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Archived questions from: 2 January, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

How close can friends of the opposite sex be?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5794 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - Guys please, My best friend is a man in his mid-forties (I am in my mid-fifties and a trained nurse), we are not romantically involved (even though I would like to be), but my friend talks to me about everything, I mean everything. He h...

How can I make my boobs bigger???

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5793 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - How to make your boobs bigger ??? I'm 13 and my boobs aren't very small they are actually not bad and my bf everything was gud he is one year older and a lot of girls like him but he always loved me cause he knows me well and we were together 8 ...

I'm mid-thirties and newly single and feel that all my friends have everything I want.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - Hello I'm new to this and am typing this because I feel so down and like life is passing me by and I have no purpose. My relationship has just ended as I didn't think he could make me really happy and I'm mid-thirties and newly single and feel ...

Did I end up becoming a good friend and not girlfriend material?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5794 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - Hi there! Ok, I've gone out with this guy a few times. We have lots to talk about and joke around, talk sports, and have driven out for late, late night food cravings. I'm a little tomboyish.. guys love it! But this guy I'm soooo into... he text,...

Background and getting on better in life.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5793 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - Do the people form the housing estates get on better than people who are from a better background? Most I like are from housing estates or trailer trash(underclass) and they are a lot better than me in life, they have everything and I have ...

My best friend's brother has cancer...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5794 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - I need some advice.... my best friend's brother has just been diagnosed with cancer and I want to be able to support her as long as she needs me. How do I let her know that I am here for her, she will put up a facade and act like everything is all ...

Should I really feel bad about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5794 days ago

2 January 2009 (M) - I met a girl I have always liked right from childhood days at school. As we grew up everybody thought we looked good together and I thought so too. Just that she never gave me the chance. I knew she liked me too but just won't let it happen between ...

Attitude change

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5794 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - Hey, I'm an 18 year old girl that has never spent a lot of time thinking about boys. I have had a few short relationships and I know what love feels like, but I'm the type of girl that puts school first. To give you an idea. Now, some month...

Why is he playing games?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5794 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - So I have this friend I've known for a few years. We're constantly in and out of one another's lives and most of our relationship is on the phone. I have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend but we do a lot of flirting and seem to love tlking a...

I want to ask if I should keep being friends of if I should try and say that I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5793 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - Hi, I really fancy this boy who I've been friends with for a while now. He's 17 and I'm 14 and we have really intimate open conversations and I don't know if this is his way of flirting with me or if he's just really open with his conversations. ...

Should I give things more time, if so how long?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5792 days ago

2 January 2009 (M) - Hi I'm a gay guy in my mid thirties I dated a guy in Aug (also in his mid thirties) the relationship lasted about 2 months after which he said it's not working for him. I was not particularly happy with the relationship as I felt there was very ...

I don't know who to choose now!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5793 days ago

2 January 2009 (M) - Hi I went to see a girl called Lucy, we said we loved each other and we talked about doing many sexual things however, we had a part at hers and I got with her best friend. It was the first time me and her friend met up. When she made the first m...

Should I just stay out of my neighbors drama?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5794 days ago

2 January 2009 (?) - I have neighbors that live in the same duplex building. They were divorced when I met them. I started out as friends with the man because he has a son a couple years older then my daughter. Then when his ex moved in we became friends and I don't ...

He calls me "Buddy". Did we wait too long and now we're in the friend zone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5794 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - Ok, so I've known this guy since May 2008. We talked, and talked thru email. Then, we finally exchanged #'s in July! After that..I was starting a new relationship. We still kept in touch, but not so much at the end. I ended things with my ex..and he ...

He's married - is it still possible for me to have a friendship with him?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5793 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - I met a (married) guy quite some time ago, and he was recently working in the town where I live in. I stopped by to see him while he was working (he asked me to). When I saw him, he seemed quite flustered when we were chatting. We were planning on ...

Torn between two boys - how do I break a heart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5794 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - help i am torn between two boys and im only a teenager. i have known this boy a while and he`s my best friend. he helps me out all the time and recently he told me he loved me and wanted to be more than friends. then the other boy came in and swept ...

I feel ignored by my friends, should I leave them and find new mates?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5794 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - recently my so called mates don't ask me if im coming out, or want to stay and they are always together that doesn't bother me it just annoys me that they don't ask me anymore, and because im being excluded. also recently i asked one of them if ...

My best guy friend beat me up - am I overreacting to what he did to me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - My Best friend is a guy and we have been best friends for almost 4 and a half years. A year ago we were at work,and I said out loud how much money he had,even though nobody had heard me, he got mad and lightly slapped me across my face.I got so ...

Are my friends cutting me out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5795 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - I am 21 years old and I feel like all my friendships are falling apart. I was diagnosed with anxiety when I was 15, I decided to stay home after graduating high school and go to a community college here, while my friends went off to other schools. ...

I'm in love with a friend that doesn't feel that way about me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5795 days ago

2 January 2009 (M) - So theres this girl that I have been friends with for atleast 3 years and we r best friends. All my other friends know I like her and they are always messin' with me about it. So one day, word got around our little group of friends and she found ...

Mean Girls: what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5793 days ago

2 January 2009 (F) - ok i am 13 and in 8th grade i am kinda overweight but these girls in my spanish class are always trying to start fights with me cause they think it is easy to hurt me but every time they start agrivating me and arguing with me i start arguing back i ...

What's with the mixed signals?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5795 days ago

Silent Treatment: when will it end?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5795 days ago

2 January 2009 (M) - got a close friend who i been friends with for 4years. His a bit stubborn and never admitted his fault or i've never heard him say sorry. Anyway we used to talk so much, get along and we now live together at uni, we're flat mates. We both live our...

How do I get through to her and show her this guy isn't good enough?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5795 days ago

2 January 2009 (M) - Hi, There is this girl who I am crazy about and have been for about 3 years now. We are really close friends and have had loads of chances to ask her out but have always chickened out. Now, she is dating someone. More to the point, the...

I've fallen for the girl I call my best friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5794 days ago

2 January 2009 (M) - I've been bestfriend with this girl for a while now and I really have fallen for her! I told her how I felt and she said she felt the same way but if anything went wrong in a relationship she didnt want to lose me. I saw what she meant. Its been 3 ...

How would you go about asking your best friend and the girl of your dreams to senior prom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5795 days ago

2 January 2009 (M) - How would you go about asking your best friend and the girl of your dreams to senior prom? We're still a few months away from it, but I've been thinking about this since last Halloween. I like her a lot and I'm thinking she likes me, too. I guess I ...