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Dating: Help and advice

I've been dating my man for 2 years and I just want to make him feel extra good for valentines day!

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10 February 2010 (F) - So my bf and I are long distance, and weather permitting, we'll get to see each other this weekend. I was wondering, what are some ways to make him really horny and satisfied. We have not had penetrative sex yet. Please help! I've been dating my man ...

Is his mum trying to turn him against me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5403 days ago

10 February 2010 (F) - this is kinda a stupid question but its eating me inside, recently my boyfriend was taken into a room with his parents then came out, and talked to me saying he needs 3 days a week minimum to himself, and that i ruined a party because i starte...

Wild look!!!

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10 February 2010 (F) - I recently spent a weekend at the beach with my BF. I didn't wear any makeup and didn't do my hair either. When we returned home I got back into my 'beauty' routine and he then told me he likes me the best with no make up and wild hair. I ...

I was only using her for sex... well that was my intention!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5403 days ago

10 February 2010 (M) - My ex girlfriend just found out I was using her for sex when we were dating. Actually, We never had sex, but we were moving in that direction and I was pushing her. She was attracted to me because I helped her with her problems, and when she wanted ...

I haven't had sex for ages and my girlfriend is away, My ex comes over tomorrow but I don't want to cheat on my girlfriend... Temptation!!! Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

10 February 2010 (M) - Dear cupid, as i wrote you i had a gf, and we are practically 3 years years together. The past 4 months she lives in other city because of studies. Tomorrow one of my ex comes to my house, and i know we will have sex. But i'm worried about ...

He's in college, I'm in high school. Therefore, my parents don't approve

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10 February 2010 (F) - Alright, I'm 17 and I met this guy at work who is 19 but he's a sophomore in college (kind of young for his grade) while I'm only a junior. We started hanging out and just like fooling around, nothing serious. But now we've kind of developed into an ...

I am desperately unhappy because my boyfriend of 7 years is constantly critcising me.

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10 February 2010 (F) - I am desperately unhappy because my boyfriend of 7 years is constantly critcising me. I made a mistake when I was young and got with the wrong guy and had two children. My children are grown up now and going to college/doing ok .. I have since ...

Why don't I like it when my boyfriend smokes?

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10 February 2010 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for a while, he's 19 and I'm 17 so therefore he's in college and I'm not. He smokes, not a lot but like a few times every week max. I vowed that I would never date a smoker. I'm not sure what really gets me about it, but I ...

My boyfriend accused me of cheating and hasn't called me

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10 February 2010 (F) - The other day while I was out, a guy who used to like me turned down the street I was driving on and started to follow me just by pure coincedence. Not really in a creepy way, but definitely in a way that if I stopped he would have stopped to say ...

Valetines day for a couple that isn't "lovey"

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10 February 2010 (F) - So my boyfriend and I aren't really the sappy cutesy couple. We don't have pet names, we're not clingy and attached to the hip, and we haven't done the whole "I love you" thing yet. We've been dating for 8 months, and we talk about how we lik...

Eroticism is Not a Competitve Sport

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10 February 2010 (F) - So many times couples focus on the Big O when they talk or think about their sexual encounters. That’s typical for men, who tend to be goal oriented. It’s also typical for women who are disconnected from their feminine essence or who have a lot of ...

He acts as if nothing matters but law school!!!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

10 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend stayed the night at my house last night, and when we got up to leave at the same time this morning--he was going to law school, I was going to work--my car wouldn't start. He acted like it was a huge burden to help me and spent all of ...

How do I survive this without him?

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10 February 2010 (F) - i have a fifteen year relationship, two wonderful kids, seven and three. he will not marry me as i am so interested in money. what will i get out if it, not the fact of our children (young as they are), he is well off, but hasn't always been, he had ...

I'm considering cancelling our date for fear of screwing things up, I'm so nervious! Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

10 February 2010 (F) - what do i do?!? Ive just started dating a guy in college with me and hes the first real boyfriend Ive had to be honest. anyway he asked me to go out on a date with him on sunday but im worried i wont know how to act or what to say. im becomin...

What to do next???

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10 February 2010 (F) - I met a guy from online and we went to a bar.. the conversation seemed to go well even though i was nervous.. i found him funny and nice.. he bought me a second drink and later said he isn't much of a drinker and if i would like to go somewhere ...

Help me! How can I get over him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5403 days ago

10 February 2010 (F) - I was in a relationship with this guy for almost 3 years, he broke up with me for no reason when i ask him he said that i loved him too much. i really loved him and he really broke my heart. after the break up i still talked to him and i begged him ...

What's so wrong with spending a weekend with the one you love?

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10 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i are both still young (18 - 19 this year) He's only had one serious partner with a younger girl whereas my previous relationships have been with men 3 or 4 years older than me who have all been ready to settle down. I now feel that ...

Am I a fool for leaving her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5403 days ago

10 February 2010 (M) - I was with my girlfriend for around five years, although for much of that time I stupidly just considered us friends, even though we were often living together and always sleeping together. During the five years I left her a total of three times, ...

Why is he avoiding me???

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10 February 2010 (F) - I need help :( I am sad and confused. The guy i have been dating for 4 months - well things have changed... he ignored me 2 weeks ago and then slowly started to talk to me after a week of silent treatment. During our conversation this week I asked ...

Opinions needed! Should I stay or leave...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

10 February 2010 (F) - O.K I have been with my man for 5 years now, and we have 1 child together age 3. We also have another on the way. The problem is, he has not had a real job since he left the Military in 2006. He has worked 2 jobs since then, The first job he had ...

My boyfriend told me sex with me was boring!!!

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10 February 2010 (F) - okay.. so im 22 years old.. ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a bit now.. lately he hasnt been able to last that long but during the starting of our relationship even up till about 3 or 4 months ago he was able to last longer and we did it a ...

How do I make things better???

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10 February 2010 (F) - Hi, I am in deep trouble I think. I have been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months. I have been suspicious that he is pursuing other girls throughout this time. He is Arab Muslim and I am White Christian girl. He is 31 and I am 25. I know I ...

Why was he unable to penetrate me???

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10 February 2010 (F) - Ok, I've been dating my boyfriend for the past 6 months. Yesterday we try to have sex for the first time but he couldnt get hard. When he did get hard we still couldnt have sex because he couldn't penetrate me =( . Does anyone have any answers or ...

Am I crazy to throw away someone who loves me so much?

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10 February 2010 (M) - I am deliberating breaking up with my girlfriend. The thought of it is killing me and I have never broken up with anyone before. I made a list of reasons for why I want to end the relationship, and a list for why I want to stay. The "re...

My penis slips out during sex, how can I stop this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5403 days ago

10 February 2010 (M) - So i know i have asked this question but i still feel like i didnt get a good answer. Me and my girlfriend are trying to have sex... we are both virgins so its kind of like going into this blindfolded. We get each other going i get her wet and ...

He only talks to me by email, not in person. Is he too shy?

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10 February 2010 (F) - (I have posted this before, but with less info, please don't delete this!) There is this guy in my school, he's in two of my lessons, and I think he likes me, but I'm not too sure. When we're in our computer class, he e-mails me (he always ...

How can I tell I am in love, and how can I enjoy sex more?

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10 February 2010 (F) - [MOD NOTE: Two questions from the same poster have been combined] 1. Am really confused,how can I tell if am in love. I just dont know what I feel for my boyfriend, I have strong feelings for my ex.could he be a rebound? 2. What can one do to en...

I should run but my heart says stay. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

10 February 2010 (F) - i'm seeing this guy who all my family and friends hate they say i can do better but i love him i no i shouldnt get involved with him as hes got 3 children but he means so much to me and he makes me happy but i dont know what to do my head says run ...

I can't say those three little words "I love you"

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10 February 2010 (F) - hii i have a problem i am in love with my boyfreind but my probleme i can't say it to hem , so when he tell me that he love me i only say me too , and even when i try to say an other thing i don't find any word, so pliize help me...

We do everything couples do but he says he wont be my boyfriend

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10 February 2010 (F) - i've been seeing a guy for 8 months now. he was the one doing the chasing all along. we talk everyday, see eachother weekdays and weekends, basically act like boyfriend and girlfriend.hes met my family and i've met his family and friends and we know ...

I find myself pushing him away

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

10 February 2010 (?) - I met my boyfriend through a friend a year ago and he at the time lived interstate. We emailed each other everyday and found we had similar dreams in life. We travelled back and forth about 6 times for weekends and had a lot of relaxed fun and ...

My dream guy gets angry when other men call me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

10 February 2010 (F) - I just met this guy barely a month,he's my dream man. The only problem he has is that he gets angry wheneva a guy calls me,i dnt know what or how to pls...

I am feeling guilty about my relationship choices.

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10 February 2010 (F) - I'm 23 and in love with a guy 30 years older than me.we lived together for 8months and had the best memories and I never felt that way with any young guys before.It was like a dream for both of us(he would always say It's too good to be true).he was ...

Is it bad that we talk about sex? I think he is trying to get in my pants!

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10 February 2010 (F) - theres this guy that i like and am getting to know.chatting.. and gong on dates with..this guy says he wants to love me..treat me like a princess etc: hes really sweet..and gentleman.. and he keep asking me if i like him and what i think of...

She has threatened to file sexual harrasment charges against me because I don't want to become her boyfriend.

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10 February 2010 (M) - i met a girl on a dateline and she wants a boyfriend but i dont want a girlfriend and she told me that she go to the law and file sexual harrasment against me because i dont want to be with her and she wont stop texting and call me...

Two guys that are the "love of my life": Where can I start?

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10 February 2010 (F) - (Mod Note - OP's own title) I studied abroad almost four years ago and met the man of my dreams. I had been in a bad relationship in the States and knew as soon as I met him that THAT'S what a "real" relationship was supposed to be like--he...

I am tired of feeling guilty for being attracted to older men!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5403 days ago

10 February 2010 (M) - i find myself extremely attracted to older guys! not just because some show signs of maturity and have more in common with me but also because of their physical appearance. this isnt something recent its just something i dont really talk about for ...

I psyche myself up to give my boyfriend a lap dance, ... and then I chicken out!

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10 February 2010 (F) - ahhhh ive been wanting to give my boyfriend a lap dance and make him so horny he screws me senseless. lol. i get in the mood i get a cute baby dolls outfit. i think i look all sexy and stuff i pick out the music, but i get to scared and chicken out. ...

He's been a commitment phobe, now am I becoming one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5404 days ago

10 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I are planning moving in together, marriage children the works after a long time together. However in the past he has been a bit of a commitment phobe and on one or two occasions things have got serious and hes done a runner. All of ...

What kind of hints should I be looking for from a girl that can help me decide whether I should make a move or not?

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10 February 2010 (M) - I think a girl at work has liked me for awhile, but I screwed it up cuz I was just too shy and fearful to approach her and talk to her. She's gotten a bf since, but there just seems to be something there from time to time which indicates that there ...

My boyfriend always talks about sex and treats me like an object. How can I get him to stop?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

10 February 2010 (F) - I have a boyfriend who only talks about having sex with me. I feel it's disrespectful and he randomly pulls out my shirt to look down it. How do I get him to stop?...

Hes always blowing hot and cold.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

10 February 2010 (F) - Hi, i need some unbiased advice!.....basically, i was in a relationship from a young age, 15. At the age of 20, i fell out of love with my boyf, and fell totally for my best guy friend who id known for three years. I ended my relationship nt knowing ...

Do you think he lost intrest and likes another girl now?

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10 February 2010 (F) - Hi okay well theres this one guy that i like like crazy. and before he used to pay a lot of attention to me like he would trip me in the hall way and up the steps he would also walk with me to a few of our classes and while walking with me he ...