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Archived questions from: 24 January, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

Not being "dad" enough?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - I have a very good friend that is a single dad. He has 2 children (boy aged 11, and girl aged 4). While he is a good dad. I'm a bit concerned, and don't know how to make him understand my points of view. His son is add, and is emotionally withdraw...

I sort of had to chose between a guy and a friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5772 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - I'm dating this guy and everything is good with him and I'm happy being with him, but now I've lost my best friend. I wrote about this before, she was once like in love with him but they never dated or anything, and he and I began to hang out. ...

He reeled me in never stating he has a girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - I think I've been tricked again and Im hurt, not knowing what to do. This guy I just met at school is great. We hit it off and are in two university classes together so I gave him my email. That weekend, he emailed me and I added him to my msn an...

What ways are there to help explain to her that I did not mean to violate her trust and what can I do to help bring our friendship back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - Yesterday, I was at a party at my friend's house. Everyone was really drunk, and making out. My friend and her ex-boyfriend hooked up (all the way) and then she got mad after and went to sleep. I'm friends with the ex, so I followed him out to the ...

Relationships...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

24 January 2009 (M) - A very beautiful girl that I know wrote a letter to me that she really wants to have a good relationship with me. A relationship of deep feeling that will construct a mutual understanding. She would like to know more about me, my likes and ...

Can my best friend and I be dating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5772 days ago

24 January 2009 (M) - dear cupid, Can my best friend and I be dating? We recently became best friends because she ask me to. shes about 15 and im almost 16 year old. she has been dumped by her bf like last week, and she confuse about her feelings. So she tell me abou...

Why would a married man make such sarcastic remarks?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - Hoping some of the great agony aunts can help. There is a married man that I work with who is constantly sending little sarcastic niggling remarks my way. I finally had it with him yesterday and asked if he was too chicken to make those remarks to ...

How should I approach him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5772 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - dear cupid I have a crush on this boy and my friend who is also mates with him said he wants to talk to me. I saw him on Wednesday and I was "on the phone" and my friend said he kept looking at me and looked as if he really wanted to talk . ...

Friendless and miserable, How do I change this ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

24 January 2009 (M) - I'm stuck in a circle. I'm nearly 21 and dont have friends. I'm a student and doing IT. Now the problem is making friends is something I have no idea how to do. I had a troubled childhood and due to that my social development stopped for a fe...

What is his intentions with me...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5772 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - There is a man at work who has pursued me and we became 'friends', nevertheless, he tells me that he is a beast, old and unattractive. I did not bite, that time, later I told him i thought he was handsome...he lit up like a tree. Let me say nothing ...

How do I sort out my selfish immature so called "best friend"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5772 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - This is gonna take a while.. I'll be as brief as I can. My friend of 17 years is really irritating me and it's getting me down, it's silly things with her, but i've just had enough of the crap.. so 1st.. She wacks me over the head, all the time! and ...

Is this love or what???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5772 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - Wow! This a long story so I will just make it short. There is so much that has gone on for so long, I met this guy nearly five years ago and I was going through a rough time, i had just lost my previous boyfriend in a car accident so me and this ...

I don't want to hurt him at all I just am not happy in the relationship and I'm torn on whether or not to end it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5772 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - Heya so I am 16 and have been going out with my boyfriend for around 3 months. Recently I have not been feeling the 'feelings' I used to towards him and we have been having multiple fights as well. It's very on and of. The thing is, is that when i ...

I feel used.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - Hello, I have a minor question, regarding a problem with my friend. Just this afternoon I have had a message off her on msn, which I am currently ignoring, because I feel like I have been used. The situ is this. At Xmas, just gone I went to her...

Should I get into a relationship with her even though she lives a hours journey away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

24 January 2009 (M) - Well for the past 3/4 years I've known I was gay but pretty recently I've started gettng closer and closer to this really cute girl.. We had sex and now it's just left me confused, I don't know what she wants or if she wants anything at all. A...

I don't understand what this guy is about?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - I once met this guy in a nightclub,he is three years younger than me.He made it clear to me that he liked me,i gave him my number,but he never contacted me. A few months later,we bumped into each other again,and he still acting like he liked me...

Do I tell my teacher I love her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - So, it'll be a year next friday since I fell in love with my teacher, she's a girl and so am I, and she's approximately 15 years older than me. I'm 15 and I leave school just before my 18th birthday in about 2 and a half years time. I know it'...

This is the oddest friendship I have ever had

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - I've been "friends" with this guy for about 6 months. He told me right off the bat that he didn't want a relationship, but wanted a deep and intimate friendship. We have slept together but he has emphasized that to him that is just the icing on the ...

I like my brothers best friend but my brother isn't happy about it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

24 January 2009 (?) - ok.. so I am nineteen and I really like this guy who is 32. I've dated older guys before but this guy happens to be my brothers best friend. My brother is always saying things like "stay away from my sister" and it just makes everything awkward. I ...

Hes got a reputation as a player..should I make a move?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - I met this guy who's 2 years older than me, and he has the reputation as a 'player' but all my friends tell me that hes obviously interested. and i've hung out with him a few times. but we only talked those times, and he always asks me to hang out ...

Can she be straight but have feelings for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5773 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - So I have this girl that I have been best friend's with for about 6 years now. When I came out about being bi last year she confessed that she had thought she had had some feelings for me for awhile. To make a VERY long story short, she felt she ...

I just can't tell if he's interested or not

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5773 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy i met online about 3 months ago. We have been out twice so far and he has invited me to his house this weekend and is cooking me dinner...but i still dont know where i stand with him or if he is that into me. When i log ...

Best friend commited suicide

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - hey everyone, this isn't much of a relationship question, but somewhat. My best friend in the whole world just commited suicide! i couldnt get to his house to help him and talk to him because i am pregnant, this is extreamly stressfull a...

Nothing left to talk about?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - I've been friends with this guy for about 6 months, we would always go to the mall or the library and sit and talk for...hours? But lately the conversation has been going dry, I feel like he knows everything about me, vice versa. So during school we ...