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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hi im not really sure if there is a question in this, im so confused, i think i just needed your opinion on my situation as i cant talk to friends about it i have a best lad friend who i trust with my life and everything in it, we began fooling around together, started as a joke where i would give him a hug to see if my boobs got in the way because my friends *girls* say that my D's are big and they are jealous, this progressed to him putting his hands up my top (after we talked about it and it was a joint decision,, he hasnt forced me in to anything at all) and in my bra and we would talk about this in a flirty way over texts and this is fine with me, then this moved on to us talking about handjobs, which we have now done four times, including him using my breasts. now the thing is, this is a secret between us, and ive talked to him about how i am happy to do it but scared of getting hurt, and that if it was any of my girl-friends i would say that the guy was just using them, and he promised that he wasnt like that and he would never hurt me, and i believe him!but he has a girlfriend...and i know that we care for each other and he wont hurt me, but i cant tell my friends about this becuase it is a secret between the two of us and its just for fun, and the thing is i enjoy it, we do these things when we come home from school together and we meet up on weekends ect. i think i just need you opinions, becuase i cant ask my girls...please x x x thankyou *im nearly 17, hes nearly 18, girlfriend is nearly 16*
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reader, tra40d +, writes (1 February 2009):
 This is going to show up the difference between the sexes!Most blokes will say "go for mit!", and girls will urge caution, in view of his girlfriend in the background.Is he using you?Probably, although he will deny it even to himself - there's an old saying....."a stiff prick has no conscience" which operates here.Why are you scared of getting hurt? What are you looking for in this relationship? As he has already got a girlfriend, you can't be looking for an emotional involvement: silly and unfair if you are.So, leaving aside emotions, you (both) are looking for sex, purem and simple. In which case, enjoy it whilst it lasts, and no regreets when it finshes, as it surely will.Remember Erica Jong? Her book, "A Zipperless ****"?Oh, and secrets are meant for keeping, so why this compulsion to tell your girls? Just enjoy the secrecy of it all as it adds spice!Did that help?Ron. (65, so a little experienced....)
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2009): good luck, your gonna need it if he has a girlfriend.........
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