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Archived questions from: 11 January, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

Is she horny?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

11 January 2009 (M) - I know this woman, she is 22 years old. She is a good friend of mine, and she constantly tells me about these guys she thinks are cute. I know for a fact she is a virgin because I'm dating her best friend. I'm wondering if she is really horny and...

What should I do about this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5785 days ago

11 January 2009 (M) - I'm 17 and I really like this girl who lives three doors down from me, I'm good friends with her two brothers and talk to her most days on msn, but nothing has progressed. I don't know what to do as I'm not the most confident of guys....

Is it possible that friends could just make love and be friends again without actually feeling anything towards each other?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - Is it possible that friends could just make love and be friends again without actually feeling anything towards each other?...

Should I tell her how I feel, even though we live in different cities, or just let it go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

11 January 2009 (M) - During my last summer job (in another city), I met a nice girl who I ended up being friends with. After the job I moved back for school and still talk to her to her occasionally online. But I've also had a crush on her but never told her how I feel ...

Help, is there more to it or am I making something out of nothing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a year now, and we both love each other a lot. However ever since I started being with him he has been very protective over me. I have a facebook account and added someone I knew from school, he got annoyed ...

How do I get to know Zach better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5784 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - This guy named Zach I have known him forever since kindergarden and I always thought he was cute. We used to be really good friends but then we just stoped talking. Now we have started a little again and him and his gf just broke up. I think I like ...

Choked during sex...was it wrong of him??

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - I've been with my overly passionate, subtle and lovely boyfriend for some time now. He's not very spontanous, everything seems like a walk in the park... and almost routine. Last night we had sex. And he started choking me towards the end out of the ...

What does his answer mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5784 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - I have a pen-pal who's military and well I email him often like 2 or 3 times a month, sometimes a week or whenever. He says it's great to hear from me always. B/c he's military he gets duty assignments and even then he send me notes telling ...

Have I fallen for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5785 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - I met a lad and he asked me out today and I've said yes. He makes me smile all the time, I can't stop! All I want to do is hear his voice or see his smile. I love being with him and feel so safe around him. Have I fell for him? ...

I am just so sick of being the lame girl...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5785 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - I'm feeling down about the way I am and the life I've lived so far, I'm 22 and attractive. I just wish I did things differently. I never had a big group of friends, I think people always thought I was strange b/c I lack social skills, I'm always ...

He won't commit... what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5784 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - There is this guy, I'll call him sam, we really really like each other. We've met up loads, and we've kissed. I've asked him out but he doesn't know what he wants, every time he sees me he wants to be in a relationship with me, but he doesn't want ...

Friends with benefits - I want more but how to say???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5675 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - Any guys out there, I need your help. If you were in a friends with benefits situation with a girl, and you both treat each other with a great amount of respect and get along great, and both are very attracted to one another, what would be a good ...

I always seem interested in my friend's girlfriends and want this to stop. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5784 days ago

11 January 2009 (M) - Please don't hate me or judge me for what am going to ask, I just wanna know WHY!! Ok, I am a 23 year old guy who adores women in general and just love to give them what they desire and need. That's not the problem though, I find myself only attr...

My boyfriend is jealous but he has no need to be, how can I convince him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5785 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is jealous of one of my old mates, I love my boyfriend so much, and I never want anyone else, but this lad keeps popping up and he hates him and so do I, but he doesn't believe me. I know he should but he has no reason I've never lied ...

My male friend left me standing on a dark corner at 3am!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - one of my guy mates (we have been seeing each other on and off and hes been really confusing me) well last night we were walking to his house and he said "wait two minutes" and LEFT me standing in a dark street corner :( he NEVER came back. i ran...

There's no spark with my and my boyfriend... much more spark with his friend though.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5784 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for around 2 months yet was friends with him before that and we were fooling around before we were official. He has strong feelings for me and I do have feelings for him and I would hate to break his heart, ...

Any ideas on how to approach this in a way that's not embarrassing if he doesn't reciprocate my feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - I've liked this boy from afar for about 15 months now, and haven't really spoken to him one on one. Last night, I was out at a club and we ended up speaking and spent most of the night kissing. I think it was just a few drunken kisses (we both kis...

I want to get to know him better...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

11 January 2009 (M) - November time me and a guy started talking and in about 3 weeks he invited me over... I went over and we ended up sleeping together this really made it awkward for us both but we are still getting on ok still talking and all that he just seems not ...

How do I console her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5786 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - Honestly i have been in love with this girl for 4 yrs[I'll name her Xin..]k well.. i really love her much so i wanted to help her.. So.. Xin had break up with her bf for almost 8 months le. She still love him very much.. but her bf excuse was he is...

My friends always copy me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

11 January 2009 (?) - I have two best friends that I like to copy me. They copy my hair, my clothes everything I do. If I buy something they buy but in a different colour .They even died they'll hair my hair colour. At first I didn't mind , I actually thought it was ...

Do I wait to see if he gets in a better place?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5785 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - I have a friend who I've been in love with for quite some time now. Last night, I could no longer hold it in anymore and I confessed that I am in love with him. He told me that he did not feel that he could be in a relationship right now becaus...

Am I making the right decision?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - I have a husband for over 9 years and he was a drinker before and I knew he smokes weed, I told him to stop doing it and he did but he smokes when I am not around. He drinks and he finds reasons for little things he is mad if we gotta go to the ...

If a guy says he's too busy to talk or get together, does it really mean he doesn't care?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - If a guy says he's too busy to talk or get together, does it really mean he doesn't care?...

I can't stop getting this jealous feeling and thoughts whenever I see my boyfriend and friend hanging out together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

11 January 2009 (?) - So, my boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 3 months,which will be in a few days. We're both 13. We hang out at school mostly all day together. My friend hangs out with my boyfriend every chance she can get at school. Like she'll see ...

Is liking him just enough...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - Hi I am so confused, this guy I've met is 8 years older than me with 3 ex gf's, with a child to each. He is a very emotional person, doesn't like the single life, he gets lonely often and becomes very down. We have met a few times and hes...

Should I put myself in that situation again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5786 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - I'm 15, and not allowed to have a boyfriend, but my my parents weren't home today so I invited him to my house and told him to bring me somthing to eat cuz there wasn't anythin at my house. I was busy all morning, but had 3 hours for us, so he had t...

What should I do about my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 9 months now but I've known him for 2 years! and I love being with him, I love him so much I think about him all the time!! He lives 20 miles away from me but we still see each other a lot :D 4-5 ...

Ex Boyfriend - Does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5786 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - I was meeting up with some old school friends the other week, and it was in a different city (so me and a friend were staying over the night). The city was where my ex boyfriend is as he is studying at University there. I thought I'd text him, ...

Too late????

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5786 days ago

11 January 2009 (M) - Hi, I went out with this girl about a year ago and when she got a little too close I broke up with her. Since then she has been my best friend and slowly I began to fall in love with her. BUT even though she constantly wanted to get back together I ...

Skater guys appeal to me more

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - I always get the same type of guy. "Gangster wannabe" I'm sick and tired of them too. I am more attracted to skater guy types, can people tell me how to attract skater guys??...

Should I go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - My situation: I am in my late 20's and have been seeing my man for a year. I am pregnant and despite not being planned we are both happy about it as are madly in love and want to marry and will soon be living together. My outlook: I am no...

To be his friend or so much more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5786 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - Thanks to those who answer this. But anyways, I used to be best friends with this one dude and I liked him too. But we fell apart over the years because of some disagreements. Its been a year now and I haven't spoken to him we say Hi and Bye but ...

He aint no mate!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5785 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - Hi I used to fancy this boy for 3 years but now I have gone off him thank god. Friday he kicks me at the back of my leg for no reason at all, I thought that was out but I stayed cool.. cos I am trying to stop my moods for my bf and I'm doing ok ...

I don't know what to do about him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5774 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - Theres a guy I've liked over the internet for a few years now, I've met up with him 5 times before, but he lives 2 hours away in San Fran. I've told him before how cool he is, he makes me laugh, makes me happy, can be myself around him, that...

Is it possible I love him or just holding onto feelings from when I was 11?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5784 days ago

11 January 2009 (F) - When I was younger, about 10 or 11, i was best friends with a boy. We grew up together and I think that in some weird way i always loved him in the way that children do. Anyway, I moved away when I was 12, and didn't talk to him until recently...