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Dating: Help and advice

He would rather me look at porn and pleasure myself then go to him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

7 February 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years. I am 24 he is 28. About 3 years ago he started to go on a lot of meds due to an injury.(long term injury) Long story short about 6 months or so after he started taking the meds his sex drive was almost t...

I love him to pieces, but he treats me like I'm worthless...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

7 February 2010 (F) - Hi guys, I hope you can give me some insight on how to deal with this. I absolutely adore my boyfriend to pieces, but he's stopped making me feel good. we used to be SO close it was sickening. A year later and hes just... blah! He doesn't ...

Need advice on Valentine's gift!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5407 days ago

7 February 2010 (F) - Hi I need some advice for Valentine's day please? I started talking to this guy at the beginning of December, we've been in constant contact ever since and I recently flew to see him and it was really wonderful amazing so now we're doing the long ...

Why would this guy stand up my daughter??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

7 February 2010 (F) - this question is on behalf of my 18 year old daughter. She has had some very bad experiences with dating. A couple of weeks ago she had a former boyfriend "friend" her on facebook. He initiated all contact. He is in college away from home. He ...

If he doesn't talk to you or call, is he not into you or just shy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

7 February 2010 (F) - After reading 'He's just not that into you' I was wondering, from a guys point of view, are all guys like this? For instance, Is it true that if a guy doesn't like you, he won't call/talk to you.... Or can guys be shy or whatever, like girls c...

Should I kiss him at the party?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

7 February 2010 (F) - im 15 and there is a boy that i like, he is 17, we are both going to the same party soon i really like him but im not shore if he likes me. when im around him i want to kiss him so bad but i don't want to because he might not like me. what...

Dating but relationship is going cold...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

7 February 2010 (M) - I'm seeing someone right now and for a while things were going great. But now things have gone kind of cold. We went out for a few weekends and she had fun but now she seems to be withdrawn and have a lot of stuff on her mind right now. About 3 w...

I feel neglected by him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

7 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend lied to me about going to work, he said he had work from 2 to 5 and lied about it instead i think he went to his friend's house and played video games, he came over at 5 and stayed the rest of the night acting all affectionate so i knew ...

I didn't give my girlfriend space...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

7 February 2010 (M) - Ok, me and my girlfreind broke up over something I did, not cheating or anything to do with girls but a lie about something important to her. I broke her trust badly. She said she wanted space but I was very upset because we had never had this kind ...

Opinions needed. My first time...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

7 February 2010 (F) - Hi. me and my boyfriend want to lose our virginity together, as we have been discussing ideas. Any ideas you have would also be welcome! He hasnt seen me completely naked yet, but i said i would like to wear a sexy outfit at first, i'm not sure what ...

Should I make contact with him again or just move on???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

7 February 2010 (F) - Hi everyone i would like to give thanks in advance for the advice that is given. I was seeing a guy called liam over the summer of '09 and it ended as he wanted to get back with his ex (he was still in love with her). So that ended and then i ...

Why don't I feel the same love and desire for my boyfriend, and how do I get back to where it was before?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5332 days ago

7 February 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a year. We have been very happy, i love spending time with him and he always makes me feel better. He is so nice and he is really the only guy who would really understand and put up with me. He is ...

17 and pregnant???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

7 February 2010 (F) - Hello, I'm seventeen and i posted a concern on here a couple of days ago. Like i said before i had unprotected sex sometime around the 15 or 16th day january and my period was due on the 26th of january. It is now almost two weeks late and im ...

We send our nude pictures to each other but how can I tell him I want more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5407 days ago

7 February 2010 (F) - This guy I knew from school almost hooked up once (almost a year ago) but didn't because I was not single at the time. Now I'm single and I'm pretty sure he is too. We still talk and he often sends semi-nude pics of himself and asks me to do the ...

Am I too needy? I want to show her I care though

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5337 days ago

7 February 2010 (M) - I met a girl through a mutual friend in NY. She's seems to be everything I want in a girl. We've been dating for ten months now. When we first started dating (for the first couple months), she was a sweet happy girl that truly respected me. When we ...

I haven't heard from him since. What do you reckon is happening here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5407 days ago

7 February 2010 (F) - He is a relative of mines, yet distant. a few years ago, he contacts me for a favour..something to do with his music. I said I dont have what he wants but then he started talking more and more...until one day he just showed up at my door without my ...

My boyfriend doesn't get jealous?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

7 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend doesn't get jealous. Is this considered a good thing or a bad thing?...

Girlfriend of 10 months lies to me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

7 February 2010 (M) - Ok i'm having this problem with my relationship... My girlfriend, of 10 months, lies to me. She lies to me about where she goes, especially at night time. She tells me that she's going to sleep but goes out. I know this because when I get off from ...

Should women make the first move?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

7 February 2010 (F) - Should women make the first move? There is a guy I really like a lot. We are good friends, but I would love to have a deeper relationship with him. We are both shy, and although we flirt etc, nothing has ever happened. We are both single, and have...

Do you think people can really change? Can we really forget the past and move on??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

7 February 2010 (F) - Sooo a lot has happend in the last year, in fact a lot has happend in last 6 months to be honest, so here goes - last september my boyfriend of 6 months decided to end it with me, we had been through a lot miscarriage, lies and whole lot of rubbish, ...

My guy lasts FOREVER and can't even orgasm when he masturbates...help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

7 February 2010 (F) - On Jan 19th I lost my virginity to my bf (who was also a virgin)...and he lasted at least an hour, possibly upwards into two. I only know that before we started it was 2:30 am and shortly after he finally came it was 4:30. I was in pain, obviously, ...

Selfish lover...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

7 February 2010 (F) - What do I do? I love my boyfriend - he's perfect for me and I can't imagine being apart. We started dating this past summer before I went to a college 12 hours away, and our sex life was really fun and enjoyable. I have a muscle weakness that ...

Casts and foreplay???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

7 February 2010 (M) - Hi I'm going on vacation with my girl next weekend. we're gonna have sex, and have had it before... ok here's the problem..... Last time we went, she had sprained her ankle a few days before, and she had to wear a walking cast.... we took off ...

Help!!! Is he just using me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5407 days ago

7 February 2010 (F) - I've been seeing a guy now for about 7 months now, i am 20 and he is 26. he was the one doing the chasing. he still hasnt asked me to be his girlfriend. Late 2008 he broke up with his girfriend of 6 years. he has never brought up his ex to me but i...

Absolutely heartbroken...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

7 February 2010 (M) - So I walked into my girlfriend's house yesterday to find another man there. I already knew she'd been involved with a different fella over the past couple of months, but then I find this new guy there. Looks like the first one dumped her and ...

Why does he constantly pick fights with me? Will he ever change?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

7 February 2010 (F) - It seems like my bf is constantly picking fights. when we first started dating it was that he had problems with my sexual history (which isnt bad), then it was that he didnt like me talking to any guys even friends, having a facebook account, ...

Will it get easier even although his daughter is there all the time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

7 February 2010 (F) - my boyfriend of 2 years has a 2 yer old daughter, i try my hardest to be a part of her life, play with her when she is around and i know it sounds selfish but i still cant get used to being number 2. I know its never going to change, but i ca...

His ex is ruining our relationship...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

7 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for just over a year and a half. Prior to our relationship he was in a very intense relationship with a girl named Erin*, their relationship ended, six months later we got together however she will not leave him ...

I want to forget about him but I can't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

7 February 2010 (F) - I joined this web site so i can post my problem and hopefully get help and also try helping others going thru problems. this is my problem i met this guy we will call him sam* We went out 4 a while about 6 months, during those 6 months we broke ...

He made love to me but now considers us friends.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5407 days ago

7 February 2010 (M) - I met this guy less than a year now. He was the first one who asked my contact # and he was the first one who visited me at home. During his first visit he asked me if he can sleep at my place. At first i dont like him but as days passed by i ...

Will out age difference make a difference?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

7 February 2010 (F) - Hi im nina, I just have a question, my bf and i were togetehr for a year and we were doing fine but im just worried, well in these past days I've been thinking about it, about our age differences. Im 18 and he's 27. I met him when i was 17 and he w...

My boyfriend makes me twitch and shake. Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

7 February 2010 (F) - Hi, when i am with my BF my right leg shakes.. I've slowly gotten use to this and recently my arms started to twitch and move, but i didnt really want him to stop.. I was just wondering if this is normal and ok or should i do something about it?...

I've just been given the brush off, or is it true he needs space?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

7 February 2010 (F) - Met a man been together 5 months he lives 200 miles away haven't met up yet. Yes it was an online meeting. Been texting and talking over the phone. Talked to me christmas and new year and while on holiday also speak to him a lot at night. I do ...

What is wrong with this guy, ..he seems to have two faces.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

7 February 2010 (F) - i met the guy called Ray(fake name) at youth club. we got to know each other little bit and bit.then we shared a contact number. we see each other once a week cuz youth club start on friday. ray is friendly,caring and funny guy when he texts ...

How can I tell if the girl at jcrew is into me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5408 days ago

7 February 2010 (M) - I was in jcrew today doing some shopping. while doing so a blonde who works there asked me if i needed help. she was so pretty, her hair was tossed up like kirsten dunst. i looked into her eyes and smiled and she smiled back. i smiled even more, ...

I feel like I am getting the blame for his past bad relationships. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

7 February 2010 (F) - Im in love with a man who is scared of getting hurt, when we are together we have lots of fun and do everything except have sex. He says he doesn’t trust women and doesn’t know if he ever will again. Iv been hurt too and as far as I know iv never ...

How can I get my mom to let me date a boy who isn't Jewish?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

7 February 2010 (F) - I'm Jewish, but I'm not into my religion as much as my mom is. My mom wants me to date a nice Jewish boy but all my friends are different religions. To top it off, there are NO Jewish boys here! We have had arguments on this topic before and she ...

I've been in my relationship for a year now and feel I have lost my identity. What's happening to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

7 February 2010 (F) - I feel like i lost my identity along the way , i'm not sure how or why but around 2 years ago i was -someone- i had my interests i had my bass lessons i had my books that i read i had my own style that just came so natural , people would notice me ...

My mom found my boyfriends underwear and freaked out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

7 February 2010 (F) - I asked my boyfriend if i could have a pair of his boxers, i usually used them to sleep in. My mom didn't know i had them, but she knew my boyfriend. I'm really not close to my mom, so I never told her me and my boyfriend were boyfriend and girlfrie...

Is it weird that a 19 year old is interested in a 16 year old?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

7 February 2010 (F) - hii, im new to this sitee but i jus have a quickkk question. well imm about to turn 16 and the guy imm dating will be 19 this week. is it weird that hes interested in me? (bc of the age) neither of us have a problem with the difference, i was jus ...

I love her. She likes me. How do I tell her that I want to be with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

7 February 2010 (F) - My friend and I are close, and we are gradually getting closer to being in a relationship, but we both are hesitating. I'm afraid. I love her and I know she doesn't feel the same back. I know she only likes me. I don't want to pressure her but as we ...

We've been talking back and forth for awhile now... What does it all mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

Why am I in love with a player??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

7 February 2010 (F) - whats wrong with me... im in love with a player. hes cheated on his past two girlfriends. he used to like me but when i didnt do what he wanted like kiss him or whatever he called me boring. i havent done anything with him ima virgin. i know its ...

Ideas on teenage dating sites?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

7 February 2010 (F) - Anyone got idea's for a teenage dating site? Im not too young to date and dont tell me to not get involved with guys cuz ive never had a bf and im ready. thxx. ...

How do you decide if a relationship is worth it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

7 February 2010 (F) - When do you decide when a relationship just isn't working and isn't worth it? Is questioning whether it is worth it a bad sign? Is not being able to see it lasting a bad sign? I assume it is. What about feeling this way and it has only been a month, ...

Dating for 3 years and now I want to settle down. Am I wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5407 days ago

7 February 2010 (F) - We've been in a relationship for over 3 years. We've had our ups and downs but for the most part we've been pretty good and happy. We have a house and pets together. Is it wrong for me to want to know where its going? I told him I wanted to get ...

Fight I thought was over is resurfacing...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

7 February 2010 (F) - This isn't funny to me, but maybe it will be hilarous to you. My boyfriend and I have been going out for over a year. I love him to bits, but he's not a boyfriend. He doesn't kiss me in public, he doesn't put his arm around my shoulders... It's like ...

I hate having to choose between my beliefs or him! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

7 February 2010 (F) - there is this boy i like and we went out for a week and then he ignored me for a while, and then he came back and was like i'm sorry. he wants to get back together. I really like him ALOT. however, he's like you know what type of relationship i ...

Should I make a fake facebook to see how many ex boyfriend feels?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

7 February 2010 (F) - I was going to make a fake-facebook to look at my ex-boyfriends page. Ok, i dont want people telling me to just get over it and that i dont need to look at his stuff. He got a new girlfriend fairly quickly after we broke up (rebound) And sin...

He says he likes me a lot..but I found his profile on a dating site!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

7 February 2010 (F) - I am 35 and have been single for about 2 years. I recently met a guy at a friends birthday party. He has initiated seeing me every day for the last 3 weeks. He sends me text messages when we're not together telling me he can't wait to see me. Yet ...

She says I don't stand up for her and it's put a strain on our relationship! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

7 February 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend are having some serious problems, and I think we may be about to break up. Our problems occurred from Wednesday - Sunday last week. We saw eachother on Monday and Tuesday and everything was fine. On Wednesday and Thursday she...

Frustrated..my bf can't get aroused! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5408 days ago

7 February 2010 (F) - So about a month ago i met this great guy and weve been hanging out at least twice a week since then. A week ago we officially became bf/gf. Everythings pretty much perfect. The thing is though we havnt had sex yet. For the first couple weeks it was ...

We went on a couple of dates, but he is still in touch with his exes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

7 February 2010 (F) - Hi, I went on a couple of dates with this guy but he has been in touch with his ex GF all the time. They split up about 6 months ago but stayed in touch and they talked about getting back together. Whilst we were on our date she was texting him ...