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Dating: Help and advice

How can he lose interest in sex with me but watch porn all day?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5381 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend who I live with for over 6 years, he is 29 I am 24. I need some help trying to understand. For the last 3 years his been on medications, he has had lots of weird side effects from the medications, including w...

Best friend gets a boyfriend, now she seems to ignore me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5391 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - Hiya, My then Best friend started going out with her boyfriend about 7 months ago. There good together and everything but i feel fully left out. Its lead to us drifting apart and hardly talking. If we do they're always together, we never get a ch...

My boyfriend is busy working and studying and I feel so lonely at times

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - me and my boyfriend me three years are really struggling at the moment. He's at uni and i work full time so we don't see eachother durin the day. He works in a bar to make his money which means he has to work several nights a week. He also plays ...

When she asks me what's wrong and I say nothing, she just says "whatever"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5391 days ago

22 February 2010 (M) - ok i just to say thanks to everyone who has read my past post heres my question my girlfriend currently broke up with me a while back and ask me out again 4 days ago because she didnt want to see me in pain *supposidly* but she doesnt talk to me as ...

He answers my questions with questions, should I just walk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - I don't even know how to ask for help with this question. I've been asking so many in the last couple of days. Right now my situation is different. In the last month and a half that my boyfriend and I have been dating I have been very up and down ...

How do you play hard-to-get?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5392 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - hi im ally, im 15 and i wanted to know how to play hard to get? i like 2 guys one is 15 the other 17. i dont want to be too hard, but not to easy. can i please get some tips? thanx!...

My boyfriend says he is happy I am pregnant but he is never there for me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5375 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - I didnt know what else to do so i thought i will ask you all.I thought i was happy with having a baby and with my bf,but for the past weeks he has not been there for me at all since i been pregnant,and i feel really alone.I dont know anymore if he ...

How do I tell my bf..I don't like his friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - Not sure how to word this so bare with me. Ive known my boyfriend for awhile as friends then we moved into dating and ive fallen for him big time which has surprised me as i never thought i would as quick as this. But while i love spending ti...

Whenever I need to communicate to him about a problem--he shuts down! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5389 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - My bf and i have a problem with communication. When things are good, all is fab. However if a problem arises - namely if I am upset by something - he shuts down. Tonight i came up with a (hopeful) solution to something that's been an issue for a ...

I need an original idea of what to plan for my bf's birthday!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5391 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - I know this is such a commonly asked question, but I'm having trouble deciding what to do for my boyfriend's birthday. We've been together over a year. I've already decided what gifts to get him, it's the day itself I'm not sure about. His ...

He makes me feel like crap..even when I haven't done anything! Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - Me and this guy have dated for 3 years off and on. We argue about dumb things that don't matter like I didn't tell him i was at the baseball game with my best friend (which is a girl). He gets very jealous and makes me feel like crap when i haven't ...

Should I tell a female know about my problem, first..before we have sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

22 February 2010 (M) - I am 27 and have never had a girlfriend and my only sexual experience equates to a string of infrequent one night stands over the last 8 years. Recently I have noticed that I have become premature to a worrying extent. My question is this, when I ...

Dating him for the first time and I'm nervous! help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5392 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - (Mod note: 2 postings from this OP) So, this guy I've known for 2 years and now we just started talking again but he wants to hangout wednesday and I want to too but im scared. cuz itll be my first time hanging with him alone since i havent s...

Does my ex want me back because he loves me or just because I am dating someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - so, about 7 months ago, my first serious boyfriend broke up with me after us being together for just over a year. i'm still so in love with him, but for the past 7 months he has wanted nothing to do with me, other than just friends in school, even ...

I asked him out and now he's dating my friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5392 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - I moved school about two months ago, I have a crush on a boy there - Let's call him R. He makes me feel nice about myself and flirts with me most of the time, and he is just a generally nice lad. Two nights ago I told R that I had a crush on him, ...

She asked me out and I said no. Have I lost my chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

22 February 2010 (M) - Sorry to repost this, just didn't get comments last time so I'm hoping someone sees this Alright, so there's this chick that I work with. I'm always talking to her when we work together, and we get along pretty well, but we've never really got...

I am no longer attracted to him because he acts like a spoilt child

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - I've been with my older boyfriend for 3 years. We've always had a rocky relationship. Lately, I've noticed a change in my feelings for him. I love him, but I want to leave him. I don't do it because I don't want to hurt him. He used to be a truck ...

My cousin seems to be flirting with my boyfriend. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5392 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - Hello! I have been going out with my boyfriend for about 4 months now. It's going great, however my cousin who I get along well with has recently taken a strong interest in him. She probably just wants to get to know him but I feel really uncomf...

His kids talk horribly about me to his ex wife, and it's putting a strain on our relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5392 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - Here is one for the books. I was divorced in 2008 and started dating by boyfriend in 2009. We moved in together and each have 3 children. My ex husband passed away last August and my 3 sons are here with all the time now. I have to admit it was ...

Confusion over where we are headed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

22 February 2010 (M) - Since moving in together 4 months ago (I moved to China from Australia and we found an apartment after 1 month together - prior to that we kept up a long distance relationship for about 8 months; we met when I was on tour in China; she's 23 and I'm ...

I'm really confused. does he like me or is he just flirting to seem cool in front of other people

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - Heyy, im 16 and there's this 26 yr old on a place i always go on holiday. he always flirts so much with me when people are around and offers sex and all that as a joke, and to be honest i love the attention, in fact ive fallen for him. one night wh...

What else can I do to win her back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

22 February 2010 (M) - Hi everyone, sorry this is a long one ! I recently had an issue with my girlfriend. I came home one night and she asked me to move out as it was her house. We had been together for 9 months and lived together for most of that time as well. I'm 27 ...

Help! Should I give her some space?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

22 February 2010 (M) - Just looking for a little advice here... ive been dating a girl now for a couple months and its been great, everything i could ask for and more.. however the last week has left me questioning one or two things. She doesn't seem as excited or just ...

I don't know if he loves me or not.

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22 February 2010 (F) - I am feeling a little bit weird. my boyfriend is a really shy guy because he says that i'm his first date. And i am the kind of girl who usually cuddles and have fun with boys a lot. not that i don't have girl friends i do a lot but whenever...

I liked being in his arms... it felt so right!

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22 February 2010 (F) - Hi, My name is Brandi. I WAS I'm love... Until my man cheated on me and then told me he was on valentines day... But now I'm like his best friend. Idk what to do... His friend likes me to. I went to school crying one day and then his best friend ran ...

Will my friends think I'm a slut???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - I'm 16 and a couple days ago I lost my virginity. It was with my 2 year long BF and I'm glad I waited till I was 16 and did 'it' with the right person. But, will my friends who haven't 'done it' yet think I'm a slut or will they still be the same ...

How can I stop being a jealous girlfriend so I don't lose my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - I have low self esteem and feel extremely inadequate to be with my extremely accomplished boyfriend. Because of that, I am a very negative person and it is draining him, literally. He is positive and loves me very much but me being so negative and ...

Heartbreakers...??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5392 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - Please i need help.... my boyfriend says he is still in love with his ex girlfrnd, even when she clearly told him she was not in love with him... he says he can't fall in love with me because he believes all ladies are heartbreakers. He said he is ...

Is my man over his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - I have been living with my boyfriend for 1.5 years. He has always been faithful and trustworthy. He does however, mention his ex on a regular basis. He'll reference memories they shared, knew what the weather is like in her hometown... I've found ou...

DOES he have another woman and is playing games with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - I recently made a post regarding my situation about my 35 year old guy who acts like he has a curfew. I tried asking to go to his house and he did give me excuses and he still has not spent a night yet, and i do feel like he has a another women ...

Too close to his secretary for comfort...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5392 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - I am in the third year of my relationship with my fiance, we've been living together for 2 years and I am now 4 and half months pregnant with our second child. Things went very well with my fiance last year, he qualified, has since been promo...

When people are "seeing each other", is there any commitment or is it an open relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

22 February 2010 (M) - When people are "Seeing each other" is there commitment involved or is it more like a open relationship? i dont get it?...

When we have a fight my boyfriend prefers to spend time with his friends instead of talking it out with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - my boyfriend is almost perfect and we have great time.. sometimes he is the one how seems to love me more and he treats very nice to me.. BUT when we have a fight he becomes incurious and he seems that he doesn't really cares to work it out soon...

Followup to my question about my girlfriend's trip to Thailand

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

22 February 2010 (M) - This is a follow up question to the one asked previously. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/she-is-away-in-a-foreign-country-and.html So my gf came back from Thailand and openly admitted to having a couple of Canadian guys (apparently couples...

How can I show her I just want to be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5392 days ago

22 February 2010 (M) - Hello, I have really fallen for this girl, lets say Anne, off my course in University and she now knows this. I had felt awkward around Anne and wanted her to know why I was feeling this way so on facebook I asked if we could talk and she said yes ...

Would it be appropriate to introduce him to some of my friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - I am in my mid thirties and dating again after divorce. A little on the rusty side when it comes to dating so hope you can help? I am in the early part of a new relationship with a great guy. We have just started spending the night at each others ...

I'm struggling to work out if he is gay, can anyone help me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

22 February 2010 (M) - Hi everybody! I am a gay nineteen year old male, and I have a bit of a mundane problem that happens a lot to gay men. Thus, when I came across this site I saw the perfect opportunity to gain a different perspective other than my own. And possibly...

Why are his ex's sisters acting like this when I had nothing to do with the break-up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5393 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - hi, ive been seeing a guy now for about 9 months now. he broke up with his ex girlfriend about a year and a half ago, they had been going out for 6 years.'he told me he broke it off with her as it wasnt working out anymore. when we go out we alway...

How does a girl play hard to get? And how do I get to be alone with a guy I like when my parents wont let me date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5392 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - [Moderator's Note: Two questions from the same poster have been merged into one post] hi i was wondering if you like a guy, can he tell by how you act that you like him? if so, how would a 15 year old girl like me play hard to get, but not too hard...

I'm really worried I may have blown my chances!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5392 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - I'm worried I may have screwed things up with a guy I just started seeing. See, I started talking to this guy on a dating site a couple of weeks ago. He seemed really nice (unlike a lot of guys on dating sites!) and we seemed to really click. ...

I don't know whether I should ask him if I have done anything or just leave him alone

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - Hey just after a bit of advice. I met this guy about 6 months ago after seeing him around a bit. At first he was really keen texting me etc and went to his house a couple of times after meeting up out (didn't have sex though). Then he started to ...

Why do I always act like a total jerk in front of girls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5379 days ago

22 February 2010 (M) - Girls hit on me pretty often but I just dont know how to talk to them and i always stroke out and they think i dont like them and they lose interest asking me question and smiling and similar stuff. I always act like a total jerk but I dont know ...

How do you know if a guy really likes you, and not just for your body?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - this guy stares at me all the time. he looks good to me, but im used to guys who say something to me when i walk by if they are into me. this guy i no went over to him and said he'd get the boy to come talk to me. they were watching me and ...

She was pushing me to have sex with her and once we did, we just stopped talking to each other! Why did this happen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5393 days ago

22 February 2010 (M) - I was dating a girl that is a little older than me. I really enjoyed spending time with her. I feel like I was an amazing guy to her by doing a little surprise here and there that would make her day and I always told her how beautiful she is. I ...

Why am I acting like the anxious one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - Hi there, I'm not really sure what to do. I started talking to this guy several months ago, online. Our level of talk time increased continually. We spent hundreds of hours on the phone, web cam (nothing in appropriate) etc. and I have to say I re...

It seems like I want her a lot more than she wants me. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5393 days ago

22 February 2010 (M) - Okay. There is this girl I really like. She's a family friend so she came on vacation with us this weekend. While we were there, we hooked up twice. We've been talking for about 2/3 months now and that was the first time we hooked up. We also sat up ...

What I can say or do in order for him to realise that HE is the one I truly want?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5393 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - I'm not sure how to handle this situation. I am currently seeing a guy and he is exactly what i've been looking for! However, I told him a while back that I like another guy too. We was in a deep conversation and it just came out - honesty is very ...

Any advice on how I might go about this and possibly take this girl out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5378 days ago

22 February 2010 (M) - Alright, so there's this chick that I work with. I'm always talking to her when we work together, and we get along pretty well, but we've never really gotten to a very personal level, it's mostly just small talk. She's 5 or 6 years older than me ...

I told her the level of sex needed to increase, but it hasnt, should I dump her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

22 February 2010 (M) - I told my girlfriend that I didn't want to have a relationship with her if there wouldn't be regular (somewhat frequent--at least once a week or so). She promised things would change, and they did for about a week, and now things are back to boring ...