't think he feels the same way. I've asked him out but he says he doesn't want me to hate him if things don't work out. I really wanna give it a ...

My friend is in trouble... any suggestions what I can do to help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - I became close friends really quickly with this one girl who has a nine-month old daughter (my friend and I are both turning 19) and she and her boyfriend recently broke up. Now this is the kind of guy that goes crazy under stress. I told her to ...

He won't date me because I had a small fling with his friend last summer

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - Ok, so theres this guy I like, and I've been watching him and I'm positive that he likes me a lot too. So, I asked him out. And he turned me down. See, I had no idea he and this guy I had a bit of a thing for last summer were best friends and ...

She has boyfriend and I love her, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - Well I met someone and when I first met her it was love at first sight. Unfortunatly she had a boyfriend already. When they broke up I was too shy to ask her to be my girlfriend. Then when I finaly got the guts to ask she already had another ...

Guidance needed please...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - Okay, this may sound really really confusing but I'm just looking for a little guidance. I am female and a senior in high school. Up until this point, I have had no real relationships, which makes me feel almost like something is wrong with me be...

Why is it that some guys are jerks to girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - Why is it that some guys are jerks to girls? I'm in a relationship with this guy and sometimes I'm like 'What a jerk' Either that or has no manners. Ok, I hate, hate, hate it when guys walk in front of me and leave me behind. He does this sometimes. ...

My friend and this guy are being total assholes!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5768 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - So I really love this guy and my best friend or I mean who was my best friend is now going out with him and that really fricken hurts me like you would not believe!! But I don't know if he does but I don't think that he really likes her, I think he ...

My girlfriend's dad is behaving very strangely!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - I'm sure one of my friend's dad fancies another one of my friends. She is 16 and he is 59. Do you think it is normal that a man of his age would say to his daughter he will unground her if her 16 year old girl gives him a hug? Also when is planning ...

Is my paranoia sabotaging my relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - Right well let me just start with something about myself. I have cripplingly low confidence. Seriously, it is abnormally bad. I am so harsh on myself that it's crazy. I have been diagnosed with depression and anxiety and I am on antidepressants to ...

I feel I'm being bullied and I'm in my twenties!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - A guy down the local keeps on starting on me - getting in my face and demanding I do stupid things for him and coming over and interrupting my conversations by taking the piss and he's really threatening. I've never spoken to or seen the guy before ...

I don't wanna be seen as coming between best friends.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - I am very much in love with my boyfriend however there are a few things which really upset me and I don't know how to approach him on these issues as I don't want to lose him. He would rather go out with a load of people and get drunk on valenti...

What can I do to make him an offer he can't refuse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - Hi - There's this guy at work that I'm attracted to and he is to me as well. Recently he's been sending non-verbal messages that he wants to have sex with me. I missed the opportunity last week and he seems upset that I didn't "get the message". ...

Is there any way that I can prevent myself from falling for him again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - I've always been the type of girl to fall for a guy pretty easily. The thing is, recently I have been hooking up with one of my best guy friends, who also happens to be my ex who I was in love with. I know that he really liked me, but he never truly ...

How do I impress her without looking like a dork??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - I'm 15 and I like a girl at school who is the girl of my dreams and I can't stop thinking about her. She has almost got a boyfriend and they seem to be getting closer and closer. He's got that "killer smile" and I need braces. He's good at ...

I like this guy but we have absolutely nothing in common.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - I like this guy but we have absolutely nothing in common. I hate the music he listens to, the books he reads.(all that stuff) and to top it off his friends dont like me. What do I do?...

He says suggestive things..does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - hi i am confused as to whether a guy likes me or not. we know each other though a friend but suddenly recently he has started talking to me alot more and says suggestive things that make me think he likes me but im not sure?? he has said thi...

We can't be an item, it'll ruin the band!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - Hi I play in a band and have been involved in music for many years; it is my life and all my energy goes into it. Recently, another bandmate (female) and I (male) have developed feelings for each other; through hanging out, sharing problems...

How can I be happy and stop bringing people around me down??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - I'm so sad all the time and i don't know how to be happy. I can't think of one thing in life that i want that would make me happy and i'm really worried i'm bringing those around me down too......

How to ask him out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - I like this guy but I don't know if he likes me or if he's single. He says things like "we have so much in common" and jokingly "you're the most exciting person I have ever met" so I don't know if I should ask him out or even how to?...

Can anyone give insight on hormone therapy treatment for prostate cancer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - I have a male friend who has been diagnosed with Protate cancer (PCa). The cancer has spread to his bones and that has limited his treatment options. He has been placed on Hormone Therapy - which is supposed to halt the cancers progress but will not ...

Was what I did wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - well my best friend is dating this girl that i really liked and he knew it to. then one day she had enough with him and she wanted a break but she wanted me to tell him that didn't though. so after school me and my best friends ex where alone and ...

Heaven for the trolls and immature people on the internet? the haters?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - Why are people so incredibly mean on the internet? I'm just really wondering. I know that people say that they don't have a heart and they are just starring at a pixel or username, but why do those immature brats keep forgetting about the person...

Should I make her or let her go?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - This is my first post on this site. I have a perplexing problem. My wife and I have some new friends. We have been going over to their home on the weekend. Sometimes it is rather docile. Sometimes it is not. We drink alcohol and chat. There are ...

We are all human right, so there isn't a distance to love, love has no bounds, right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

27 January 2009 (F) - I need some help. Okay so I have been talking to this brilliant guy he is everything I am looking for in a man. This is all online on a forum not this forum this is the only place I can ask for advice without coming across a weirdo. I have s...