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Archived questions from: 22 January, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

Please tell me the solutions to break down this illegal affair

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22 January 2009 (M) - Hi All, This is Smith, I know one of my friends where she is facing problem with her mother, where she is having sex with one of his uncles and it have been known by his father but he is not bothered about it because he wants to live his life ver...

Does he seriously want me back? Or like my friends said, Is he just lonely for now?

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22 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend brkoe up with me about 2 weeks ago. We only went out for 2 months, but this breakup hurt me espeically since it was my first serious relationship after a bad experience. (My ex-boyfriend hit on one of my friends and lied to me when I ...

I was wondering if when a boy teases a girl, does it ALWAYS necessarily mean that they like the girl?

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22 January 2009 (F) - Hey, I was wondering if when a boy teases a girl, does it ALWAYS necessarily mean that they like the girl? Or can a boy just be naturally annoying. Because there's a boy in my class who always gets up in my face and just says little things to me ...

I think I'm falling for my partner's mate!

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22 January 2009 (F) - I have been with my partner for 7 years, I love him but for at least 6 of those years I have had really strong feelings for his best mate, I've tried to get over these feelings as I never thought I had a chance with my partner's mate, but I have ...

How do I let her know that this isn't just grabbing dinner again as friends?

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22 January 2009 (M) - I've been seeing this girl a lot and it's pretty casual, we hang out and talk about a lot of stuff but we also casually hook up a lot.friends with benefits kind of... The other day I asked her if I could take her out on a date on the weekend and ...

Problems with friend and family!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5206 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - I started seeing this guy about a week ago. We went on our first date and it was awesome. I just have a couple of problems. 1) My best friend is heavier and is jealous of me and my bf. What should I do? 2) My mom is super strict, and won't let us...

If I see him with someone else at the part I'll be upset so don't know whether to go or not.

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22 January 2009 (F) - I was seeing this guy for a while who I work with, he took me for lunch, cinema, dinner etc. He used to hug me and massage me, everything was great. I text him telling him that I liked him on new years eve but he never said anything about i...

How can I learn to relax with someone I care about without alcohol?

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22 January 2009 (F) - How can I learn to relax with someone I care about without alcohol? I guess I'm really afraid of rejecton, I know if I could be myself and just enjoy sex and be able to relax I wouldn't get regected but I feel like I can't breathe, let alone relax. ...

Most of his pleasure is knowing I'm happy??

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22 January 2009 (F) - So I stayed at this boys house last night but i was on my period. Anyway I refused to sleep with him because of this but then we decided to try anyway. He was on top of me and kinda decided just to stop after a few minutes. he had a condom on and ...

Pretty girls.

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22 January 2009 (F) - When a pretty girl wakes up next to you in the morning and her face doesn't look so pretty and her hair's a mess, does it bother you boys? or if she's always doing her make-up does it make her seem insecure? curiosity...

I don't think she is showing me her true self, her true life?

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22 January 2009 (M) - hi there, first i would like to thank you all for your previous advises to heal my inferiority complex...this days something has happened to me...there was this girl whom we are working together in a bank...we begin it as a friend, we discuss on ...

Should I wait for my 1st love or walk away?

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22 January 2009 (F) - I have been reading the different stories on love and married men however; I haven’t come across one which is similar to mine. So here I am asking for help! My married man is my first and only love...We met ten years ago when I was 17, we da...

Does she love me or am I just a friend?

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22 January 2009 (M) - Well I like a girl in my own office. I have already proclaimed my love to her once, she rejected it. Then afterwards we didn't even talk to each other till new year when the dead lock was broken. since that day on we began for talking for hours on ...

My friend was offended & is depressed. How can I help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5781 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - dear readers, good day. a friend of mine encountered a problem. a problem that made him angry to a certain group of people in a state. the story is this. he tries to answer all the questions in a site that is made to ask questions about rela...

I don't want to hurt him, but at the same time I don't want to get hurt any more

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - Hello there....I really need advice from somebody else other than my friends or co-workers. I recently broke up with my boyfriend, which we were together and practically living with each other for 2 years. the reason for the final break up was ...

Should I send him a message apologising for my friend?

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22 January 2009 (F) - I was upset with my online man cause he wasn't acting the same then my best friend got really upset and sent him a message saying I was crying for him and that if he cared about me he should talk to me. I told her not to send any messages to him and ...

Friend... or boyfriend?

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22 January 2009 (F) - I am 19 and he was my classmate. We became very close recently. We will send messages and phone each other almost every day. It is starting to become a habit. I know something is not right about us. I don't think normal friends do that. But our ...

How can I win his trust in me?

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22 January 2009 (F) - I met this guy 3 weeks ago at a party and we really hit it off. He calls me and texts but he let me know yesturday that he was really hurt and he doesn't trust any female, not even me. I really like him and I have been really hurt in the past to and ...

Friendship and Hurt Feelings

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22 January 2009 (F) - I have a couple who I consider friends, and I thought they considered me a friend. We do not have any long history of being friends, but our girls are in the same grade at school. We have done casual things together, Girl Scouts, etc. I have done ...

Is this normal in a relationship??

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22 January 2009 (F) - I've fallen for a good friend of mine (we've known each other for about five years; I'm in my mid-20s and he's around 50 - he's not marred and not in a relationship). We've hung out sometimes for lunch or coffee and are really flirting back an...

Do you think this relationship could ever work?

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22 January 2009 (M) - ok so there is this girl in my class who is probably the most perfect thing in this world..popular, athetic, beautiful, super religious, super nice, great everything and we are in the same class together. we have said hello and stuff and talked ...

Is he being honest? Does he like me?

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22 January 2009 (F) - I'm not talking like romantic only but really honesty. I've been having an email friendship with a guy I met 2 years ago in a military duty when he was here in NC. He was stationed in Korea at the time, so he flew a week later. I contacted him and ...

I don't know if he has a crush?

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22 January 2009 (F) - ok, there is this one guy at my school, he is 15 and im 13 (dont question this just answer i know what yall think about 13 and 15 year olds in 8th grade) and we live in the same neighbor hood ok? so me him and my cousin hang out all the time i used ...