A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:There is a guy who is my very close friend. I have liked him ever since I first saw him. He also used to say me that he liked me, but as we always joke about everything. I thought he was again joking so I never took it seriously. After some months he was in a relationship with a girl. But after sometime they broke up. When I asked the reason for his break up, he said it was because of her past. Even when he was in a relationship with her, he used to say me that he liked me. Untill now, he says he likes me.Before some days, mistakely I said that I used to like him. Now he tries to be in a relationship with me. The problem is, he is still in contact with his ex. He says that they are only good friends but my other friends say that he secretly meets her. When he realized that my friends had seen him, he felt uncomfortable. One of my friends said that he has lots of girlfriends, so now I'm feeling like he is just cheating me, and that he is not over with his ex. How do I know that they really have broken up, or he is just lying me??
View related questions:
broke up, her past, his ex Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks Krit..Ur answer is really helpful...feeling li'l better!!
A
male
reader, krit +, writes (15 April 2011):
 Dating rule no 1 - NEVER listen to your friends or anyone about whom to date. As they are also as puzzled as you.Dating rule no 2- Just go for what you want. Else it would too late and you would regret It later. Dating rule no 3- don't belive on things said by others as most of the time they are Just rumors. People just make a perception of others but they don't know who they really are from inside.In your case I think that the guy really likes you and he's not lying.Clearly he didn't liked his ex much . That's why he's still hanging around you. But you have To give him a clear answer. He's not completly giving away his contacts with her ex because he's just afraid of left out alone if you Dont replied positively. So he's just keeping his options open. But once you reply the right way there's a way fair bit chance that he would close his other options and come to YOU. That's wat guys generally do.
...............................
|
