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Archived questions from: 14 January, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

Why is my boyfriend doing this? Please help me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - Me and my BF got into an argument.. he got really angry and started saying horrible things to me.. he said I am always whining and..(f*king about with other guys).. he said I am not having sex with him so someone else must be getting since he ain't ...

Looking for a light at the end of the tunnel...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - I've been single for a while now and I'm quite sick of people flaunting their boyfriends around in front of me. I'm fine with being by myself. I love who I am and don't have a care in the world, but my friends are so annoying when that's all they ...

Is love enough...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5782 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - Is love enough? I had been waiting to go out with this guy for ages, he was my best friend! but recently we seem to have nothing to talk about, we used to be on IM and the phone all the time talking , but recently we don't talk and when we do t...

I'm going crazy thinking about her, and want to call her, but I don't want to invade her privacy, because I know she wants space

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5782 days ago

14 January 2009 (M) - Basically they broke up but she's still not over him they never had closure in their realtionship, now I have jumped in the picture and she really does like me and wants it to work out, but now she realizes she catn ignore the lover of her ex, and ...

I want to know how I can trust her again and forget about this.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

14 January 2009 (M) - Ok... I'm back again, I have forgave her for sleeping with my friends who are not around any more. I want to know how I can trust her again and forget about this. We might not have been together when she done this, but if your not together then ...

I constantly want to be with him and talking to him when before I would get sick of him and feel smothered...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5782 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - So me and this guy have been dating on and off since may of 08. We have dated a total of 3 times, once in mmay, once in september and we are dating now. Both times i was the one to break things off and for different rteason each time. The first time ...

How can I build a friendly relationship with him without seeming like I'm flirting with him?

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14 January 2009 (F) - I'm attracted to this guy who has a girlfriend, but I'm all right with simply being friends. How can I build a friendly relationship with him without seeming like I'm flirting with him of whatever?...

Why do I feel like CRAP after finding out an old friend is in Playboy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - Hey all, this is probably kind of a stupid situation, but I just found out a girl I went to high school with and was friends with is on the cover of the new Playboy lingerie magazine. Ever since I found this out (it was just yesterday) I have felt ...

Losing the friendship...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - Me and this guy named Joey used to be realy good friends then we stopped and so now we finally started talking again a little and I brought it up with him that I wanted to be good friends again because I missed being good friends. He said okay, ...

What should I do about this mystery caller?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

14 January 2009 (M) - Hallo, i think u can help. I am a single guy of 19. Um so shy n introvert. Had never been in a relationship before. Well da thing is for last two weeks i ve been getting friendship texts n miss calls from an unknown number. I did never reply cause ...

Do his feelings run deeper than friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5782 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - I'm 24 and since I was 14 I've had it rough. I was diagnosed with a medical condition that is incurable (non-contagous) and I decided that I had to accept the condition myself before expecting someone else to accept it as well. Therfore I have never ...

Am I his girl or what?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - I have been seeing a man for the past 4 months... We usually spend time at his place. We eat together, and cook sometimes,watch movies,t.v., talk and spend quiet time. We are intimate, and have amazing sex. We truly enjoy each others company ...

Is it wrong that I like to "tease" guys?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - I don't really like to hook up with boys any more but I like to have fun and the attention they give me. At parties, I dance and flirt with guys all the time and they think they will have sex with me but I don't even give them a kiss. Is it wrong to ...

Problematic friend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - Hi, I had this funny curious episode. A guy added me on facebook. As a rule I don't accept friend request from strangers and he was not my type but I chatted a bit and I liked him. Then after reading his profile and finding him to be a regular ...

She really is an incredible girl despite a few "quirks" but I don't "want" to end it by being confrontational.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

14 January 2009 (M) - I could really use some advice. I'm seeing a girl, a very incredible girl who's almost changed my life. I'll admit it is an open relationship, but we've always been honest with each other. So naturally, we've developed a great amount of trust. ...

Choices choices choices...

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14 January 2009 (F) - Hi guyz, My case is, I have been in a relationship for a year 6 months, I loved ths guy a lot but things are sometimes not good between us, he lied to me about some things but I stood by him after he explained his reasons and never did it again. We ...

What to do now. Where do I go from here.......???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5783 days ago

14 January 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend for a year and a half had a great relationship. We had dated most of our junior year and all our senior year in high school. We had talked about splitting up only because we were going to our respective colleges and we thought ...

I wonder if it's possible to be pregnant and still kind of get your period?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - I wonder if it's possible to be pregnant and still kind of get your period. I had sex with my ex boyfriend on Dec 15th. The very next day I felt nauseated, the day after that I felt nauseated and had sore breasts, then I got a cold so the symptoms ...

I don't want to hurt one girl and the other not talk to me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

14 January 2009 (M) - Hey, I recently met these two girls Sam and Sky, when we first met I hit it off with Sam really well but now when the 3 of us are together I get mixed signals. One minute Sam is flirting with me and the next day Sky is, I'm 16 and get really ...

How can I get what I want even though I'm clueless and guys don't have the you know what to come and talk to me themselves?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5779 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - I don't get it. All my friends say that guys are always staring at me and that some say I'm pretty and what not. Yet, I'm single. Not that I'm desperate to have a boyfriend but it comes to the point that you envy those who have the relationship you ...

I've had this on-again off-again physical relationship with this guy since I first met him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5778 days ago

14 January 2009 (F) - I've had this on-again off-again physical relationship with this guy since I first met him at the beginning of the fall semester. It's a friends with benefits sort of situation. He's gotten a steady girlfriend during the time we've been together and ...