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writes:I am seeing someone and I want to buy some toys for me to use when we video call between our visits to each other. Thing is I have never bought and used sex toys before, and I really don't know where to start or what to think about getting, can anyone please help point in the right direction?Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all for replying I have taken a lot into consideration and have really found all the responses very helpful. Thank you for taking the time to help me it is greatly appreciated. Take care
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reader, DenimandLace44  +, writes (15 April 2011):
 AnneSummers.com is a good place. They also have stores in the UK. They ship and the packaging is discreet. I'm sure there are a lot of other places online as well. :)
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (15 April 2011):
 At least over here they sell them in regular stores now. Simply buy one that looks intresting. Penis look alike tend to about show rather then... ehm.. performance. If a guy gets to see it. Go for something not bigger then him if you catch my drift, the male ego is fragile.And get the a cleaning agent that works with the material. It goes inside after all. Make sure it is clean.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2011): I have no idea, but I just wanted to interject a word of advice or caution (whichever). Please be certain that you really know this "someone" and trust them well enough not to share these video calls with others. These type of phones are a great way to stay connected visually, especially when you dont get to see your mate for long periods of time, but there are drawbacks. These visual "conversations" can still be recorded, whether by the person on the other line, (either with a tap of a finger or by use of another device) or by someones network you have inadvertantly tapped into. Obviously, if you are in a loving commited relationship with someone you trust and have known, then this is not quite such a big deal. But if you arent...then...there is a huge risk that what you are showing them they are showing to their friends down the street, who show their coworkers who show the whole world via the wonderful information highway known as the internet. Just being cautious!
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reader, person12345 +, writes (15 April 2011):
 There are many kinds of toys. Do you mean a vibrator to use on yourself? Online is a good place to start, they're usually cheaper and many websites have reviews. You should think about what you want in a toy though, since there are different kinds for different body parts. For instance if you don't particularly like having a certain body part touched, you shouldn't buy a toy that will go there and reviews can help you know what that toy is good for.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (15 April 2011):
 What do you plan to do with these toys? I think you ought to think about what type of use you are planning first, do you want to make a porn? Do you want to just look sexy? Do you want to give a tease? What are you aiming for exactly?
Could you go to your local store and just ask the person who works there what they suggest?
There are tons of toys out there, each toy for it's specific use... you just need to figure out what you want to do first! Why do you want a toy?
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