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Archived questions from: 29 January, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

How do you make guys like/approach you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - I've tried it all. They ask for my number but never call. They look but never approach. Am I not attractive or is it just because I'm not from around here? help..... I dont know what to do....

I don't want to give blowjobs but it seems like a problem.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Every time I make out with a guy they always go down on me or should I say oral sex but I feel bad because they lay back expecting me to do the same thing to them which I can never do because it seems disgusting!!! I know it's unfair for them but I ...

I think I like him in 'thataway' and I know he likes me. I'd love to take the change, but I'm literally terrified.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5767 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - I'm not really sure where to start.. It's been a long time since I've had to post anything on this site.. I was going out with a guy up until about 18 months ago. We broke up because he was controlling, critical, emotionally abusive, a habitual ...

People keep telling me that he likes me... what do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5767 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - My friend's cousin is kind of my best friend now. People keep telling me that he likes me and I'm sure he does but I definitely don't want to tell him because I'm afraid he'll deny it or say no. Then I would give him the hint that I like him. I ...

Will his negative thoughts hurt me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5767 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - I became to really close to a guy, best friends you could say. He says I'm one of the best people/friends he's ever known and he would do anything for me. I feel the same towards him. I'm pretty sure I'm in love with him and I think he might love ...

Do you think he could truly be my soultmate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5767 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - I'm in love and I mean in love, I'm only 15 but I am honestly head over heels in love with I boy I have never met before I know it sounds so sad and pathetic but he means everything to me he is 19 and like I said I am only 15, we were waiting until ...

How have people gone from similar points with relationships - friends to more than friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5762 days ago

29 January 2009 (M) - So I am hoping for some guidance or advice from some of the people on here. I have this girl who I have liked for a few years and we went to college together and still keep in touch and hang out every couple of weeks or so. Two years ago we got ...

Break my heart over and over...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

29 January 2009 (M) - Hello, I love her. But she does not love me. I think she just liked me as a friend. She broke up with her boyfriend a time ago. But still loves him. We've seen eachother from time to time and I thought she liked me. She flirted, she was smilling ...

He's coming back here again to visit and I'm all confused.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5759 days ago

29 January 2009 (?) - Well, there is this family friend of mine who stays in some other country. We met like after a really long time and we liked each other, a lot. He spent a lot of time here but was busy with relatives so we hardly got to meet but we talked a lot on ...

My husband and my friend... an item?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 11 year and were together for 14 years. Then about two and a half years ago I injured my back at work. It has been rough on our relationship that is for sure. We were making it though we supported each other ...

Friend Zone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

Boyfriend get drunks every night and friends don't like him!!!

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29 January 2009 (F) - Hi there. I've got a problem with my boyfriend. I love him very much. My family are very rich and my boyfriend don't have money. We met on the internet. We are going out 5 months now and my parents like him but he's got a drinking problem. He ...

How on earth am I going to make it to April? How do I keep this going?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Needing a bit of advice. Sorry for the length but it's a long story. Just before Christmas, I ended up back in touch with my high school boyfriend after 3 years of not really keeping in touch. We lost contact when a mutual best friend killed ...

Does she still like him and just want me for sex, or does she love me and just wants to really be friends with him??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

29 January 2009 (M) - I met this chick during summer school last year and we totally hit it off. Before school was out, I asked her if she wanted to hook up and have some fun, she enthusiasticaly agreed and so we got together. I really found her attractive and really ...

A lesson to be learned here...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Met this guy on internet dating site. Texted, only, for 5 weeks, and then we arranged to meet. Because he works till late.... he came to my house.... I was sure he was someone I could trust. Of course, our texting was mostly of a sexual nature... ...

I'm scared he'll run away if I bring it up...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Recently a co-worker I'd invited to my house party hit on a man I had just begun dating. I am not sure what happened between them but something started at least because he did go to her house a few times she said when she blurted it out to me a week ...

He went out with my b/f and it still hurts

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend went out with my best friend after we had broken up for like a week and i only found out two months later. I always thought there was something between them because during our relationship we had so many trust issues and problems ...

My boyfriend called me fat and repulsive!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Ok I need some advice please, I have been going out with my boyfriend for around four years... he can be controlling with me and mean but I never feel like I have the strength to leave him. I suffered a bad eating disorder last year and lost a ...

Should I ask my wife to cover up???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

29 January 2009 (M) - Hi I am 24 and I am balding, me wife to my surprise dosen't want me to shave off my balding head but wants me to grow hairs on the sides so that my baldness becomes more prominent, also she wears traditional clothes to her office but at home she ...

He hasn't technically cheated, he's crossing what I see as major boundaries.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - My bf hangs around a lot of girls who all have crushes on him. They are always very physical with him, hugging him, kissing him on the cheek, touching his legs etc and getting him to put sunscreen on them and they put it on him. On several occasions ...

Best friend troubles...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Ok, I am like 14 years old right, I have a new boyfriend we have been together for a few days now. The day after he asked me out I told my friend (which is a guy) that I had a new bf and he started crying and doesn't want to talk to me any more. I ...

Sometimes he says he wants something serious, then the next day it's completely different.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5768 days ago

29 January 2009 (M) - Ok, I recently met this great guy a few weeks ago, we hung out a few days together and talked almost each day. Now, he recently changed schools for a semester but is coming back once the term is over. Even though he's away, we still keep in touch ...

What do you think? Is he still interested?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - I have just started seeing somebody and last weekend he went to visit friends, which is grand, he text to say he was going and then nothing. I text him worried that he didn't make it there or back and got no reply so i rang and also got no reply. ...

Should I trust him after being a jerk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5768 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - okay, so this guy used to be so mean to me and acted like a jerk, now my friend says that he can't stop thinking about me! i used to have a crush on him. he talked to me on the phone and said "dude i seriously can't stop thinking about you!" and it ...

How do I tell this girl I want to be more than just friends with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5768 days ago

29 January 2009 (M) - I have a female friend, that was married to my mate, for 20 years, they split, 4 years ago after a couple of years she met someone else, but they have recentley split. I've always liked her, and we have become really close as I've been a shoulder to ...

Why do girls have to give soo much mixed signals?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

29 January 2009 (M) - Why do girls have to give soo much mixed signals? There's this girl I really like, and we're really close friends... so I've never asked her out because I didn't want the friendship to be ruined and she has a boyfriend.. but lately she's been ...

The best friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - ... okay so there is this senior.. that i'm really good friends, we can talk about everything and anything.. i never felt more comfortable with a guy... but he takes me like his little sister and he has a girlfriend... i just realized that i think ...

Is my boyfriend bisexual?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - Ok, so last night by boyfriend was not sober and I went to his house this morning. I went into his bathroom and I saw a dildo on his shower, I didn't want to say anything about it cause I didn't want to embarrass him. I walked out of the bathroom ...

Do you think he might actually like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - I'm usually into the more popular guys, and they all turn out to be huge jerks that only care about themselves,but now i like this one boy, hes a smart guy, , he is so cute and i really like him. He is friends with one of my best friends, and ive ...