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writes:Hiyya everyone,I'm 11 and i am soooooo unhappy.At school there's this girl who thinks we're like best friends, and i just hate her i only have say 2 half close friends, i feel like i have no friends, like i don;'t WANT an of the girls in my class to be mt friend, i just hate them all really, i like this boy apparently he likes me but i don't think so, and i just feel CRAAAP all the time, is there something wrong wiht me help me i'm relly depressed.'Preciate it,lauren x
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reader, 333  +, writes (15 February 2009):
Hmm, well you're only 11. I'm 15, i think you're just going through a tough stage in your life. I know how you feel, i feel like that myself too. Don't worry. Maybe ask the guy?? i know it can be awfully difficult but it's better than not knowing. (:
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2009): Lauren dear, u ar being so selectve on ur friends, ur alegdly bestfriend would feel betrayed if she hears about it and try gettn to know her better mayb it wil help, sweety at your age you should be thinking about boys yet, once u start dating them you wil never stop so wait a lil bit, its worth to wait cos sumthng gud might come out of it
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reader, Rae1031 +, writes (31 January 2009):
Hi Lauren,
I think at the age of 11 you and your friends or not-friends, are all heading into new stages of you lives that can be very confusing. During these times your likes and dislikes can change from minute to minute and keep in mind that theirs are too. This is normal and over the next year or two you will probably settle into a close group of friends that you feel comfortable with and are happy spending your time with. If you are feeling unusually down or sad then you do need to talk to somebody about that. Preferbly an adult. Other people your age are just not going to be equipt to give you the help you need with this. You should talk to your parents, a guidance councelor or teacher at school, somebody from church or even a friends parents or neighbor that you feel safe and comfortable with. Be honest with them about everything that is going on that may be making you feel this way, they are going to understand how you feel and want to help find ways for you to feel happy again. Good Luck.
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reader, samantha_love +, writes (31 January 2009):
well i can relate to you i only have a few real girlfriends that i trust but i never really open up to them because i have alot of trust issues but i do have a boyfriend that i can tell everything to and he understands me he is somebody that i can really be myself with and i think that is whawt you need someboby you can open up to and just open up to andf let them kno how you feel the best advice i can give you is to tell him how you feel and if it dosent work out then he wasent ment for you.
best of luck
let me kno how it goes and if you need to talk messege me and i will b happy to talk to you
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