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Archived questions from: February, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Troubled relationship...

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28 February 2010 (F) - I liked this guy for 2 years. He is a year younger than me. We were in middle school and we had the same spanish teacher. He was the kind of guy that you love him but you don't think he would ever even think about liking you. So I kept it to ...

He said he wants to stay single, but could I change his mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - I met this guy. He's so sweet. He has been single for a little over a year. I have just been texting him for almost two years and I have had a secret crush on him ever since. I want to tell him but im scared. He said he wants to stay single but I ...

I like him but he is so hot and cold!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5386 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - I met a guy through a mutual friend a few months ago. He told our friend that he really likes me and I feel the same about him. The problem is he seems to be blowing hot and cold. He has told a number of people that he is interested in me and when I ...

He has a lot of baggage.. Should I keep seeing him anyway?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5386 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - I met someone recently..i was unsure if i liked him but i knew if i was totally turned off i would have ended the date sooner (we met from online)..the first night we met at a bar and then he offered to get dinner and then we went to get another ...

Her ex wants her back -- do I walk away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

28 February 2010 (M) - I really think I know the answer to this but I needed to be reassured. I have been seeing this girl for close to a month now and everything has been going great. We hang out, or go out to dinner 2-3 times a week. We both have a great time when we ...

He's shy -- how do I get him to open up?

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28 February 2010 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been dating since February 5th and we don't know too much about each other, its like we haven't made too much progress. I know we both really like each other but whenever we are on the phone we usually don't talk. I told ...

Seven-year friendship being sunk over a guy

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28 February 2010 (F) - Ok, yep back again, yeah more problems... i was really hoping the last time i came here would, you know, be the last time. It's really a continuation of the same situation but much worse now... I really need advice, I'm getting it from lots of ...

Was I just a rebound?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5386 days ago

28 February 2010 (M) - Me and this girl I was talking to for a month and a half are no longer speaking. I have no idea why but she just stopped texting me one day. I got her something small for valentines day and she seemed like she really liked it. At first it went ...

My boyfriend keeps getting raunchy pics of a girl he doesn't know. But won't tell her to stop. Am I being controlling?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend is 18 and we been together for 8 months now and it's the longest relationship he's had. But there's this girl who he doesn't know who she is but texts him. And she sent him a picture and in the picture she took with her cell and she was ...

He said he wanted to be more than friends, but suddenly changed his mind. I'm confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5386 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - One day during class, a male transfer student from Italy, asked me for help. I'm the type of person who always helps others, so of course I helped him. (That's when we first started talking.) A few months later after we started talking more, I ...

I am having trouble being able to tell if he cares about me or not

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5386 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - A few months ago my friend introduced me to this guy who worked with her, and we started hanging out and hooking up a lot. He is from Harlem, and not to be racist, i am just trying to describe him, but he's very hood. He says that there is no ...

I'm 13 and have been with my boyfriend for 4 months. I worry about our relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - [MOD Note: Multiple questions from the same user combined.] Im 13 and iv been with my boyfriend for 4months and I have some questions. 1. We havent realy done anything he's said he wants to kiss me but every thime we go to kiss we both get nervis ...

What type of man would be best for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - Who would u choose? A man whos reilable.honest.could trust 100 percent. Caring. Sensitive and shy. But you dont quite fancy them totally like u dont wanna rip their clothes off! Or a man whos gorgeous. Fit body.you just sit there thinking oh my god ...

Jaded from past relationships and afraid to trust a great new guy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - I need some opinions on this: I have been single for 2 years after a series of really bad relationships and a lot of bad choices. I feel like i am finally getting my life back on track. The thing is I met this guy who is really sweet and kind, a ...

My friend says he fancies me, but I'm not so sure

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - If a friend told you that every time you both sat in a coffee shop together that the guy serving kept looking over at you and staring and she believed that he fancied you, would you believe her. My friend keeps telling me this is happening and ev...

Hooking up with my friend... still.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - So back in August 2009 I hooked up with a friend. We decided to continue hooking up, but to just remain as friends. Well 6 months later we're still in the same boat, however I guess you can say the ocean we're sailing in has changed. Over the months ...

Is something going on or am I over reacting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - Im feeling a bit worried now,its going to be 4 months my bf and i are together,and like always in the beginning of the relationship,he texts me everyday but now he barely text me and when were are together,i cant do nothing much with him,he always ...

Never told me he had a girlfriend but now she's angry. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - This guy I was talking to lived 2 hours away. I just found out he has had a girlfriend from the start. We started talking mid January and he never told me. He kept saying how I am so pretty, and amazing. And so much more. He said he wasnt talking to ...

I feel like the only reason he stays with me is because he feels he owes me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together 2 and a half years. we always been one of the closest couples you can meet. the last few months he doesn't seem to talk to me as much or want to be around me, almost as if he's fallen out of love with me. o...

I'm ready to have sex with my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - Hey ppl so ive been dating this guy and well we had never had sex im a virgin and well i think its time to please him can u guys give me some tips to please him mostly with my boobs :) -thanks...

Dating, abortion, cheating, now a break up.

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27 February 2010 (F) - Hi there...i am hoping you can shed some light on my current situation...i know i made a complete mess of everything...pls know that i am deeply hurt for my selfish/coward choices...and don't need anyone judging me...i need serious advice. So.....

Am I fling or something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5387 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - So there's a guy who I'm talking to right now. We've talked a lot for the past three weeks. Some days we talk/im/webcam three hours, others we talk maybe one hour, then other days, we're texting nonstop. His girlfriend of a year and half just died a ...

My boyfriend has to move for work, and my mother wont let me go with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - okay so heres the deal . my boyfriend got offered a job about 8-10 hours away , and im still in school so my parents wont let me go with him .my school year so far has been hell and my boyfriend is like the only way ive been getting through it ,to ...

How do we deal with an unlabelled relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - Although we aren't "dating", my friend and I are definitely exclusive. We trust each other and care about each other. We never established a label on the relationship, so calling each other boyfriend and girlfriend all of a sudden is a bit strange ...

I am 13 and confused about love and relationships

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - Im sorry that it's long but my life is confusing.. So i like this guy in my school and he likes me back. I've known him from 4th grade and he's liked me since 6th. A while back in January while i dated my current ex-Boyfriend for the 7th...

I have two men in my life, how do I choose which one?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - I am a 30 year old attractive and smart female. I was a former Ford model in teens and early 20’s, and after graduating college, I am currently a VP in pharmaceutical sales. How do I choose? Here’s some background on the men. Guy #1--We’ve ...

Dating for two years and now having to take a backseat

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27 February 2010 (F) - I have been dating this guy for two years and now all of a sudden he got his daughter living with him and don't want a serious relationship he wants to be single again but yet he tells you that he loves you but not in love with you but on the other ...

Should I protect other women from him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - I let my self get used, played, hurt by this man. This man picks women that have sworn off men for years and gets them to fall for him. He has a way to make you want to believe him. When you show any distrust he'll tell you its because of the way ...

Can you move from the 'friends ladder' back to the 'good ladder' if its an ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

27 February 2010 (M) - Alright, I just saw the question asked by another member, and I want to take it one step further, and then maybe even a step further then that, Someone on here told me about the Ladder Theory, which I think is brilliant, my question, lets say you've ...

Am I falling for another loser?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - Hi guys, I'm hoping for some insights. I've been dating a guy since around the middle of February. He broke up with his long term ex about a year ago but they spoke every day on the phone. He is still angry with her which suggests to me he still ...

I don't know if he is playing mind games or not!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

27 February 2010 (?) - basically i met this guy in july.hers a description i found which basically sums him up because writing the whole story would be tooo long The first few weeks or month is sheer bliss. This guy starts off real aggressive, hot and heavy. He can't ...

He says a lot of girls hit on him. Should I be worried?

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27 February 2010 (F) - So, this guy I love, and he loves me, aren't seeing each other yet, but we act like we are. Anyways, he works at an airport thing, so he see's a lot of younger girls,and by that I mean my age 14. He's 19. But at times he will tell me that these 14 ...

He's in an off-on relationship with another girl but I think he fancies me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5387 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid: I have liked this boy for a while and even before he started with this girl. They are on and off. I know he likes me and i like him. He always smiles at me and plays around with me and loves to make me laugh all the time. I feel like...

When does a first kiss happen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - I haven't kissed someone ever and was just wondering if when it does happen. Do you know how to do it? Were you nervous as well your first time?...

My boyfriend is studying too hard, how can I get him to talk dirty to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - i m in a comitted relationship.well my bf is a bit frustated because his parents constantly scold him.the reason is bad performance in acaedemics.stdying hard,as well as devoting a bit time to me.but i am bit sad because he has lost interst in ...

I am starting to think is it my fault by boyfriend becomes abusive when drunk

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27 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I are both 24. the thing is he is quite horrible to me when he's drunk. I don't really like to drink, but he'll have a drink of vodka in the house every weekend. I don't know what it is but we really don't get on when he's drunk. ...

I can't decide which career path to take

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27 February 2010 (F) - Hi there. I can't decide whether to train an a midwife or a secondary school teacher, and this indecision is making my current relationship unbearable! My partner has supported me financially for the last 2 years (as I will for him if he chooses to ...

I am "too large" for my girlfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

27 February 2010 (M) - Alright, well I have a pretty large penis. About 7" and over 3" thick. I never had an issue with my penis size until now. I am seeing a girl that I really like. So far the sex has been amazing, but the other night we did it "doggie-style", and after ...

How can I make my boyfriend realize my worth?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - i've been in a long distance relationship for seven months now.my boyfriend and me both love each other a lot.of late, he has started taking less interest in me, he even lied to me once but i forgave him.we even broke up once but patched up within ...

Did she use me just to get pregnant? How do I stop the fighting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

27 February 2010 (M) - hi me and my girl friend have been trying to have a kid her more than me and i almost feel like now that she is pregnant she got what she wants and is always taking me for granted i always been cooking and trying to make her feel good even when she ...

I'm tired of crying over him. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5387 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - at nights is the hardest n im tired of cryin. there is this guy im in love with. he liked mi first but when he liked me i didnt return the feelings then when i liked him i jus didnt wanna date him. but we admitted to liking each other. ive seen him ...

I can't stop thinking about my girlfriend! Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

27 February 2010 (M) - ok so recently i started dating a girl i really like. we talk to eachother a lot and i really like talking to her. so then the power goes out and when the power goes out at my house, it goes out for a while. i literally can't go a second without ...

The boy I have a major crush on said "maybe" to another girl

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - Dear _____ Ok, so i have this major crush on this guy in my class (You know how it is) anyway, everyone says he likes me, i even heard his sister say that he likes me. We are really close friends and we alwats mess with eachother. But i'm afraid t...

After six months overseas my boyfriend is coming home

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27 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for four years now and he's coming back home the second week of March after a six-month tour in England. He joined the military nine months ago, so I've never had that "long anticipation for my true love to come ...

Where do I go to find a wingman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

27 February 2010 (M) - Hi, i am 20 and would like to ask you your advice on something if that is ok? I am a bit worried about getting a girlfriend because i have never had one before and pretty worried i won’t get one if i do not take action. I don’t really know how to go ...

Different Race or Religion, what would your family do?

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27 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years and his family doesn't know about me yet. We live in different states, but we lived together for about a year though. He's 18, so he's legal. We are still soo in love. He wants to tell them about me, ...

Why do cheaters get mad when they're caught?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

27 February 2010 (M) - Why do cheaters always continue to lie, even when they've been caught? Why do they become angry when they are found out? What moral foundation is there for this behavior (why do they think the way they do, and why do they think cheating is okay)?...

Sex before marriage Part II

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - I recently asked a question about being intimate with my boyfriend, but keeping my virginity at the same time (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-want-to-keep-my-virginity-until-i.html)and got a lot of really insightful responses. (Thanks 2 all who ...

I wonder if a player could stop playing for somebody like me

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26 February 2010 (F) - Hi :) Right, heres the deal, there was a guy I met when I went out with a friend from uni, he lives in her halls, we got talking and just had a spark, you know one of those people who you can just talk to for hours? Well, we did, for around 4 hours ...

Same day my boyfriend broke up with me another sent me a lovely gift

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26 February 2010 (F) - right my boyfriend fraser broke up with me today and i`m really upset but i still have feelings for him but 10 mins after he broke up with me a parcel came through the door from a boy called Sean who still loves me and it was a sphere of life which ...