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writes:Hi, it's me again I posted recently about a girl admitting she had feelings for me while having trouble with her boyfriend.Well whats happened now we had another falling out after she misunderstood something I said. What happened was she said that she wasn't so sure how she felt about me earlier today. I replied back I understand but I deep down really hope you can at least make your mind up, she took it as me pushing her away and said she never feels good enough for anyone. She also then blurted out she had actually been dumped by her boyfriend.I am just so confused by it all, I still got feelings for her however if I pursue anything more now, it will surely not be wise.I mean before the fall out our phone calls got longer and longer and each time we've argued before we ended up being closer.After much confusion she did say I should have some time to myself and think about stuff, but she also pleaded after I don't want to lose my best friend, but it seems she's left it in my court now.I guess the best solution is to make up with her but as friends only for now, but I am not sure? I think the real issue as well she is very confused about everything at the minue.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionCheers newbie, just she keeps also begging me to admit how I feel about her, I've lied and said she's a good friend, but she keeps asking.
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reader, newbie  +, writes (31 January 2009):
Yeah I think u have the right idea. Just let her go through whateva it is that she is going through and in 6 months to a year if she bring up u guys getting together then u should try it out if u are not in a relaionship. But for now just be her friend and be honest tell her u dont want to be caught up in the middle of things during her break up. Tell her u understand how difficult a relationship can be and that u want to be there for her as a friend first and if after she has got him out of her system and she has a dated a little and if she still wants to give you guys a go then that maybe a possibility. As if now she is not ready to move on to another relationship.
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