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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm single and. I have been for a year and now. I want to start dating. I haven't had a boyfriend in 3 years, waiting for the right one doesn't work, I can see that. Soooo now I want to get back out there, and get a nice boyfriend. But since all my friends and cousins have a boyfriend, they all make little rude comments ete, like: you're lonely, miserable, you're horny ( because I haven't had sex in a year ) or if I text my cousins just to say hey or tell them something the first thing they will say to me is, ''I'm with my man'' or, ''I'm on a date, bye.'' To me that's rude but I don't know if I'm over reacting. I mean when I had someone I never said anything like that to them, even if I was on a date. But I do want a nice guy. But it seems like its not going to happen for me. I been waiting but still nothing. I don't always think about getting a boyfriend. I'm ready to start school, well community college hopefully in august, (also my birthday month :) but I also do miss having a nice time with a guy. like the attention or him waiting to spend time with me and also the sex. But should I tell them to shut up or cut them off? Be mean back to them? Because I can be a real bitch if I have too lol ( sorry) I told them to stop with the comments but I still get those comments. Also ones like here, ''how long has it been?'' Or ''you need a man'' or ''you need to settle for less'' etctera..... what should I do?
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reader, LookAtTheStars  +, writes (16 April 2011):
 First things first. Your priority must be college.Second, ignore your cousins and friends comments, they're just trying to make you feel bad. And that shouldn't be working!Third. You can get a man if you want to, but you must be ready, oh and don't just let him into your life, find out his real intentions. Having a boyfriend isn't just for the attention, hanging out, kissing or sex. It's about understanding each other, and hell, when there's problems you might hurt a lot. Make sure you are ready to fall for a guy, leave some of the things you used to do when single and also, be ready to get into real commitment that isn't just for a while, if you're talking about "a good boyfriend".Goodluck girl :)
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