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writes:So my partner/father of my child has currently enrolled in school so he's obviously been busy. I'm glad he's doing something good for him but he seems to be busy or tired most of the time.I feel like he's slowly getting distant ..and just focusing on himself.How do I tell him he needs to dedicate more time with me and our child because I'm starting to feel left out? Reply to this Question
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (15 April 2011):
 Focusing on himself. So he goes to school because it's entertaining and is a bundle of laughs. He's having so much fun that he's tired to death... You on the other hand never focus on yourself, and your not here demanding that your husband stay at home to entertain you.mmmm.... He's working to get a good job, to provide money for you and your child. Sure, he could spend his time with you, making you laugh and making you feel special. Then fail his exams and get a job paying minimum wage. Why are you trying to hold him back, why aren't you being a proper wife and trying to encourage him.You decided to have sex, you decided to have children, you decided to be a wife. Now you have what you want, your all grown up. Go do what most mother's and wives do, look after the house and look after your child and support the man as much as you can. If you can find the time to get yourself some education or skills, maybe through online/postal courses, that would be better still.Childhood is over, you are now an adult and a mother, try and think like one. He won't be at school forever. The better his grades, the more likely he is to have time and money to take care of you and the children well.Yes honey, welcome to marriage life.
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