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writes:Is it normal that i want to see my boyfriend everyday? and that I get quite upset when he cancels and so we cant *he doesnt do it very often at all*I never used to see my ex this often and I delt with it fine :| I would go 2 weeks without seeing him outside of school, now I see my current boyfriend nearly everyday. How often do you see your boyfriends? xXx
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reader, Jackalus +, writes (15 April 2011):
Hey no it's perfectly normal, you clearly love him and that's normal too. I like seeing my girlfriend as often as possible. Hope this help
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2011): Yes of course it's normal. It just means you're in love with your boyfriend. Most people do get this when they're young and in love, or when you're older too (tends to happen when being in a new relationship). It did with me too. It will definitely die down the more and more you do see him though. It could take months, or even years. You just need to make sure you're not clingy towards him, and you shouldn't ACTUALLY be seeing him every day, as in time (even if you find it hard to believe) you could get sick of each other, or it could cause arguments, break ups, etc. That's why you do need your own space too. Plus, it's nice to give the pair of you time to actually properly miss each other.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (15 April 2011):
 perfectly Normal.I'm 51 and I want to see my boyfriend every day but we live in different states... I only see him on the weekends now. You are so lucky that you can do it if you want to. Enjoy it.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (15 April 2011):
 You're in love. It normal! Some people don't have that need, some do. When you are in love that need tends to be there, but some have this need no matter how far into a relationship they are.
I see my boyfriend every other day or around that. Rarely do I get to see him every day, but in periods I see him every day. Then again in some periods I see him 2 times a week. I am like you, want to see him every day. Miss him if it's just been one day without contact. I think Im clingy, so I try to not call too much or be all over him, haha.
It is important to spend time apart. With my first serious boyfriend we didn't spend time apart until 6 months or more into the relationship. Up until then we met every day, and lived together, and spending two weeks away from him for the very first time was horrible. In addition I think spending all that time together wore the relationship out, and made us loose perspective. It's important that you both maintain separate lives and don't grow into one.
Try to not get upset if he cancels, or if you can't see him every day. It's good that you want to see him a lot, it just means you are crazy about him and in love. But it is also good to not see him everyday, so you get a chance to miss him, and a chance to experience something you can tell him about when you meet again.
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reader, thomas1214  +, writes (15 April 2011):
women fall in love with someone by spending time with them, guys fall in love by spending time away from them.
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