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writes: Friday I asked out this shy guy over facebook only to find that he didn’t read it till Wednesday the next week because he wrote a comment on facebook but didn’t reply to my email. On that Thursday (on the collage bus) all of is friends on the bus jeered at him trying not to say my name (it was clearly obvious but they though I was listening to my IPod). He wasn’t saying anything himself just telling them to shut up then on the Friday I asked him “I guess you read that email” and he said “what email”. On the Friday afternoon on the collage bus he sat opposite me facing me but didn’t say a word (away from his friends). It was awkward but I don’t know wither he likes me or wither he just knows I like him and he doesn’t like me? Is he lying about not reading the email? Also I don’t want to bring it up again because it’s like I’m forcing him to give an answer but I know that If I don’t do anything he won’t either.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2011): It's not true someone won't do anything if you don't. A guy who likes you will ask you out. A guy who sorta likes you would want to know what you wrote him and then ask you out. He read your email but didn't want to reject you to your face and plus if by some freak occurence your message did go poof into cyberworld, he would definitely be asking what it was about and what you sent and you'd be going out with him already if he liked you.
Take it for what it is, a rejection, and move forward in life.
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reader, prodigal0x +, writes (15 April 2011):
hmm, that is awkward. i think he did read it, but the fact he hasnt acted doesnt mean he doesnt like you. maybe hes saying he didnt read it so that he can have time to think it over. either way, i wouldnt go out of your way to make it happen, youve made the first move. :)
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