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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I went on vacation and met this guy, which I fell in love with. We just clicked you know when you meet someone you know will always be in your life.I came back from vacation awhile ago and we kept in contact he asked me to be his girl the last day of my vacation, and came to see me. He kissed me softly and told me I was beautiful. This guy is not a random guy I've met him and his family a few years ago, We both liked each other from before but we really didn't talk. After I graduate I want to move to this tropical country to be with him. I dont know if this is the right thing to do and I have to go 10 months without him, I sexually desire him. I love everything about him, I am just so confused I think 10 months is way too long, I even thought about dropping out just to be with him but I decided my education comes first. I need advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2011): To me, this sounds like lust, not love. He charmed you while you were on vacation in a tropical and no doubt romantic location.
If you were to move to be with him, how would you pay to live there? Are you authorized to work in that country? What if something happened and your relationship with him fell apart? Would you have any other reason to live there, or would you immediately want to go back home?
Your education comes first, and I recommend getting a college education first, too, so that you could support yourself should anything not work out between you two. If you two truly are compatible and want the relationship to work, it can work long distance until it's an appropriate time.
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