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Archived questions from: 9 February, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Should I ask her out, or is she just being kind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5403 days ago

9 February 2010 (M) - there is this girl in high school i really like but i can't tell if she likes me back. i first me her when she asked me to help her on her essay and ever since its been going up hill. i asked her to go to the mall with me and friends she said she ...

I feel to dependant on him, it's making me insecure.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5403 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months now and things are great between us but recently I've realised that I'm too dependent on him. I used to hate school and was the first to take a day off when I wasn't feeling quite 100% but since he came in...

Are we going out? Will he formally ask me out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5405 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - OK here goes, I really like this guy and introduced myself to him, a shy foreign exchange student. We started talking a lot in outside his classes or the library and after one amazing conversation, we exchanged number. I initiated that. The first ...

I'm shy when it comes to asking girls out. Can someone help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

9 February 2010 (M) - can anyone tell me how to ask out a girl? i know this sounds stupid, but i mean i havnt asked out anyone only been the one asked out. i really dont no how since if i try talking to girls i become a good friend to them but i wanna ask them out before ...

Peer pressure about sex, should I give in?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

9 February 2010 (M) - Ok at my age not alot of the people i know are still virgins i sort of am. but its like it dont matter. it feels like if i have sex then i wont be invisible to them anymore. mu girlfriend want to have sex but i think its abit early. but do...

Valentine's day 2010...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

9 February 2010 (M) - For those who don't know or haven't read my posts before, my name's Josh, and the biggest aspect of my love-life at the moment is that it hasn't existed yet. To read more about this, check my column and my other articles out (Y) However, this ...

How can I get boys to be interested in me instead of just slaggy girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - heya, I am pretty confident and love to have a laugh. Sometimes i feel like im really not popular with boys and if i am, its because they want me as a friend. They seem to love all the slaggy girls who will do anything for them. There is this gi...

I can't seem to read guys feelings

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - Sounds vague but you all sound so experienced with men and women relations. I'm kinda cold and never notice these or never bother to actually..but is it possible for a guy to harbor feelings for you and yet u never see him or are in touch. is it ...

Men have a natural hatred for me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - (Mod Note - Op's own title. Text edited for clarity) can some one be a born reject.guys have always being rejecting me since i was 18 yaers old. that its is me not you routine. the rejection towards me is aggressive, they've treated me like ...

He told me he loved me after one day. Creepy!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - Okay, this may take a while to read, and it's pretty complicated... Basically, I kinda liked this guy at my school for a while and we talked and stuff, and everything was fine. Until a few weeks ago, I met a boy whilst I was out with some friend...

Is he shy? Just being nice? Should I bother waiting for him to make a move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5405 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - Shy, or just being nice? Met a guy on public transport. We have a lot in common, have good conversations when we see each other. However, don't see each other very often (mostly 1-3 a week) because we both have demanding jobs that can ...

I need tips for first date conversations

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - hi im going on a first date tomorrow we are both shy people with out alcohol and have only met face to face after a drink. please give me some tips and topics to talk about but nothing to cheesy as i am 18. i now i must be myself but what else wi...

What would be an appropriate valentine's day gift for a fwb?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - I'm going to be spending valentines day with my closest friend. he and I have been real good friends for 3 years but have been fwb, too, for the past year and a half. we both agree that we're closest to each other of everybody we know. he's really ...

He's insecure about relationships in general, and seems distant now.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5405 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - okay, long story short: met this guy a month ago, we've talked every day since weve met and hung out as well. he has told me many times he has feelings for me, i was reluctant to develope feelings at first. this weekend he had a party, i had a lot ...

Is she into me just as much as I am?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5405 days ago

9 February 2010 (M) - theres this girl who used to date my best friend i used to talk to her everynight allnight on msn. she then broke up with my mate and i began having strong feelings for her i told her that i liked her but i then made the mistake of telling her t...

Is it a good idea to get her a going away gift before she leaves for Australia for 5 months?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

9 February 2010 (M) - Me and this girl have been hanging out quite a bit recently. I got her number at a party a few weeks ago and weve talked a few times and hung out a couple but just recently been going over to her house, she invited me to a hockey game with her, and ...

I'm 19 and my bf has a 16 year old daughter who is doing everything in her power to split us up.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - my boyfriend has a 16 year old daughter. i'm 19 and he's 50 - she's had a problem with us being together for the whole year and a half we've been together. at first i tried to get on with her but she started being devious and trying to get him back...

I made out with my friend and now he has stopped calling me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - hi, am very distrubed, i had a friend, we have been together for aby 6 months, no sex but be shared good times together, but one day, we decided to make out for the FIRST time, and after that, he never called again. i called and texted him, he ...

I really care about her and would like to know how she feels.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

9 February 2010 (M) - ok i have this girl and i was her first well that was the one and only time we had sex then i move away i'm back now and she has a kid (not mine) and a old man and we have became really good friend like so good we talk ever minent we are alone if ...

I don't want to get too comfortable as friends if perhaps we both want to go farther.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5338 days ago

9 February 2010 (M) - I'm 26, she's 25. it's been 6 years since i seen her last, i had a huge crush on her before and we hung out a lot but i never really put on any moves on her. i didn't have a lot of confidence back then but these days i'm VERY cocky. She just got ...

I just think if a guy likes u he will be in touch everyday! am I wrong? Do I need to be more patient??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5405 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - I was wondering if anyone could share some opinions on this and if i'm expecting too much! Ok so met this guy (kinda knew who he was before but not really to chat to) he took me number, we were texting all week he was always asking question...

Now that I'm free, I'm wondering if my availability suddenly makes me unwanted.?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

9 February 2010 (M) - So I'm divorced now, was married for 6 years. Now single, confident and trying to get back into dating. During my marriage I seemed to always get vibes from girls that seemed to like me, but now that I'm free, I'm wondering if my availability ...

Should I disconnect the friendship or should I play smart and act strong or should I move on and forget what had happened or should I wait for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5405 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - (Modf Note - Op's own title) I met this guy online while playing poker. Then he traveled from another country to come see me and take me on a vacation. We spent a week of vacation together. We made out two times but didn't have any sex. After th...

How can I tell if an old flame actually likes me or just wants to be friends...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - i met up with an old falme on saturday night for a quick drink, but now im getting mixed signals. How can i tell if he actually likes me or just wants to be friends...? after meeting with him i went out with a couple of girlfriends, i texted him ...

Does having a drivers license - or not - affect getting dates?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

9 February 2010 (M) - will not having my drivers license in a rural town affect if girls will date me? Due to slow and unmotivated parent still dont have it. Its the root of much of my hesitance to date, does it matter?...

Do guys kiss and tell?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - if you kiss a guy or he kisses you, will he go and tell everyone about it? is it possible if i ask him not to tell, that he won't? please help me (im 15)...

The thought of her doing that with another guy disgusts me!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

9 February 2010 (M) - I need your opinions. So last night my fiancé was giving me head. As I was about to finish, I pulled it out of her mouth and finished on a towel. She seemed surprised and asked why I didn't finish in her mouth. I said I didn't know, I didn't t...

He's 12 years older and I'm scared to move forward.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5403 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - I am a 25 years old going on 26 and have never before dated anyone more that 4 years older than I am in the past. I recently met a man who is 38. I found out his age after I realized how interesting and intriguing he is. I do enjoy his company but ...

I can't choose between the nice man and the emotional one!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - I broke up with a lovely man who treated me well, but didn't have much in common with me. It was a hard decision but I felt I really needed more of an emotional connection. I started seeing another man and we became heavily involved. I am absolutely ...

Am I incapable of being in love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5338 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - I have had some of the greatest relationships but wonder if I am incapable of love. Guys get really attached to me and I dont know I cant get into the love part of the relationship. I get “blaséd about the whole thing. I wonder if it is because ...

He says I'm needy, is it me that needs to change, or him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been arguing because, when we are together, he often zones out and does not reply to what I am saying. I always respond to his concerns, but if he is zoning out (which happens often, even though we only see each other one day ...

I love him but I can't handle our differences what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5405 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 4 years now. I really love him but I am not sure if I am in love with him. When I began dating him I had self esteem issues and now that I am more comfortable with myself, I'm not sure about our ...

Does my boyfriend drink too much or am I reading to far into it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - I would like to ask peoples opinions on what you consider to be too much drinking when it comes to your bf/gf? My bf is a really great guy, his drinking is mainly while watching hockey with the boys, which doesn't bug me. It's about how much/how...

Should I make a big deal of the fact we have no official anniversary date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5406 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - Ive been dating this guy about 3 months now and just the other day i had a fight with him about when we started dating because he hasn't actually said to me that he wants me to be his gf and what not.. he just started calling me his gf about a month ...

I want to do something nice for valentines without spending a fortune!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - I want to do something nice for my boyfriend( we've been dating for about 2-3 months) for valentines day but i dont really know waht to do.. ive never had a boyfriend before and ive never celebrated the day before could some one give me ideas on ...

Will me leaving him before cause us problems in the future?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - I met my now BF almost 8 months ago. At that time I was 'chasing' the hot, popular guys and he was more of a quiet type and never pushed me into anything. We had about 3 dates and I called it quits because I couldn't see that 'spark' with him. I ...

Am I doomed to be alone for the rest of my life. HELP!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

9 February 2010 (M) - I am a 25 year old male, and its been 5 years since I've had a relationship that matters. It lasted for 10 months and she decided one day that it was over and that was that. Since then I've had maybe 2-3 attempts trying to start a relationship with ...

The constant want of attention is catching up with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend well over a year now, and i think theres something wrong with me I constantly want attention. We see each other most days after work and we normaly have a day or two off in the week where we have time to ourselves. But wh...

I don't mind being a little kinky, but I don't like pain either!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - I am 19 years old and I have been dating my boyfriend for close to a year now. We started having sex a couple of months ago. He is the first guy I've had sex with. I love him and I know he loves me as well. My problem is this. I know that he has s...

Has he gone off the boil?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - So I met this guy a week ago. We hungout Sunday night and Tuesday night. He's 35 has a 10 year old. He's been divorced for a couple of years. When I left his place Wednesday morning he said he would be in contact soon. Well I know that he does have ...