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Archived questions from: 20 January, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

Is there such a thing as body language...

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20 January 2009 (?) - I really need to know. I don't know why but a lot of girls these days are really superficial and shallow so I want to know what girls really want in a guy, and what qualities they look for. Be honest!! And is there such thing as body language...

Have I wasted my love on her?????

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20 January 2009 (M) - I've known a beautiful, sexy woman for fourteen years, about seven years ago, we became a long distance couple. I invested in her store in the midwest, subsidised her income to the tune of $800/mo this past year and a few in between. She has always ...

Has anyone else ever sent naughty pictures to anyone???

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20 January 2009 (F) - Hello, I am talking to a guy on aim for a while (few months maybe a year). Well just yesturday I became really daring and kinda naughty. We sent each other nude pictures of each other. I just showed him my breast but with my face. He showed ...

In love with a straight man...

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20 January 2009 (M) - Hey guys please help as I am going out if head! I think I'm in love with a straight man! He doesn't know I like men, I don't think I did until I met him, I'm 24 and have never been in love... and think this is what it feels like because he's all I ...

Am I just barking up the wrong tree (kind of wishful thinking) or do you think there is possibly something there?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

20 January 2009 (M) - Hello, I have a real dilemma! I have a love interest, we are not in a relationship but when we are together we act like a couple and get very close and personal. The thing is her Aunt is also my Aunt through marriage, so although we are not cousins, ...

Love feeling...

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20 January 2009 (M) - A girl saw a picture of me and my cousin, a girl and said is it her rival. What did she mean by that? Is it she is in love with me but timid to express it or a joke. Please help because she has made several approaches towards me, like I'll be ...

How can I stop being so paranoid about my weight?

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20 January 2009 (F) - Ok I know that this has nothing to do with sex but I'm really conscious about my weight, everyone says that I'm skinny (in a healthy way) but I just for some reason can't believe them. They don't get how it's like for me, especially seeing my best ...

What is his game? Does he still care about me, or he is trying to pay me back for leaving him?

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20 January 2009 (F) - Hi, I walked out on my longterm partner a few months ago, even though I still love him. His jealousy was making me crazy and ruining our relationship. I also must admit that I had treated him badly in the past, lied to him a few times which led to ...

Is this just a one off feeling because I haven't had a boyfriend for a bit??

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20 January 2009 (F) - I have this friend and we're been friends for a long time. I feel that I could tell him anything except the way I think about him all the time and if I see a really hot guy I then think back to him. The only problem is he is 3 years younger than ...

Is she just as shy as I am?

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20 January 2009 (M) - There is this girl aged 16, she is my friend's sister. As the reserved person I am, I don't talk too much. At first each time we meet we hardly alter words to each other but recently each time I approach her wanting to greet her she smiles ...

How can I encourage her to take sex at face value and enjoy it for the moment?

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20 January 2009 (M) - I have a good relationship with a female friend. I want our relationship to become closer and I want sex. She seems hesitant. How can I encourage her to take sex at face value and enjoy it for the moment? What are some benefits she could receive by ...

I was wondering how old you are before you stop getting crushes?

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20 January 2009 (F) - Hi, I was wondering how old you are before you stop getting crushes? I'm 26 and for the past 2 years have had the hugest crush (or so I think it is) on 1 of my senior managers at work. Every time I see him I get this thud feeling in my stomach and ...

He says he likes me, but loves her

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20 January 2009 (F) - Alright there is this guy, he's my friend and we talk online sometimes. He's always been nice to me but lately when we're talking we'll be very honest w/each other and he'll tell me that he thinks im beautiful and i have nice eyes and a nice butt ...

I'm shy, I'd like to make friends with this girl but unsure how to do so

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20 January 2009 (M) - Hello, I started college this school year, and have not had an easy time adjusting to it. My academics have gone well, and I love my major, but socially, I am a little lost. I recently noticed a girl occasionally glancing at me. I h...

No longer b/f & g/f just friends but I still love her

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20 January 2009 (M) - I've been with this girl for 15 months. When we first met it was perfect, I have so many good memories. Last summer she worked a ways away so we could only see each other a bit every couple of weeks. We got past it, but we didn't really see more ...

Should I apologize for my behavior?

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20 January 2009 (F) - This guy who i went to high school with had a little crush on me..but i never reciprocated the feelings becuase i just never saw him in that light...he's kept in touch with me, but nothing serious just hellos and goodbyes. Well yesterday mornig...

Any chance of my ex and I reuniting after years apart?

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20 January 2009 (M) - OK, this is going to be a real long post, but I need some real good advice and for that, you guys need a good understanding of what’s going on. First let me introduce you to myself. I’m quite shy, as I've grown older I'm worried that I've become ...

Worried about my friend, what can I do to help her?

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20 January 2009 (F) - Hi guys, here's the thing. My best friend is sinking into very heavy depression. She suffered through the death of both her parents and her siblings, and together we've been through deaths of our friends too. Her life has been hell. Recently she ...

How do I get answers and how do I make things right?

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20 January 2009 (M) - I need loads of help and comfort =[! I have a girlfriend and I've fought really hard to get her. We have not had sex or anything but we have came very close. I really do have a spot for her in my heart and i do love her but i dont feel she loves ...

Stressful experience, now sexually vacant. Please help.

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20 January 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for 5 years. 4 of those years were sexually spectacular. Last December she became pregnant. It turned into an ectopic pregnancy and she had to have surgery. She was in the hospital for a night, and in be...

COKE problem!

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20 January 2009 (F) - Hi, I don't really know who to talk to about this... and not sure whether I am being too harsh or not and I would like to know a reasonable fair way to deal with my scenario. In a nutshell I have been dating my boyfriend for 8 months. He is a...

I don't know whether to ask my friend to ask him what the hell is going on, or leave it and see what happens with him... what do you think?

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20 January 2009 (F) - It's been 5 months and I'm still hung up on the same guy, we saw each other for a bit and kissed and stuff and it never went too far, then he told me he was off women and we stopped seeing each other and he saw other girls. Then at the christmas ...

I have a feeling that he really is a control freak deep down inside, but just hasn't let his true self out.

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20 January 2009 (F) - Should I break-up with him? I have been with my boyfriend for four (4) years now. We have lived toghether for 2 1/2 years. And he has stated he would like to marry me one day, but we have never made an official engagement or anything. There...

They told my ex I wanted to be friends with benefits.

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20 January 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend broke up for over a week now, I still love her, but the thing is when we broke up I asked 2 of her friends if they want to be like friends with benefits and they told her over the weekend. I know that my ex looks at me as a ...

Young and confused...

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20 January 2009 (M) - I'm 14. Yes, I'm really young. I've known I liked boys (unsure about girls) since a while ago. Recently, I've been pretty... dormant. I haven't looked at boys (since this is what the topic's about) or thought about anything involving them. ...

Would love sex but have no drive to date a girl...

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20 January 2009 (M) - I don't know what is wrong with me so I really want physical/sexual contact with girls but I have no drive what so ever to date one. I don't know, I could ask out at least 30 off the top of my head that would go out with me. I just don't feel like ...

Confused and don't know who I want to be with.

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20 January 2009 (F) - I moved to tucson in february of 08. and immediately after i met this boy who is now my bestfriend. i have always had a crush on him and i recently found out that he feels the same about me. only reason we have never told eachother i guess is ...

Is it friendship? Or more?

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20 January 2009 (F) - I had been chatting with this guy for 4 years and I decided to go meet him. I went over to his state to meet with him, he was working so the time that we could spend was limited and I was only able to stay there for the weekend because I had to come ...

If I'm this married man's friend, why won't he open up to me?

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20 January 2009 (F) - I know people say that a friendship between a married man and a single girl is wrong and that one of them always want something else. Well, I don't think is the case. I made a friend like a anyone would do 2 years ago in a business. He ended up ...

My friends act like little girls! Is it because their parents divorced?

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20 January 2009 (F) - I have a few friends(my age)who are children of divorce. They are now grown women and act like little girls(very annoying) Is this behavior the result of divorce? Did they get stuck at a certain age(perhaps the age their parents divorced)and now act ...

Birthdays are a big deal!!!

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20 January 2009 (F) - BIRTHDAYS ARE A BIG DEAL… I wake up to the sun shining through my bed room window, the sky is clear, and it’s another beautiful morning. My soul is filled with such a sweetness today I’m at peace and my body is relaxed. But also I woke up to a flu...