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writes:I asked this question before in the past about this guy that i've liked but here's a little detail i forgot to add in, okay well just in case some of you don't know my situation, there's this guy who i liked since last year May and before i liked him, he would stare at me all the time and then i eventually started to like him and i finally told him on msn that i liked him and at first he didn't believe me then he told me he had a gf. but after that, he would still stare at me and he started to act fidgety whenever i would pass by him.he even talked to me on msn after the incident i asked some ppl that knows him if he has a gf and they said they highly doubt that. okay i'm not being racist or anything but he's indian and i'm black and i heard they can't date out of their race or religion so i was wondering if that's why he said he had a g.f, or maybe he just panicked? didn't take me seriously? what do you guys think? should i just get over him?
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reader, Blue_Angel0316  +, writes (31 January 2009):
 In some cultures it is against belief to marry someone of a different race. If he is still looking at you alot and giving you that stare he is most likely attracted. If he isn't talking you up, perhaps he is shy and doesn't quite know what to say to you. Some people mature at different age levels and to certain degrees. If his friends or aquaintances don't think he has a girlfriend, it's possible they either don't really know or HE REALLY DOESN'T.
I would suggest biting the bullet a bit longer and seeing if he will come to you and talk. Guys are basically different than us girls are, so they don't usually rush into relationships in general, they tend to wait it out a bit before approaching. It's almost like a cat watching a canary and waiting to pounce! *LOL* If a guy sees something in you that he really wants, he is sure to watch from a distance until HE is ready to move forward. If his eyes are set on you, then you may have a real treat in store! *smiles
It's definate that you are quite smitten with him. It's hard to know for sure but it does sounds like he may be fond of you too! Don't rush it, take your time and give him a chance to come forward. If he has a girlfriend, he may like you but can't approach you in that manner because he doesn't want to show anyone disrespect. Be prepared to
accept fact if he doesn't come thru that he may not like you in a girlfriend kind of way. He may feel some sort attraction but it may not be enough to form a relationship with.
Just a note: Sometimes guys are just as mushy about their feelings as us girls can be! Butterflies and shy glances, smiles, soft words and taking chances! Give it time and you ssoon will know for sure. Remember that a friend is a good tthing and relationships built on the bond between friends can sometimes carry you to the place you want to be. You aare young and single so get out and mingle. If he likes you, HE WILL LET YOU KNOW IN TIME!
God is in your corner and he can make things be what they were meant to be. TRUST IT and BELIEVE!
Best wishes to you and your friend.
God bless,
Blue_Angel
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reader, Emajayne +, writes (31 January 2009):
 Maybe try asking him about it. If race is an issue it is HIS problem and not yours so don't waste ur time. Its a hard question as race very well could be a factor and it is a shame if it is. Don't get worked up over it after all he is a guy and u are a girl in highschool. He will look at u because u did admit to liking him on msn which is completely different than in person. If u REALLY want to know, talk to him about it. If u aren't all that bothered just let it ly.
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reader, PinkyFloya +, writes (31 January 2009):
Yeah,it's not worth it.
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