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writes:my girlfriend and myself have gone through a rough patch the last few weeks.She has to work tonight, but will be back home with me tomorrow. I really want to make tomorrow romantic and create some chemistry back between us as i want us to be back to our happy selves.This is our chance, before we go away together soon. She will probably be tired when she gets back. If anyone has ideas of what we can do for a nice relaxing day and a nice evening that will cheer us both up and bring us together i would be so grateful. Even if its just a film suggestion for the night. Thanks for all your help. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell Saturday came and she came back in a bad mood. All of my careful prep was rejected and she just by herself for a while then we managed chat i bit in the afternoon and watched a film together which made her cry and then we started talking more. Sunday was lovely were still not as close as we were but things are better. I Actually got a kiss this morning. Oho how i had been missing those. Im gonna keep trying and see how things go in the week ahead. Wish me luck. All help appreciated. :-)
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reader, fishdish  +, writes (17 April 2011):
 aw sounds like you've been doing some of the right things already. I hope you two work through this rough time and she appreciates your efforts.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthankyou for your replies. It is nearly 7am here so i have a few hours or so till she should be home. Bubble bath when she comes back Saturday is almost a norm with us but bath with the candles and maybe some light music might be a good idea. She is also quite used to being given massages as i trained in massage years ago, so get asked for them constantly. but your right i should not use it to try and get us having sex.Beauty and the beast ,as the first film we watched together Im going to try to see if i can find another classic. With us im very much the romantic and she isnt i just hope this works. Really after what she did she should be the one making the effort with me but as she has not i need this to try and get us back on track. I love her so much i would hate to loose her now. Plus i dont want us on holiday together barely talking. Though maybe the holiday will help us get on our feat.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2011): When i think of 'nice and relaxing' i think of massage. So after a meal and movie, give her a lovely all over body massage. If you dont know how to give massage, check out youtube for some help. It is wonderfully relaxing and will make you both feel reconnected.
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reader, followtheblackrabbit  +, writes (16 April 2011):
 I agree with fishdish, a sweet bubble bath can do wonders for relaxation and I highly reccomend either lavender or vanilla oil as lavender soothes and vanilla is both sensual and relaxing. Have a fluffy robe waiting for her and make her dinner-her favorite meal if you can...Internet recipes can help you out if you are clueless in the kitchen. Then, prepare for some cuddle time, pop in an old favorite. Something light-hearted and romantic or something cute and funny. The Mask is a movie that always cheers me...but I remember one occasion where my best friend popped in "Beauty and the Beast" a childhood favorite and I felt so at peace it was crazy :D What was the first movie you guys went to? That could be a nice romantic reminder too..
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reader, fishdish +, writes (16 April 2011):
I don't know what time it is over there so I hope I'm not too late. First I'd make a bubble bath for her, something nice you buy, maybe even put some candles around the tub. If you don't have a tub, buy some baby oil or heated oil and offer to massage her. DON'T use the massage as an excuse to have sex with her, take her cues (unless SHE makes a move for it!). Movies are tough because they all are dependent on taste. Another suggestion I have is to cook dinner/dessert for her, that really shows you care. Good luck
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