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Archived questions from: 21 January, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

Torn between ex girlfriend of almost 3 years and best friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (M) - Basically I'm torn between 2 women. One is my ex girlfriend of 2 and a half years, we had alot of problems mainly to do with trust, but I was so in love with her I couldn't imagine being with anyone else. I was even planning on asking her to ma...

My boyfriend's mates are teasing him and it's spacing him out...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - Hello Again. Well, My boyfriend and I are still going out. Just to re-cap he and I have been going out for a little over half a year. He was a player and I had not dated many people. Well, this is the longest relationship either of us has be...

I don't want to mess everything up like I did last time.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5794 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - Hey everyone, I need as much advice as I can get please! Basically, ages ago I wrote about a stupid thing I did (met a boy on the internet, fell in love but I was using pics of some random gorgeous girl instead of myself) I deceived him and went to ...

Should I leave her because I feel she betrayed me.

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21 January 2009 (M) - Please help me. There is this girl who is my close friend. I love her and told her so and that I want her to be my girlfriend but she said she was not ready for a relationship. Later she told me she had gotten a boyfriend but that she loves me. ...

I don't know what to think... Does she like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (M) - Ok, the thing is at college, there is a girl who I really like, she's nice, sweet, good looking etc and I don't know if she likes me back. We get on really well as freinds, she laughs at my jokes, she smiles at me like all the time and we always ...

I can't get my feelings straight.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - I've had this thing with this guy for about three months. we aren't going out but we have this commitment thing to not hook up or get with other people. i love being with him but i see him maybe once a week. and we are never alone. he isn't the kind ...

Is he being serious or just messing with me? What's his motive?

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21 January 2009 (F) - Okay, here's the basic story to this. There's this guy. I have to sit next to him in a class where it's very free-form and we can talk quiet so long as the teacher doesn't hear us. And he talks to me about um, the dirtiest things! And then there's ...

When is it more than friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - I have known my friend for a couple of months now and have started developing feelings for him. Somedays I think he feels it too, but I can't be sure. I was wondering how do guys show their female friends of a long time that there feelings have ...

Advice Please... Should I tell him how I feel or just be there for him as a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5801 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - well this is my problem... there's a guy and I have liked him for about a year now. At first we weren't that close but this year we have gotten a lot closer. A while ago I was talking to him on msn and when I asked him how he was he said he was d...

Why won't he have sex with me until I express my feeelings to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - I was supposed to be friends with benefits with this guy but the guy doesn't wanna do anything until I tell him how I feel about him. He says he's sensitive and that he's not like other guys. Why won't he have sex with me until I express my ...

Friend seems to think I am gay and is following me around

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (M) - Hi, well ill get straight to the point, i'm 15 and have a friend (i wouldnt call him a friend but he would probly call me his best friend) who i think may be gay (not that theres anything wrong with that) but he seems to be following me lit...

Ex still cares for me and wants fwb..I am unsure

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - I'm feeling a bit lost and confused. My ex Doug and my ex best friend Lily went out behind my back soon after we broke up. This was quite a while ago. It took me a long time to forgive them but i realised it was better to let go of the anger i had ...

Am I just reading too much into his actions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - hey guys, im really confused by the mixed signals a very good guy mate "tom" is giving me...and i dont know how to respond. im a very out going and friendly girl who never stops talking, ive been with my boyfriend for over 2 years and i am very ha...

I seem to have lost all my friends...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - Hi everyone hope you can help me. 2008 was a particularly hard year for me, I split with my husband with all intents and purpose of the relationship ending. We have got back together and are working on our marriage its going really well now. I h...

How do I tell the guy I like that I'm pregnant to an ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5795 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - I am pregnant from an ex and have since moved on. A friend from the past just showed up back in my life and I really like him. Unfortunatly, I am not showing yet and he has no idea that in three months I am going to pop. I don't know how to tell ...

Does she like me, or are we just good friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

21 January 2009 (M) - I've liked a certain girl for 2 years now. When we met, we were always arguing through emails. Half a year later, we became friends because one of her friends (who now lives in queensland) had a crush on me. The girl i like began to be very frien...

Is this finally my chance with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5814 days ago

21 January 2009 (M) - There is this woman who has been a friend of mine for 10 years. I'm not sure why she told me about a good sex dream she had with me a while back. Today she planted a very nice kiss on my lips. Todays kiss was way more than the usual quick hug and ...

Why do girls always fall for the bad guys?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5814 days ago

21 January 2009 (?) - im having girl trouble and i need your help..i have to questions... 1-ok there this girl i really like and we're really close friends and i think she likes me too..but tthe thing is she has a boyfriend and she's always flirting with me and seem...

What does he want from me? I'm confused

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5814 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - I am baffled by this man's behavior. We are friends but recently I've grown rather fond of him and begin to see him in a romantic light. He is a rather unusual 24 yr old, deep in academia and frankly, one of the biggest nerds and social recluse...

Best friends boyfriend

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21 January 2009 (F) - He tells me that he loves me and sounds like he means it, he says that he has never felt like this before, that he would do anything for me and never wants to loose me, he says that this is the first time he has been in love untill now.. The ...

I love him but his g/f hates him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5814 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - my best friend and i have been best friends since ninth grade. He's one year older than me. i'm 16. i've recently stopped denying the obvious. i'm in love with my best friend. i've told him...and he's told me that he feels the same way only ...

My friend won't respond in over 2 weeks!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5814 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - IDK, my best friend just up and left me. Ok, here's the story my best friend came into town and I wasn't able to see him. I could sense he was a little upset but that was two weeks ago. I call and txt he won't respond what happened?...