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*3puremage1
writes:Right now I am hesitating about kicking a girl whom I love on Facebook. This is not internet dating. She is a really good friend of mine and during the past two years both of us experienced a lot of things but now everything has turn bad.At the beginning, we started to know each other and then became friends in less than a day. She approached to me first and I never knew her existence before that.Then, we got closer and then became really close friend. People thought we were secretly going out due to we always hang out with each other but we weren't.Later,she invited me alone to her home to have dinner with her family which is simply the best memory in my head.Why did she do that? Somehow I have been to that house in my dream before. A picture of her reminds me about that dream.Afterward, I went back to my own country and during that time we talked online almost everyday. I thought she belongs to me but during that time she fancied another guy instead of me.Then, I came back and asked her out but failed due to she had fancied another guy. But she was using her and I was the only who knew it. I told her. However, she hated me for that. Next, they broke up and she said thanks to me. At this point, I was exhausted already due to I have sacrifice far too much for her. Last week, I written a goodbye letter to her and she kind of took revenge by saying I scared her because I stared her too much which I didn't even know. Btw here is the link for the letter: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-have-written-a-goodbye-letter-to-a.html.Now, shall I kick her out of my Facebook friend list. I lover her and I don't have the courage to do it since she is a good friend of mine even though she had hurt me so much.
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reader, 83puremage1 +, writes (16 April 2011):
83puremage1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for everyone's help. I really appreciate everyone help. I will make the decision soon. Thanks
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reader, meldana  +, writes (16 April 2011):
there is a way to keep them as friends but at the same time delete any post off of the news feed. when they are posted on your wall you put your curser (little mouse arrow thingy) over their post. You then just click on the x and it will pop up saying (hide this post, or hide all post by _________) this way you don't have to look at the constant feed but still keep in touch with the girl.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2011): I know its hard, but delete her. I had a girl that I fell in love with, ended up using me. I didn't want to delete her, but thanks to advice from here and elsewhere, I summed up the courage and eventually deleted her. It was hard at first, wondering if I did the right thing, but in time, I came to realize that in fact, I did do the right thing, and it helped me get over her that much faster.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2011): just because it didn't work out don't delete her. maybe like a few months from now she will ask you out
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reader, Ima FreAk! +, writes (15 April 2011):
 Hiyaaa,
Hell nooooooooooo coz she is your friend and good friends will always stick by each other no matter what hardships!
Honestly don't delete her on facebook for that, just because she fancied another guy doesn't mean that you shouldn't be her friend or still be in her life.
You will regret deleting her off facebook looool if you do coz things can get UGLY like why did you block me and things gonna get awkward!!!!
Maintain a friendship and your done!
Hope my advice helps!
Good luck!
Lots of love,
Ima FreAk!
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reader, prodigal0x +, writes (15 April 2011):
no. facebook is not important, you will realise this as you get older. if you want to remove her from your life and never speak or think of her again, then delete her. otherwise you are playing mind games, trying to make her feel hurt.
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reader, lacrymosa_652 +, writes (15 April 2011):
 If you honestly think you're not going to speak to her again, and you can wait a while to make sure, then you can delete her. It may just hurt you to see her popping up on your newsfeed and so forth.Good luck, I'm sorry you're going through this.
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reader, Rebeccaa +, writes (15 April 2011):
 Yes maybe you should delete her off of your friedns list.When i broke up with my ex i deleted him off of my friends on facebook and it helped me forget about him because i wouldnt be seeing him on my home page everyday.Good Luck :)
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