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Archived questions from: 4 January, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

Is friendship with this married guy going the wrong way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5830 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - I'm asking this question b/c although sometimes one might feel like is just about friendship, there are somethings that makes you wonder if it's just an innocent flirty kinda game or if it might lead to something else later. I become friend wi...

Does giving or receiving oral sex mean you're not a virgin any more?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

4 January 2009 (?) - Hi, I'm a 14 year old virgin and I was just wondering... is oral sex counted as sex and If you do it.. does it mean you've lost your virginity? I have a couple of friends who want to know the answer to that question and so do I. Feel free to input ...

I'm really worried about my friend but I don't want to seem paranoid.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - I have a problem with a friend. Generally me and my friend were very chatty with each other we could talk for hours about nothing and enjoy it, she even told me once that she really likes having me as a friend. However at one point I went on to ...

My friend is having an affair... should I tell her husband???

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5158 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - Yesterday I went to visit a good friend and she told me that she is cheating on her husband of 4 years also a friend of mine) with a guy she works with who is also married with kids. She asked me to go for a drive with her and told me in the car....

Is a thriving ongoing committed long-lasting relationship possible over the years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - I am an attractive, divorced, young at heart female who was introduced by a work friend to a guy. We happened to have a twenty year age difference. Is a thriving ongoing committed long-lasting relationship possible over the years?...

I like him he has a girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5830 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - I Really Like This Guy, He Makes Me Feel Really, Really special and wenever i am around him he seems to make me feel like im the only one that matters to him. but he has a girlfriend... We have known each other for about 4 years now but have bee...

Can we still be friends now that we've had sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5827 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - is it possible to remain friends with a close friend i had sex with? we used to fancy each other but nothing happened. and we turned into close friends, but ive always liked him and he knew about it towards to the end because i told him but h...

What goes on in a man's mind???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - I was starting to see a man from my past, it's been 9 years since I saw him last. We had sex off and on for 13 years, never my boyfriend. We were just there for each other. Now he came back into my life and wants to be my boyfriend and said that ...

Do you think he is attracted to me and is trying to ask me out, or am I reading too much into it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5830 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - There's this guy I like and he asked how I was and asked what I did for work, but just now he said what's with the singleness?? I really don't know how to respond to that. I was shocked that he wrote that! Do you think he is attracted to me and ...

Why is he ignoring me like that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - I don't know what to do. I have fallen head over heals for my best friend. We go to movies together, and get food together, but I want more. Usually he will call me every night and we will talk till one of us falls asleep but lately he hasn't called ...

I don't know what's wrong with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - I am shocked... I am hurt and I don't know why. I have been reading lately a new moon book, however I got depressed.... today I fought with one of my closest friends because I didn't want to talk... I don't know what's wrong??...

A replay of my question on my longtime crush. I need answsers by tomorrow!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - P.S. I am only posting again as this is a very important question and I did not recieve enough answers to consolidate the issue. You may be tempted to delete my post despite this P.S. note - but why don't you take into consideration my feelings...

I want to know really how to find people to date and how to become more confident around guys.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5830 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - I'm 14 and I've only ever had one boyfriend, it's not that I don't want one its just I never seem to be interested in guys and they don't seem to be interested in me either. It hadn't bothered me until now but now moat of my closest friends all have ...

He said he's going to ask me out but he hasn't yet.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5830 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - So there's this guy and I really like him. I have been waiting for him to ask me out for the past 4-5 weeks and I really like him as Ii said. He says he is going to ask me out but then the day before he says he forgot what he was going to say to me ...

I don't know how to move things forward with this guy as he lives so far away.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - Hi! I don't now what I should do in this situation. For some years I and a boy I like, always went to the same hobby club. When we were there, we barely said "Hi" to each other and almost never talked. Now I've moved to another city. We have th...

Stop being jealous! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5826 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - Lately,,, i've been getting really jealous of a frend of mine, lets call her Mary, When Mary hangs around a frend i dont noe...i get really jealous. I think its because i want to become Mary's best frend. someone who she can tell anything to. So, ...

How can I support my friend who's ex may be pregnant?

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4 January 2009 (F) - Hey guys i need advice. I have this guy friend and we're really close. He recently told me that his ex might be pregnant coz she didn't get her periods for 2 months. Also i had a weird dream about eggs which could mean fertility and there wer alot ...

I don't know what to do, shall I tell him? Does he like me? How could I put it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - Theres this guy who I really like, and we act like we're a couple when we do see each other, but he lives 3 hours away. I recently stayed for a few days, and fell in love with him even more. He initiated everything, and why would he be the one ...

He brought the NAUGHTY on me, RAN and did not look back !!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - Hello!!! This question is for the man, I guess. Well, for 2 years almost I have been recovering from a failed relationship that deeply broke my heart. In the middle, I've been on dates, but no sparks, therefore, no kisses, no nothing. Finally a ...

I think in order to help her get over this argument I need to gain her trust again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5830 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have got on great until a few days ago, she hasn't long gone on holiday abroad to Madeira for new years with a friend and her friend's family. In the middle of the week we had a huge argument and she claimed I'd been off with ...

She accused me of abusing her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5830 days ago

4 January 2009 (F) - Hello everyone, I find myself very confused, angry and insulted. After a new years celebration, this woman I used to call my friend, accused me of 'either leaving her alone or abusing her' she claims someone touched her while she was drunk. I don't ...

If he didn't clean his hands properly, what are his chances of getting syphillis?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

4 January 2009 (M) - I have a couple of questions. If sperm got onto a male's hand, and ate something without washing their hands (just cleaning it with tissues ), what are their chances of getting Syphillis? My friend did that and he is a bit worried....