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writes: I have lived next to this guy for about eighteen years. I am now eighteen. We were best friends from pretty much birth until fourteen when we both went away to boarding school. Random right?Finally we are now back finishing up our senior year in high school together in the same school. It was weird coming back and being in the same class together. We barely knew each other anymore, and most of the interaction between us was teasing. I had people ask me if he liked me because of the way he acts, even my own teacher.Last Saturday, my friend and I decided we should hang out with him so randomly. May I remind you before this Saturday night we barely hung out at all. We went out and he bought alcohol and we all got really drunk in my friend's car parked on his drive way.All the sudden we are having amazing fun, it was absolutely awesome. Feelings I had for him started to come back. My friend got out of the car to pee, and randomly him and I started holding hands, and I don't remember what the conversation was but I remember it because I still have the special feeling.Sunday he asked me if I remembered anything in terms of hinting for me to remember the holding hands moment. I stupidly said I don't remember much, which I actually dont, but I did not acknowledge the holding hands.Now in school I have run into him several times, all he does is stare, he won't say hi, he is not mean to me at all, just stares not a mean stare, just like he's thinking and looking. He was a table over from me outside, sitting with some random people. I don't know what to do, I have feelings for him, I don't understand why I should have to say anything, he's supposed to be the man isn't he?Update: I am also a singer, and he constantly is always like I watched your singing videos last night, or asking me what I do, and he tends to know a little bit too much about me, he also told me he liked me a couple of years ago.
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reader, Trinklett +, writes (15 April 2011):
He's probably staring at you because he doesn't know how to express himself to you. Trust me staring at you is a positive sign. Hang around him for like 2 weeks and try to be alone with him. If he's got something to say he will but don't push it. Goodluck
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reader, higgy +, writes (15 April 2011):
It sounds like he still likes you. Try hanging out with him alone and find a way to give him your phone number. I know it is costume for the guy to make the first move but sometimes the girl has to give him a little help.
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