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Archived questions from: 30 January, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

What are good ways to tease my guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5763 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - What are good ways to tease my guy? We're both going to the mall tonight...trying on some clothes? He wanted to get a little freaky in public, but I'm not ready for sex yet! :-) We've gone as far as very, very passionate kissing and a little tou...

Am I really cursed by this gorgeous face?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - I was shocked today when my male bestfriend came out and said that hes bi and that he likes me.. We were walkin on the street when he told me... Im a guy too and I didnt expected it! I posted a problem a week ago and now here comes another pr...

I can't betray my love...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I don't even know where to begin. So I should probably start from the beginning. 2 years ago I had a relationship with a much older man than myself, who is married and happeend too be a radio DJ. I have wrote posts on here before in the past in case ...

Do I forgive her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - Hi, it's me again I posted recently about a girl admitting she had feelings for me while having trouble with her boyfriend. Well whats happened now we had another falling out after she misunderstood something I said. What happened was she...

I can't tell my friends what I am doing

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - hi im not really sure if there is a question in this, im so confused, i think i just needed your opinion on my situation as i cant talk to friends about it i have a best lad friend who i trust with my life and everything in it, we began fooling...

She doesn't like me the same way I like her and now I feel so awkward around her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - I like this girl in college but she does not feel the same way about me, because of this I started to avoid her/ignore her. She would try and talk to me but I would just shun her away. Well I thought that was immature, so started speaking to her ...

Do you think I should wait for her to come back from her year out and ask her out again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - Hello, A year or so back I started university and made friends with one of the kindest and nicest looking girls I have met. We meet up every week to chat and frequently chat online too. In November I took her to the botanical gardens to tell ...

Should I give up on a relationship with him or should I hang in there?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5766 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I met this really great guy in college. We started off as friends, during the course of our friendship I realize I wanted to be more than just friends. I told him how I felt, and turns out he felt the same way, but he never told me because he ...

Submissive and wants my permission to masturbate!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I met this guy online, cute, successful, seemed absolutely normal. We have seen each other twice each time for 24 hours straight and have talked on the phone for probably the past month. Extremely physically attracted to each other as well. Have ...

I have a boyfriend but I'm a big flirt. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5766 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - Well I'm a thick brown skin 14 year old girl who has a fat butt and medium sized boobs. I get a lot of attention from boys and I love flirting with boys, but I have a boyfriend and he knows that boys always flirt with me but never says anything ...

Should I have sex with a boy I lust for if I already have a boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - Ok well Im 14 and I had sex with this boy that I was talkin to for 2 months and I always liked him the first time I saw him, and also we have health class together. anyways after we had sex a couple of days later I didn't talk to him for like a ...

She keeps saying I'm her best friend, but I don't feel it that way.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5766 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - She keeps saying I'm her best friend, but I don't feel it that way. I've known this girl since my childhood and our families have been friends since then. Now she is girlfriend to my friend but their relatiorship is not that good. So now every day ...

What are some hot, sexy party games we can play?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5766 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - hey i am having a get together with my lover and some of our friends and was wondering does anyone have any ideas for some hot party games sexy, kinky, sweet or otherwise plz and thank you...

How on earth do I get back in contact???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I'm kicking myself at the moment. I have been on a four day training course, where I meet a lovely guy, we exchanged the odd word here and there but I was too shy to start a conversation as I would have got tongue tied. I often caught him glancing ...

I don't want to fall for "him" all over again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5766 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I have this huge problem. 3 years ago I really fancied this guy in my year... it was my first crush and I was a bit obsessed, he was the best looking guy, really funny, like you know the type who aways shouts out jokes in class and all the guys are ...

My girlfriend sees me more like her best friend rather than boyfriend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a year and a half and I really love her and she loved me too... But last night I knew something was up, so I asked her. It took a while for her to tell me, but I told here I was here for her. She said I ...

How can I get the love from my girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5766 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - Hi I'm Kai and have a problem: I love a girl but she doesn't loves me but she likes me i don't now how i can do that she loves me?? Please help me. PS I'm from Germany and I hope you now what I want!...

Do city guys like girls who live in the countryside?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I need some advice on city men. I am a countryside girl, I'd like to know how do I deal guys because I find them different form countryside lads....

Should I have to be the one to say "Yes I want you stop seeing other people"?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I am currently in a non-exclusive relationship. I feel that I am not able to continue this way because I am falling for him and fear being hurt when he is with another girl. I told him this and he said that if I gave the word he would stop seeing ...

Is my friend acting this way because of her boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

30 January 2009 (?) - My best friend and me went to this party. She heard her boyfriend was there as well and she started looking for him. Long story short I saw her running down the stairs crying. When I ask her what was wrong (in private) she wouldn't tell me because ...

I just want to know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5766 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - I have a MAJOR crush on one of my friends. I really like him and he knows it. It Doesn't seem to effect out friendship, which is good, and i really want to know if he likes me. He always looks at me literally when i turn to look at something by ...

I feel like my friends are bullying me! What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - Hi. I'm starting to worry about what people think of me at university where I'm studying. I don't feel like I've been under very much stress lately, but for whatever reason, I just have a feeling that people are starting to like me less than they ...