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Archived questions from: 14 February, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Should I go ahead with my plans to study abroad or give them up for my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - Basically i just need advise on whether to go ahead with my past plans on studying abroad or whether to leave them behind at the risk of regretting them for my boyfriend. It would be for a period of 4months. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 8 ...

Should I be concerned that he has not told me he loves me yet?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5400 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - I've been with my BF for 6 months. He cares about me, respects me and is concerned for my well-being. I've met his family and friends and I'm a big part of his life. He's told me that he can see spending the rest of his life with me, that he feel...

I could accept that she just doesn't like me but why was she so interested in me the night before?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5400 days ago

14 February 2010 (M) - hey guys, i met a girl that i really liked at a bar the other night, and we just had a great conversation. i wasnt drinking, she wasnt drinking, i was just being myself and the reason i didnt ask for her number is that i dont really pick up girls at ...

How to provide her with comfort?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

14 February 2010 (M) - Hi. I need some advice, i've been with my girlfriend for 9 months now, i'm 27 and she's 36 we both have a lot in common and share some great times together. Her husband died nearly 3 years ago in a motorbike accident and she also has two daughters ...

How long to wait for sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5400 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I just ended a relationship for many reasons and our sexual connection was weak. Most of the time it was just straight sex. We had oral sex maybe every blue moon. When I was married I enjoyed oral sex very much and have missed it a...

He's messing around with my heart...should I just move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - Hi i'm really stuck and needing advice desperately! i split up with my boyfriend of 4 years over christmas and new year, it was my idea for us to split up. I had become very unhappy in the relationship and it was at a point where it had become ...

I spent Valentines Day spent alone while my bf preferred to be with his friends!! Advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - well today is Valentines day. I've seen my boyfriend once before he has left the house for church. I didn't want him to leave this morninq but its church so i feel as thouqh i cant qet mad. My problem is that he's been home [the apt upstairs] for ...

Is he pulling away because of the grief/stress in his life...or has he lost interest in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - Is it grief, or lack of interest? My bf recently lost of a loved a while ago and has been having a very difficult past few months. I have been by his side trying to be supportive and helpful. We live together. The past few months have been ...

Whilst we were on a break he fathered a child - What should I do?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - I really need advice from people who have gone through my situation or know of someone who has. I'll try and keep it short. I was in a relationship with a guy for 2 years when I told him we needed a break so he could sort himself out, our ...

Why do guys only see me as sex object?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - Im 20 and i've never had a guy on valentines day. I'm always single and lonely on v days:( All guys thinks Im cute and sexy and they only come to me cos of sex. Been single for 14 months now (no sex) and all the guys that have come my way just...

Single, lonely, jobless and a virgin! Feeling down..can you help!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

14 February 2010 (M) - I'm single, lonely, just got terminated from my first job (not my fault, long story), virgin, living with my parents, and don't have many friends. I know people have worse problems, but I get down. :( I know that I can find a gf if I ask a bunch ...

Is my bf gay/ curious?? Please help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - My bf and I have been going out for just over a year. About a month ago I moved out on my own because I could no longer tolerate the living situation I was in. For 6 months my bf lived together and in those six months our relationship went from ...

Making out with my bf for the first time--just didn't feel right! Is this a bad sign?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - I have been with this guy for 5 month and he is my first boyfriend and he was my first kiss but a few days ago he made out with me for the first time but it didnt feel right...is this just because it was my first time or am i scared...im really ...

I'm 13 and I know I love my best friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5400 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - [MOD NOTE: Two questions combined from the same poster] 1. What does "seeing each other" mean? I know it has something to do with boyfriend/girlfriend, but I dont know! 2. Help, please! I think I love my best friend. Well I don't think, I know it...

We were both drunk - he kissed me but didn't get my number. Should I try again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5400 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - I was out at a bar last night to see some bands play and I ended up talking to the sound guy, who was really cute. He was flirting with me heavily and I ended up making out with him. This is so out of the character for me, since I haven't hooked ...

He said I'm loose but I've NEVER had sex with anyone else! How can this be?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - okay so last night me and my boyfriend we just laying there cuddling and talking and he told me i was loose..... and he was serious... he said its the most noticeable when hes on top which is one of my favourite positions.... hes the only guy ive ...

I feel my whole relationship is based on a lie...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - hey there i think i need to break up with my bf but i honestly cant i try to get the courage up but i back down and some how im the one saying sorry when he should be the one saying it. ok well this is what i mean by i should probably break up...

MY boyfriend is telling his ex he loves her!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - Hmm, me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while now and we've done everything. However, i went through his chat logs today and i saw that he's telling his ex that he loves her and she is saying the same back (even though she has a boyfriend ...

I know he doesn't like me but its confusing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5400 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - I still have feelings for my ex. He already made it clear he only sees me as a close friend. We never did anything when we were together not even kiss this is why we broke up he saw our relationship as more as a friendship, we act more like a couple ...

Opinions needed! Question about birth control.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - Okay, so I just got the depo prevera shot like 2 weeks ago, and my boyfriend decided about 3 days after getting the shot, it was okay to cum in me.... what are the chances of me getting pregnant?...

I don't feel special to him... Am I being childish?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - Well,I'm with a man who doesn't say "I love you too" when I say "I love you" because he feels he should say it when he wants to, and not because I feel like he should. He says he loves me, just very rarely. Now, it's Valentines Day and my man ...

Am I being selfish or am I wasting my time with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5400 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - dear cupid. its my birthday today and my bf of two years has not called or text me. A few days ago he was complaining of not having money for petrol and food for himself. Last year he did not come to my birthday lunch. Am I wasting time with this ...

I just want my best friend back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5400 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - Dear cupid agony aunts, and uncles. I've been broken up with my ex for about a year now, and am in a very loving relationship right now, I have no problems with my current relationship. My problem is that me and my ex were best friends for years, ...

Boyfriend flirts with all my friends, what should I take it as?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - Okay, so me and my boyfriend have been on and off for 9-10 months and he flirts with all of my friends. He knows I'm sorta pissed at him right now-but he doesn't know why. So he's trying to think of a way to make it up to me. I love him and care for ...

Boyfriend doesn't want to spend time with me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - i am in a commited and long distance relationship.my bf has gone crazy.he says he wants to study and won't allow nebody to interfare,not even me. :( he has started ignoring me.even on valentines day,he didn't msged me much,and when i wanted to talk ...

Am I being blind or just paranoid?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - I just wanted to know if I'm being paraniod. My bf and I have been going out for 6 months now, we have a age gap of 10 years, he's 21 and I'm 31. I've got 3 kids and he has none. He cheated on me in our third month, told me the truth about it. ...

Why does he want to keep me a secret? Is he just using me???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - Well im seeing this boy, and he asked out another girl (my best friend). So i immediatly dumped him, my friend didn't know we where going out (well seeing each other) at the time, so I didn't say anything. Luckily she said no. Then about a week ...

Is he being honest or is the relationship going to end?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - I've been seeing a guy for 5 months and everything has been great until now. He's asked if he can have some space as he's got some problems he needs to resolve - basically he's he is beginning the proceeds of a divorce from his ex wife. He's also ...

How does one stop being so full on in the early days of a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - Bit of an obvious question but wanted some opinions. How does one stop being so full on in the early days of a relationship? ...

Am I REALLY that repulsive???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - I have been dating a great guy for abt 2 months. Things have gotten more intense the past couple of weeks (lots of kissing). Last night, I really wanted the sex to happen ( and it seemed like he did too). Then when I was mostly undressed ...

Great date, great sex... and now no call from him!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - I met this guy two weeks ago and he was very interested right away. We kissed right away as we were out dancing and drinking, and I tend to move fast with guys. He got my number and called me the same night when I got home! We talked, but I was more ...

Opinions needed!!! How do you know when your relationship is coming to an end?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - hi, I'm 24 and been with my partner 3 years. I do love him but I'm not sure if i am in love with him. After 3 years we only now started going out places because I basically have to keep on at him because he doesn't take me out anywhere. Well ...

When is the best time to end it with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about two months. I knew it was stupid to even get in a relationship because I'm moving countries in the summer. All along he's had moments where he's just really annoyed me. He never knows when he takes things to ...

I treat them so special yet they don't seem to see it. What am I doing wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

14 February 2010 (M) - it seems like every time I try to talk to a girl they are interested in me but then they always try to talk to other guys behind my back. I do everything for them but they don't seem to see it. after a certain stage in dating, I treat them like they ...

Our relationship is going down the drain... help!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5400 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, Aunts and Uncles: I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. Our relationship is going down the drain and I'm trying desperately to save it, but I'm in need of advice as I don't know how to deal with this. I consider myself to be a s...

What changed in our relationship that is making him go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5400 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - What changed in our relationship that is making him go? This is the last thing I thought I would ever be doing at 2:30am on Valentine's Day. Last night my boyfriend of 2 years asked me to sit down and talk with him and continued to express to me th...

Should I tell the boy what might be coming for him or just wait it out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - Hey on friday i was at a restarunt with my best friends and my boyfriend and his friend. My best friend had to be getting to know one of my boyfriend`s friend and she barely talked to him. [she said she was nervous and so forth, and after the date ...

Help!! How can I find out more about his past sex life without sounding paranoid???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - I am in love with my boyfriend. The only thing that bothers me is the fact that he is far more sexually experienced than me. We have been sexually active for months now with each other and he claims that our sex is the best he's ever had. But ...

I'm in love with two women. Who do I choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - I love two women and I don't know what to do. Mary was my first lesbian relationship / first girlfriend ever. We connected very strong sexually, but the emotional and basic relationship compatibility did not match, even though we were madly in...

I caught her red handed cheating on me!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

14 February 2010 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years now.. i am not happy with her.. i caught her red handed cheating on me but she always tries to convince me in a fashion that i was wrong... i dont trust her any more... i really wanted to break up with her ...

Was his reason to cancel legitimate or was he blowing me off?

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14 February 2010 (F) - I was supposed to go on a second date with this guy tonight.. supposed to meet at 9.. i needed a little more time so i texed him saying is 9:30 ok? and he says cool at about 9.15 i get a call from him and he didn't sound too happy and he said he g...

I was wondering why a guy would leave someone like me for someone like this?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - Guys, I need your opinion here. I am (what people say is) an attractive, tall slim brunette. I have only been with the one guy in my life and I put everything into our relationship. I was open, honest, trusting, always cheerful and fun to be ar...