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writes:I'm 20 and have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years. He is going to uni this september 2 hours away from me. Which means we will probably only see each other once every 2 or 3 weeks! He will probably be going out clubbing all the time and meeting loads of new girls. I am very worried about this and I know when he goes I am going to be constantly looking at all his new photos on facebook. And I'm dreading seeing him in photos with loads of different girls.Im not some majorly mental insecure girlfriend lol. I just know I'm going to be worried when he goes, an im worried im going to be really unhappy.What shall I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2011): I dont have my GF on my Fb simply because of this! I have such a bad jealousy issue with men. Ill just say jealousy brings out my only source of any anger and so what I do is eliminate my triggers. I dont have her on my FB but can still send her a message and say hi. She understands this and appreciates I know how to control my anger and behavior. I do trust her and she has given me no reason to be angry however she too also clubs a lot and I cant stand photos of her with guys even if they are guys Ive met. This has really worked for me and Ill recommend it to you.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (15 April 2011):
 Don't look. Find something else to occupy yourself with. Don't Facebook stalk him, or you'll begin to see things that aren't there and get nervous. When you feel tempted to check up, go to your favorite website. Or look at cute baby animal videos (they honestly will help you feel happier) or call up your friends. Not looking at his photos will help prevent the problem before it starts.
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