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Dating: Help and advice

Hanging out with a shy guy- does he want to be friends or date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

20 February 2010 (F) - I met a guy two weeks ago from a dating site. He invited me to go out with him and his friends. I had a fun time and he was attractive and nice. I didn't feel much of a spark but we also didn't have any time alone together, so I was willing to ...

If girls don't usually approach you, are you unattractive????

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

20 February 2010 (M) - if girls dont approach you in clubs does that mean youre unattractive to them? do girls normally approach guys or do they wait for the guy to make the first move? and does anyone ever notice that alot of guys you see in clubs that end up with ...

He has hit me and his ex told me he was abusive...how do I approach it with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

20 February 2010 (F) - I just found out that my current boyfriend who has been suffering from depression and unemployment hit an exgirlfriend (a few years ago) of his multiple times, 'for no reason'. I've asked him if he's ever raised his hand to another woman an...

Is he just using me when he feels the urge?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

20 February 2010 (F) - I had great, great sex with a guy I've met online, and we seem to get on well. After sex he doesnt just disappear but hangs around and chats, and we both feel at ease with each other. But then he disappears! I texted him after 2 days later and s...

I went thru the proper steps...and he hasn't called. help!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

20 February 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am a 25 years old female, and I have been single all my life. Not that boys werent interested in me, it was more of me being choosy about them. Now it is time for me to get married, and I have registered my profile on many matrimon...

I feel like I'm using her a bit but my friends say just have fun...advice from the older aunt please..

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

20 February 2010 (M) - Hi. I don't really think that my situation is special, but I'm really just unsure of what to do. For starters, I'm 17 years old. I started seeing this girl around December of last year and she says she really likes me. We had an official ...

How do I chose which guy to go for?

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20 February 2010 (F) - Okay, I have 3 different guys that like me. Two of which asked me out, and you can tell the other one does, though her has a girlfriend. I was on Facebook yesterday and the question came up 'If [this person] was single, would you date him?' I said ...

Although I have a boyfriend I find women attractive

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5394 days ago

20 February 2010 (F) - I have been dating this dude for a while now and he got a girlfriend. I do love him but I find myself attracted to females. When we go out I never look at other dudes, but always look at females from head to toes. To him, he is the only one I am ...

I want to initiate sex but I don't want my b/f to think I am slutty

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20 February 2010 (F) - Im scared my bf with think Im a slut. so Im seeing anew guy and I like him alot he likes me to but. I guess Im a diffrent type of girl compared to alot my age. I have had sex with one person. I dont really party. I dont hookup etc. My bf loves ...

I feel the need to cheat...

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20 February 2010 (F) - Recently I have come across a huge temptation to cheat. I am not married to the man I am with and am only 19 so the feeling that I should be able to do whatever I want is strongly in my mind, however I know that, that is never the case in life. Me ...

My bf mistreats me..should I take my son and leave him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

20 February 2010 (F) - (Mod note: Poster, we combined your 2 postings as they were both of the same content and topic area) 1) ok well i have a boyfrind ive been with for about six months when we first got together we were so in love. my first husband commited suicide ...

This man makes me feel useless! Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

20 February 2010 (F) - Ok so this is kinda long winded so bear with me on this. Bout 2wks I put a post on this site az iv been with my boyfriend 7yr living with him for 5yr just got engaged this xmas eve just gone. We have our arguments problems etc just like all ...

He teases me a lot...does he want to be more than just friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5391 days ago

20 February 2010 (F) - i have this guy best friend and we always hang out. he's really funny and he is the class clown, he teases me alot. one time we like actually got to the mall, just the two of us, and people started teasing the two of us. and after that, i cant tell ...

Does it matter if a guy is shorter than a girl?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

20 February 2010 (M) - Just a quick question for the ladies especially. Would you be put off a guy if he was smaller than you, height-wise? There is a girl in my class at school, who i get on with really well, talk a lot, and sometimes have a bit of a flirt, but inam ...

I want to make sure our first time is enjoyable for my girlfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

20 February 2010 (M) - How many times does a woman orgasm on average in the time it takes for the guy to climax? Me and my girlfriend are going to have sex, and i want to make sure she gets satisfied. I have a lot of stamina, i just want to make her happy....

I got drunk and made out with another guy, and now feel guilty

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5243 days ago

20 February 2010 (F) - Ive been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now. Right now were doing long distance and i see him every month and a half or so. i was basically with him all the time for the first month, then left for uni, came back and had a solid month with him, we ...

He rushed into an engagement, rushed into a mortgage now he is having second thoughts

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

20 February 2010 (F) - I apologize if this will be long, but there's alot to say here.... Recently, my fiance (who I've been with for 5 years and have been engaged to for almost a year next month) asked me if we were rushing things. I asked why he thought that, an...

I read my boyfriends texts and now my world has come crashing down

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

20 February 2010 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend now for neally 6 months, and I've trusted him untill now. Yesterday I was bored and I know it was wrong of me but I had the urge to see his texts. In saved messages I saw a text saying 'well you can see...

Since he cheated my life has never been the same

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

20 February 2010 (F) - I'm at breaking point and so is my partner. I don't know what to do anymore. He cheated at the begining of our relationship and I have obviously not dealt with it. My anger has grown to such a point that I don't know if it will ever get better....

Work and study gives me no time to party with my girl

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

20 February 2010 (M) - I have been dating my girl for 3 months now. I love her so much and she loves me too.Am a post graduate student trying to put my life in the right path, by concetrating on my education while working part time.I am still living with my Parents. ...

I am seeing a new guy but am totally paranoid that he might treat me as my ex did!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

20 February 2010 (F) - Ok so recently I have been seeing this new guy and he is 5 years older then me. which I dont care about but we are doing long distance right now. Im totally happy and I know hes happy too. At the same time Im totally questioning everything..like why ...

Was she snogging for my benefit or did I over react?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

20 February 2010 (M) - Hi, just want an opinion on this one. I was out last night and my ex was there. We don't really talk much these days but she is the sister of one of my friends so we will occasionally bump into one another. I went to the toilet and she was s...

A question about sex

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20 February 2010 (M) - hi, well i just want to know that I am in a realtion and i am happy too, but the thing is when ever i sex with my partner she losses her power very fast , ( her water came out) i dont know what to do in this situation ,, can you suggest me wt ...

Since I have a girlfriend the thrill to masturbate is gone. Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

20 February 2010 (M) - Since I have a girlfrriend (we do not do anything sexually except hugs and kisses, we're 16 and i'm a virgin) the thrill to masturbate is gone. It's like i don't want to masturbate anymore. Is this normal? Or is it because I miss her because I ha...

I am a touchy feely guy but sometimes she will turn her face away

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

20 February 2010 (M) - Im 16 years old and i am in a relationship with my girlfriend, she is 17 years old. we have been going out for almost 6 months, and i love her to bits, we are both emotionaly happy and in tune with each other but whenever i go to slide my hand down ...

I really liked him but through shyness said I couldn't go with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

20 February 2010 (F) - I just turned 16 this year and I’m troubled over my feelings. Since Sec1, I was attracted to K and we always hang out and he would write me some silly notes that made me laugh. He would walk me back home and carry my bag for me under the hot sun. At ...

Love or an obsession?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

20 February 2010 (F) - Can love be easily confused for an obsession?... I love my bf to death and he feels the same about me but we fight a lot and feel strong feelings of leaving one another but the same about our love. Could we be obsessed with one another, comfortable ...

I hate it that he has anger issues but I love him too. Love shouldnt hurt like this

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

20 February 2010 (F) - How can i settle differences in my relationship without making an argument worse? My bf has anger issues and its never easy talking to him about anyhtin. It seems like everything gets him upset. He never thinks he's wrong and doesnt say sorry when ...

Everyday I wait for a call from him, and wait and wait ..

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

20 February 2010 (F) - Hey Guys, Thank you for this site cuz whenever I have problem, everyone is trying to help me.. I have problem with my bf whom I havent seen him since he went to his country for 2 weeks because sickness of his granddad. I know its really hard for ...

When she is in a mood there is no reasoning with her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

20 February 2010 (M) - Alright, im in bit of a situation... Well theres soo much to tell but ill try to keep it short. Well my and my gf have been dating for 2.5 years now and im 18 and shes 19. Things started out pretty well, but they were going in the wrong direction....

How can I tell if a nice lady wants more than just a friendship?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

20 February 2010 (M) - I am single man attracted to a lady with 3 kids. I have not dated her yet but have been talking with her off and on for about 6 weeks now. I have mentioned to her that kids are resilent and they are good to have around sorta my way to let her k...

Sometimes I wonder if she even wants to be with me ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5395 days ago

20 February 2010 (M) - my girl and i are together and she says she has no patience for nobody and sometimes she gets mad at me and for me its like for no reason i dont like upsetting her but i also dont want her to act like that so much...and sometimes she dont even act ...

I am considering dating while pregnant to someone else

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20 February 2010 (F) - I met a wonderful amazing guy early last year and we hit it off really well. I thought he might have been the one cos we clicked so much. He sadly had to call us quits fairly early on in the relationship because he had very serious issues he had to ...

We are constantly fighting and having pointless arguments

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

20 February 2010 (F) - Recently, maybe the past month or so, I have no been able to stop fighting with my boyfriend even when I try to avoid arguments. We just got done having a fight about how I hurt his feelings and tried to "challenge" him last night when he was play ...

I told him I'd rung to break off, but he took it literally

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20 February 2010 (F) - Hello, About 2 months ago, I called my boyfriend of 7 years to break up with him because I'm having feelings for my ex, I took about 1 month to think about it prior to calling and realized I needed to listen to my heart. The bf and I had a very...

I want to rush this relationship along to make sure she is mine

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

20 February 2010 (M) - There's a girl. We haven't known each other for that long, but we have been going out on dates. We have talked nearly every day since we met and have really hit it off. We are holding hands, hugging, etc. She has recently gotten out of a bad ...

My boyfriend wasn't surpised my best friend said he loved me

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20 February 2010 (F) - My best guy friend of about 8-9 years told me he loved me the other day. Im in a relationship of 7 years. I do NOT feel he same about him, hes just a friend. I dont want to lose my friend but i dont want him to love me! We agreed to not talk...

My boyfriend assumes I am sleeping around

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

20 February 2010 (F) - I have been dating this man for a while. Lately he's assuming I am sleeping with another man. I am not! However he said, "it's o.k. with me, believe me!" How am I suppose to take that? Confused and Frustrated?...

My boyfriend and his girlfriend and child are moving to another state, and he has asked me to move too

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20 February 2010 (F) - I have been with this guy for 1 year and 3 months now, we are both from the same country, he has a chinese gf that he's been with for a little over 3 years now, they live together and they have a daughter, he spends all his time with me, helping me ...