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writes:recently in college a girl has began bullying me, making comments about things i have posted on myspace and saying awful things about me i had talked to her a couple of times before and we seemed to get on quite well but now shes just attacking me every chance she gets for no reason its getting to the point that i dont want to go to college any more what am i supposed to do?
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reader, AskEve +, writes (1 February 2009):
 Sweety Pie is right, ignore her! Fighting back or even answering her is only giving her more ammunition and feeding/fuelling her to say or do something else. If you say NOTHING and ignore her, she'll soon get fed up that she's not getting a response from you or the attention she was hoping for and will leave you in peace. Just DON'T REACT!
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reader, ellababesx +, writes (1 February 2009):
 Wow, this is a pretty serouis situation.You need to tell somebody about this..If she is affecting the way you feel about college and yourself, then you need to make a quick move.Tell somebody whoever you are most comfortable with...Your parents, career, college teachers, etc.You may think that they can't do alot but I know from past exsperiences, they do a whole lot. I promise.Send me a message if you need any further help in this, please.Good luck! :)
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reader, Sweety Pie +, writes (1 February 2009):
 Hun, shes obviously jealous of you and as nothing better to do than make stupid comments to get attention. I have the same problem with a stupid girl, shes lovely to my face but a complete b*tch behind my back. Wanna know what I did?Ignore her.Ok firstly I tried fighting back. No use, she loved the attention, and drama it caused, and it made me look in the wrong.Next I tried being nice. Whenever she found fault with me, I would apologise for my actions and make up with her. Pathetic, I know but ill do anything for a peaceful life.After all that I was just like 'sod it. Do I realy care?' So I ignored her when she wanted to have a go at me (she would always do it over msn). I wouldnt take it seriously. Id just say, if you have a problem, come tell me in person. And she wouldnt! Cowards always like to fight over the internet. Its pathetic. So if she would try and start something I would basicaly just say 'lol.' It wound her us so much! She would keep on trying to call me and contact me etc and I felt so in control until it was her wanting us to be friends again! Since then we havnt fallen out once. I know she still bitches about me, but I dont care. Shes jealous, just like your girl. I wouldnt trust her again, but just be pleasent and everything will be fine. Good luck! And message me if you want to talk as I know how your feeling. I wanted to move schools so much when this girl was being so horrible (it lasted about a year :() Im happy to help you! :) xxx
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reader, 24yeahright  +, writes (1 February 2009):
Honestly.. this will seem like the hardest thing to do.. but perhaps you could just ask her to leave you alone, and tell her you'll do the same.
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