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Archived questions from: 3 January, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

When he blows up, it's so much hard work to get him to lighten up and accept that a lot of the problems are the ones he's causing.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5793 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is so gorgeous to look at, absolutely stunning, so I was gobsmacked when we got together. After a few months together I have realised that he is always always right. We fall out over the most ridiculous things and until I apologise he ...

I have concerns whether he is now trying to control me, what I do, and who I see.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5793 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years. In getting to know each other we became good friends. When he gets upset he tends to tell me the only thing I know better than him is my job and religion. He knows everything and what I say has no ...

Now I just feel used and like he never intended to get with me. I feel so hurt.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5793 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - I've been friends with this guy for a few months and have liked him since I first met him. He said he liked me too but he has depression so I didn't want to rush into things and hurt him. A week ago we kissed and texted each other a lot over ...

My boyfriend keeps spelling my name wrong and it's so embarrassing...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5793 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Hey everyone...! I have a problem, it might seem slightly small and silly, but in the long-term it could turn out to be a bigger problem lol I'm 16 and have been going out with my boyfriend for just over 2 months. The problem is that he used ...

How can I show her I can be faithful and loving?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5793 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm 17 and I recently had questions about phone sex. As you know, my girlfriend had given me a chance after having phone sex with another girl. I've stopped doing it and looked up stuff to just make sure if I don't know any other reasons I did ...

I think I might be gay... in love with a straight man! Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - Hi everyone! First of all before I even begin I would like to thank you for reading this and for any responses as well. I'll start at the beginning I'm a 24 year old guy, whose life has recently been turned upside down! All my life I've thought I ...

How can I knock that smirk of the cheeky mare's face so that he at least thinks I have moved on.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5790 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - I split up with my ex over 2 years ago, and I still have major feelings for him but would never go back as he has done too much. We were together for years and had some fantastic times and many laughs. When he sees me out he is all over me and I ...

My world is over because of him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5793 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - I've been in love with a girl for a long time and yesturday I saw her kissing another boy who I really hate and there has been rumours that they have been dating but I haven't believed them as the kiss was only for a recent play but now I just want ...

What should I do about my colleague and managers sketchy relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5793 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Hello guys. Our new manager at work has got very close to one of my colleagues - by close i mean they go to lunch together, saturdays they go to town and clubbing etc.. I know theres no law about a manager and a colleague being friends out of wor...

Husband has new male friend - what are his intentions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5793 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Husband has new male friend - what's his intentions? My husband of five years has a male friend (he is married also) that he met at his new job. We recently moved to a new area and he says he is his only friend. They talk at least once a day, call...

Does he like me? He's passing by my class to see me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5789 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Hi I really want to know whether this guy likes me. Well this guy began to flirt with me. Staring, smiling. Coming close. Always a smile on his face whenever he would see me. I could notice all these things from my side vision. He would pass b...

Should I tell him how much I miss him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5793 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Recently I got back from staying with a friend who I really like, when we're together we act like we're a couple, hug, kiss and hold hands. Although we aren't together at the moment as I'm scared to ask him as we currently live nearly 3 hours away ...

How do I help this funny guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5794 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - I don't know how best to explain this, but I'll do my best... I have this acquaintance/friend that I've known for quite some time now (about three years) and he's known to all of his friends and the entire high school we graduated from as the "Fun...

Does she want to be friends with benefits?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5793 days ago

3 January 2009 (M) - Me and this very close female friend go to different uni's. I went to meet her and was staying the night. There's only one room and was only one bed. I wondered where I would sleep. Later on she said that we can both sleep on the bed, she doesn't ...

Are we moving way too fast here?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5794 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - I lost my virginity with my boyfriend and I feel terrible. We hadn't even been going out for a two months. And I'd given him head like less than 5 days after our first kiss. I told one of my closest friends and all of my friends are like virgins and ...

Period cramp.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5794 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - My friend has her period and when she usually has it she doesn't usually have cramps but she has been complaining that her stomach has been killing her for the past 3 days. She took pills but it's still killing her.. What should she do?......

I like 2 guys, I'm so confused...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5793 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - So i'm 15 and i've liked this guy since the beginning of last year. He knew i liked him and we flirted and hung out a little bit but he started to kinda use me. So anyway i barely talked to him all summer and school started back up and now i'm going ...

I know he wants to join the Navy after getting his degree later on this year and this depresses me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5794 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Theres a guy who I've liked for ages, but he lives 3 hours away. When we do see each other (which isnt very often) we act like we're a couple, hugging, kissing, holding hands, being sweet with eachother etc. Since seeing him again in November I've ...

Did he take advantage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5794 days ago

3 January 2009 (F) - Background Info: A lad I'm good mates with, questioned me a lot about about the lad I was going with and seemed to flirt with me at school. He's cute and a good friend to me. Whenever I would be out with my bf and he was there he used to look at ...