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Archived questions from: 18 January, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

What do you think... Is he trying to make me jealous?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - I live in a small town where everybody knows each other and there’s not a lot of people your own age. There’s this boy (I’ll pretend his name is Aiden) and he lives on a farm outside a close town. We both go to the same church. There isn’t a good ...

Big argument!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - Hi, the other day me and my best mate were in the park chatting to her boyfriend and his mates and somehow my boyfriend saw us and later that day me and my mate where at my house and my boyfriend came round and started shouting at me and then he ...

He says if I don't stop being so jealous and insecure it's not going to work, But I can't help it, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship for almost 2 years. We have had good times and bad. This my first relationship, well real relationship. Every other guy in my life has hurt me. I feel like I'm not good enough for him. He looks at porn a lot and it ...

I'm sure permanent lovesickness can cause damage - and I need some motivational tips.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - Hey. I'm a common 18 year old girl that has been plunged into the depths of lovesickness! I'm in desperate need of love advice - so please help me if you can! Here's my question... Ever since I was 7, I've really REALLY liked this guy that was 4 y...

I have never felt so emotionally obliterated since our break up...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5774 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - I was with my ex for 2 years and I was doing fine after we broke up. I felt that after he moved 2 hours away and I couldn't get a job to be with him. Our odds of feelings changing and fights increasing from lack of time to see eachother and the long ...

I feel like my friend has replaced me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - I have had my friend since we were 3, its been 9 years and now she has a new friend! They hang out all the time, that used to be me! I feel like she replaced me. She doesnt know but I'm really mad...what should I do?...

Did I miss my chance to move things to a higher level?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5778 days ago

18 January 2009 (M) - Some of my friends from high school decided to have a party to catch up with each other two nights ago. I havent seen a lot of them since we graduated 3 years ago. I probably would not have gone if not for one of my friends expressing how much she ...

Gym guy is cute-how do I let him know I'm interested

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5778 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - I really like this guy Josh. He works in the gym I go to. He just so happens to be working almost every time I go workout. He's very cute and nice. He comes up to me and asks how I am and hopes I have a good night etc. I ask for help sometime...

My so called "best friend" tells the guy I like that I"m a slut!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - I went to visit my so called best friend at her university for a few days in october. During that time I had immediately grew rather attached with her boyfriends mate. We clicked, had loads in common and sitting opposite ends of a couch for 5 hours ...

Do I tell my straight friend I'm gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - How do I tell my straight friend (Im NOT attracted to her in any way) that Ive known since we were both in the first grade that Im gay? Shes a good friend but we have never discussed r/ships or dating, shes never dated anyone,noone, yes she is...

How to get pregnant

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5778 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - have a friend who had to do abortion and she want to get pregnant now it has been 2yrs she went to the doctor and every ting wz ok what else can she do...

What's wrong with him? Please help me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5778 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - dear all at cupid, Ok I'm not sure if this is correct but my friend said to me last nite that she had a word with my ex bf, saying that he's never actually told me that it's over for good, he says we get on better as friends which is true, he's onl...

We are both crossdressers...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5778 days ago

18 January 2009 (M) - Here goes, I met a great guy in march 2008 he said he was gay however I saw him on a chat site as a bi cd! questioned him and he denied it! The answer he gave me was very plausible! believed him! had a great relationship with him since until he ran ...

He no longer replies to my texts...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5775 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - This boy which is my friend's cousin. He laughs with me and we are really close at school. I thought he liked me but now he only answers my texts when he wants to. I hate sending him a text and him not replying any more. Do you think he knows that I ...

Do I say yes and have a niggle in the back of my every time we kiss. Or say no and forget him.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - Dear cupid. I have a bit of a dilemma. There is a boy who's 16. I went out with him a while ago. But we split because he wanted sex and I wasn't ready. Anyway a few months down the line he has asked me out saying he will go really slow this tim...

Did he do something wrong or am I being over-sensitive?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

18 January 2009 (M) - A few weeks ago I met a guy and we got along very well. I liked him, he liked me. We hung out a fair bit of the last few weeks. This guy had known my house mate for five years. They had always got along very well and liked each other so often t...

He's going to college, date him? or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - well im 15 and my best friendiis 19 .we have be friend for 2 year .i really like .well i think im falling in love with him .well he asked me out but i dont want to go out with him cause he bout to go off to college but then again i do cause i love ...

I'm in love with my friend who is getting married!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - i have known this guy my whole life. i moved away when i was 6 but i go back to where we grew up every year. about 4 years ago, we reconnected as adults when i was in town. there was something romantic between us instantly. over the years, we have ...

Was it wrong of my friend to flirt with the guy I fancied?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - I went out clubbing with my friend tonight,and i liked a guy we were talking to in there.At first,it seemed like he liked me,as he was asking how old i was and kept looking at me,and even my friend said she thought he fancied me.After a while ...

Do I give him time? Or just say "see ya"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5779 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - So I just met this guy who is 18 years older then I and there was an instant chemistry between us. We had only been talking for about two weeks when he expressed finacial issues that he was having with a business he started about two years ago. So ...

Mom doesn't like me talking to this guy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5779 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - What should I do, my mama don't like the boy I talk to, we are just firends n she don't have a reason to be mad, cause we not seeing eachother. We talk on the phone for 4 or 5 hours on the phone sometimes, yes we got close over the last few months ...

He's too shy to make a move

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5779 days ago

18 January 2009 (F) - I've liked this guy for almost 2 years and can't seem to get over him. He's a little shy, so if anyone would make the first move it would have to be me. I can't do it :(. We're such great friends and I value the friendship. I don't know for sure ...