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writes: My best friend and me went to this party. She heard her boyfriend was there as well and she started looking for him. Long story short I saw her running down the stairs crying. When I ask her what was wrong (in private) she wouldn't tell me because she saw her boyfriend and made an excuse for why she needed to leave early. She missed two days of school. When me and some of my other friends went to her place her mom said she was at her dad's for rest of the week and won't be back on monday. I have no idea whats going on and my friend won't tell me anything. What do I do? I don't like to see her this upset over a boy who keeps cheating on her.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (30 January 2009):
 She is trying to deal with it all by herself. Give her time. Be there for her but remember a couple of things. Don't rub it in, don't talk too much smack about her BF's because you never know if they get back together and then things can get really awkward.
Just let her know you are there for her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2009): Let her come to you, the best thing you can do for someone is to just let them know you are there for them. Another thing you can do is take her out somewhere...usually some alone time with you, will allow her to open up. Lastly, don't nag her about how she should leave him, or say such things as "I told you so." But do remind her, her "worth" and that "she" should realize it. You seem like a good friend, and she is lucky to have you.Cheers :]
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