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Now that he's won me over he's backing off!

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Question - (15 April 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 16 April 2011)
A female United States age , *nn123 writes:

I am a widow.I have seeing a man for about 3moths now! uin the beginning he persued me big time. The first 2 dates were we really connected he had ask me out again but the next day I canceled and explained i wasn't ready yet. I got to thinking about how I must have heart his feeling and left a message and told him that he was moving to fast and i need to take it slow.

He called me about a week later and set up a date and I let him persue me but nothing intimate for about 3 weeks after dating.I really wanted to get to know him.

He insisted on meeting my children and everything.They

all clicked. They think he is great! After about a month we saw each other at least 3 times a week.He has told me he loves me and wants to take me on trips.

I have really gotten attached to him and would like to see him more often. Now since I want to move closer. He seems to be backing off. I know he is a busy man and I am trying to understand.Sometimes he makes me feel I am no longer a priorty once he won me over. What should i do?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2011):

If he's worth marriage material, the YOU ASK HIM! If you even want a future with him then you have ought to be that blatant with eachother...questions reveal answers...good or bad..and maybe your seeing something here, maybe your not, but ASK HIM, if you can't do that then move on-hes no the one

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