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Archived questions from: 6 January, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

Why do I feel bad for telling them off when they deserved it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

6 January 2009 (M) - I have had someone in my life who has made me feel awful about myself, pointless and very lonely. At every opportunity i have offered my friendship they have ignored me or made short excuses in order not to see me or speak to me. We have been out of ...

Should I continue to cut him out of my life even though I miss him like crazy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - I am driving myself crazy thinking about a friend that I really like. We established quite a few weeks ago that he does not feel the same way, and I've been waiting to get over it and it doesn't seem to be happening. We spend pretty much everyday ...

I've fallen in love with my best friend's girlfriend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

6 January 2009 (M) - hi got a real dilemma! me and my best friends girlfriend have completely fallen for eachother. theyv been going out for 6 years. they started going out the same time as me and my ex. i didnt know her that well when i was with my ex because th...

How can people talk to new people so easily?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5828 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - Hi id really like to know how some people find it so easy to talk to new people? I really struggle talking to new people, literally anyone, yet I am friends with a lot of people who find it soo easy. it is really frustrating me because wh...

Is my ex trying to break us up, or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5828 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - My ex bf is good friends with my bf i have now, and as soon as he knew we were goin out hes wanted more to do with my bf, and he always trys to make sure he rings him and asks him to come out first before i do, i know this because it is really ...

How can I tell him I'm not interested without being rude?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - Firstly i am 29 yrs old.I have been talking to a guy online who is widowed and has a younge child, we have been chatting for about 2 weeks now. He wants to meet up and keeps telling me how much he thinks of me and im just not interested. How do i ...

How can I prove to guys that I'm not after their girlfriends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5828 days ago

6 January 2009 (M) - I have a lot of girls that are friends, I mean like 60% odd. I think guys feel threatened by me because of this, im kinda confused about my sexuality right now to be honest and i'm not sure how I can show these guys that I dont fancy their ...

Does anyone know how to turn a one night stand into something more?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - Does anyone have any ideas on how to turn a one night stand into something more or if that is even possible please? I spent one night with this guy and it was really great. I already knew him through a mutual friend, but I only ever see him onc...

Why has my girlfriend's friend always hated me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

6 January 2009 (M) - Ok so my girlfriend has this friend and for some reason she hates me. My girlfriend and I have been going out for almost a year and she has hated me pretty much all of that time. Would you say that the friend fancies me or is just jealous that my gf ...

Is 2 years a long time to be single?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5828 days ago

6 January 2009 (M) - hi Just a quick one. I'm 22 and I want to know is it abnormal that I haven't had a girlfriend for over 2 years?! I was going out with a girl from when I was 16 until 20, after we broke up I found it really hard to go out chasing other women like...

We don't get along the way we used to, I need your advice here!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5828 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has just hit a milestone birthday in his life, I am nearly two years younger and I think this is affecting us and the way we get along. He has started going out with his friends drinking and I'm left behind. I don't know what to do any ...

I'm feeling left out

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5829 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - My previously not very sociable close freind has in the past week met this new guy and it seems that they are dating. We used to spend a fair bit of time together, as neither of us have a big circle of freinds and relied on each other a bit, she ...

My grades are slipping and now I'm afraid he won't ask me for help

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5828 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - hi!there's this cute boy in my class..actually first i don't used to like him coz all girls only used to talk about him which used to irritate me alot.but slowly slowly i don't know how i began feeling something for him and we became friends.he ...

My ex's SO is trying to be my friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - Well Maybe I can Make Sense as I write this .I am coming out of a marriage after 25 Years .I still have feelings for my husband , but he moved out almost a yr ago .He is now seeing this woman who is about 3 yrs older then him who acts as she wants ...

I don't want our friendship to go over the line, but he likes me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5828 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - I am currently going through a separation/divorce as a result of my husband cheating on me. I have a male friend who is married, and is just that... a friend. He always seems to step over the line when it comes to our friendship. In the past, I ...

Is it okay for someone else to tell your man they love him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - So ive been having problems with this girl my Boyfriend went to highschol with, shes in a relationship and lives like 200 miles away, so im not worried about him cheating on me with her, plus i look better, anyways this girl has been telling my bf ...

Will I ever be able to smile again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - This is long and i have left out some personal detail so bare with me, but i feel so down and out. I didnt have a great childhood, it was stolen from me when i was very young, my mum and dad thought they could trust this guy to look after me but ...

Virgin Girl that is waiting until marriage...

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - When I was starting to get to know a boy and the guy getting to know me But, later confused that I was a virgin and his response was that he liked me so much to have sex that he couldn't stop for me that he said that I had to lose my virginity... ...

I'm sure she likes me but I'd like your help... what do you reckon?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

6 January 2009 (M) - Hi, I need advice fast... I worked for a rail replacement company called First group for 3 years and left recently to start a new job... My parents continue to work for First... one of the contract coach operaters they use often has a driver cal...

Should I take the plunge or wait it out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

6 January 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been hanging out with this guy for a while and my feelings are starting to grow more and more for him. We aren't going out yet but I can't wait till the day we do. Now I know that if i wanted to have sex with him that he woul...

Can you love someone you've never met in person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

6 January 2009 (M) - Sorry, this questions a bit wordy but I feel like the full story is neccessary. I met this girl on a band's fansite forum last summer, and we started to get to know each other. After a while she asked for my number so I gave it to her, and we star...